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NinaJoy:
Sorry man,,just take it easy on her

Been taking it easy for 6 years plus. I deserve to be happy. When am with a woman that respects me, I just love it, it makes my love deeper. But with this woman, I just detest the word love, and I dont feel it at all.

NinaJoy:
Lol,,wot did u do to her dat made her dis hostile to u

She claimed she wanted to go to MFM for prayers, i told her to make plans so i could drop her off, then she didnt make plans. 4 days after, she said i should go and drop her, i said i wont be able to since she didnt make plans ahead. Next thing, she started with her vulgar and abusive words. At the end of the day, she went and came back immediately when she found out that there was no program holding. A day before this, she spoke to me rudely on top of her voice, and i have warned her about it, and then it happened again the next day.

Winneygirl:
Is your wife a stay at home Mum?

Shes not. She has her own business.

Katier00:
God in heaven and the earth is footstool knows I don't understand a thing you wrote. Pls write properly for easy comprehension

You just want to yab me, i wrote this out of frustration. You can imagine a hardworking man,responsible, carrying almost everything on my shoulders, and still have an abusive, disloyal woman as a wife. You wont understand.

Hi guys,
In the last 6 years plus with this wife, its just the same ball game on and on, no improvement, this woman does not respect me. Talks to me anyhow, as a man respect is what I honor the most in a woman. After messing up, later on she would want to discuss, her discussion sef, u go jst tire like sey na small pikin dey talk, like she does not know how deep the cut of the wound she inflicts, the merry go around is tiring, she same probs, the same way of solving it and its still sure to happen. Most times when i get tired of not wanting to discuss nada cos I knw it wnt lead to anything, she angrily picks the car key and drive out. How can someone disolve a marriage without reasoning too much about the kids cos thats apparently the reason why am still around. I just tire.