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ImaIma1:
I am not aware that when a man proposes, the next thing is medicals. When it's not a job offer.

If you want to do medical tests, that's between both of you to decide ask a medical practitioner.

It's your church that conducts one as part of the requirements for getting married.

Congrats on your engagement

thanks madam

Thank you all.

funmisticqueen:
genotype for both of you, blood group also for both of you especially if your wife is rhesus negative, tests for STIs like gonorrhoea, Chlamydia, syphillis and HIV for both of you.

a pelvic scan for her especially if your wife is older and yet to get pregnant to rule out fibroids and other issues.

A SFA or seminal fluid analysis for only you just to be sure that you aren't firing chromosomally abnormal or blank shots.

Let her start taking folic acid tablets.

Thanks nurse.

MichealKin50:
I proposed to my lady yesterday 31st and she yell 'YES!'. Please house what are the necessary medical test she should do ? Happy 2020

Imaima1

I proposed to my lady yesterday 31st and she yell 'YES!'. Please house what are the necessary medical test she should do ? Happy 2020

loswhite:
oga stop disturbing nairaland with your I really love this girl abeg....why swear with a Bible? She has cheated on you so leave her let us have peace

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Omar09:
I am not sure I have seen your previous post.
But how do you people play with such sensitive stuff like this? Damn. You don't start what you can't finish.

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ImaIma1:
The truth is that you are acting paranoid and childish with the stuffs you are doing...lying that you had sex, asking her to swear by th Bible. Not everyone agrees to swearing even by the Bible.

It's either of two things. She actually cheated and is trapped because she spilled because you spilled and now it blew up in her face.

Or she didn't cheat and just refuses to swear. When you can figure out which one it is, then you can make your decision.

Please disregard those comments from those judgemental guys who have nothing but hate for women

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MiVida:
She is still fucking the guy sef


You're dating a coded olosho! You love her so much indeed! Monkeys like you are the reason these girls think we're weak! I wish I could slap you right now! Your mouth like should I propose!

Useless youth!

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ImaIma1

Hello good evening everyone. For those of you who contributed in my previous thread, thanks so much.

This is the part 2 of it.
Today I didn't go to work so I invited my girl over. She came. I told her I was lying about cheating on her. I brought a Bible and sworn that since e met I have not have sex with another person.

She told me she was lying as well. That she didn't want me to feel guilty so she lied that she cheated on me.
I told her to swear with the Bible she refused.

Friends help me because I really love this girl. But then, I don't want to end up with a cheater.

She left my place in anger. I am confused.

MEGA4BILLION:
Don't worry, she was also lying to test you.

She told me the guy. She is not lying. I know my girl.

ImaIma1:
You started what you could not finish. Now you can't handle the result. She could also be lying. And how is she sure you didn't actually cheat and are now claiming you were lying?

You don't need advice. You know what you can live with and what you can't. Act accordingly.

One question though...What was the intention of the confession you initiated anyway?

She posted a picture of our church member 'male' on her dp and say it was his birthday. After the birthday the pic was still there.

shege45:
the funny thing is, if you open up and say you lied, she too go claim lie and you can’t do anything about it cus na u start am.

I am confused.

Prognose:
Even if she wasn't it was you that asked for confession. You cheated on her with someone and expect her to forgive u but you're not willing to forgive her?

You don't love her pls. Move on.

Reread my post. I said I never cheated.

Prognose:
Obviously she was lying as well.

Op na wa for you o. You can dish it but you can't take it

I doubt she was.

faithfull18:

I was serious, I think you should have asked further questions.

She told me the guy. Her course mate

faithfull18:
Lol, she may be lying too.

We musn't joke about everything. If you don't have advice just read and leave. Thanks.

Hello everyone, I am heart broken right now. Please I need sincere advice and would appreciate if the mods move this to the frontpage.

I met this girl on 31st December, 2017 at a crossover night. We exchanged contacts and became friends afterwards. Months later we started dating. We have been through thin and thick together and I planned proposing to her this coming crossover night holding on 31st December, 2019.
Today when I returned from work I bought some gifts for her so I went straight to her place after work. I gave her the gifts and sh was so happy. Her mom thanked me and the brought food we ate.
After a while I told my girl that I want us to confess to each other the sins we have committed. We both laughed about it and I opened the floor. I told her that I have cheated on her once with my colleague she should forgive me. Note: I lied about this. Since I met this girl I have not seen another girl's pant.
It was her turn to confess. Friends I was shocked when my girl told me that she has slept with a guy while we are dating. This is a girl I love so much and planned to spend the rest of my life with.
Friends I am confused. I don't know how to tell her that I was lying when I said that I've slept with my colleague. And I don't know whether to continue with the proposal or not.
This is a girl I love so much and never suspected her of anything of such.
Please sincere advice.
Thanks