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vladimiros: Seen some pathetic best on this thread.

So sit down let me coach some of you.

In betting you just don't bet big team vs small team and expect miracles

Some games should be a No No. Like Cup games, some iefa champs league games and RIVALRIES.

Avoid erm. Secondly make sure ur combos DO NOT PASS 10.0

You have twenty European leagues to chose the best from.

I hate revealing my secret but he is a good one for you all to bet this week.

Arsenal

Chelsea

Madrid

Barcelona

Hayden

Bvb

PSG

METALIST

STANDARD LIEGE

VICTORIA PILZEn

All these games have a total odd of 11.0

And as you can see all winnable this week. Simple. That just a small strategy of mine

Born 2be Rich: There are an endless amount of characters in the workplace.

There’s the lady you find in the break room, always on a diet and commenting on your weight (God help you if you are proportionate, she will eat you alive). The guy who shows off way too many baby pictures of his not-that-cute-kid. The girl who stays in her office with the door shut, even during fire drills. And the dreaded over-talker who never gets the hint (which might explain why that one girl stays in her office).

We all play roles in our workplaces, many of which are unique to only our office. But there’s a standard cast of characters as well. You can find varieties of them anywhere you go, but they all share the same skill sets. They are the ones who will succeed and the ones who will fail.

In lieu of filling you with fluffy “this is what a successful person looks like” talk, I thought I’d take the opposite route. The following is a list of people who stand out for all the wrong reasons. Fair warning: If you don’t know who this person is at your office, it might be you.

1. The Gullible One.

If I’ve learned anything over the years, it’s that you should never believe everything a company says. Don’t believe them when they say they don’t expect layoffs (the mere mention of that word suggests they’re on the way). Don’t believe that they’ve offered you the highest salary they can. Don’t believe them when they say they can’t negotiate your raise. And definitely don’t believe them when they say “this year has been really bad, but next year you’re going to get hooked up on that promotion you want!”

When a boss, HR rep or recruiter (or anyone playing a role in your career and financial success) states something that makes you tilt your head to the side and think “huh…that seems sketch,” don’t just accept it.

As I’ve said before, the car dealer will act like he can’t budge on a number. But if you stand up and start walking to the door he’ll automatically find a discount for you. Companies are in it for the bottom line even when they’re negotiating things with their employees. They want to encourage you to stick around while also finding a way to save money. And it saves them money to give you a smaller raise, to skip a round of promotions, to make you work through Christmas. Don’t fall for it.


2. The Groupthinker.

Groupthink is a psychological problem that runs rampant in workplaces. Even more if you’ve got a large population of “longtermers” in a corporation. Groupthink is why technology isn’t updated, why policies are outdated, why there’s no new blood (or ideas) on a team, why you hear the sentence “you can’t do that, that’s not how we’ve always done it!”

It’s easy to spot these people, especially if you’re new to a company. They sit in clumps together and they make bizarre statements in meetings, they do the same things every day and they complain when their life is disrupted by something (or someone) new.

If you fight against a mass of groupthinkers, you run a high risk of failure, persecution, derailment and tons of frustration. But if you engage and join them, you will become stupid and possibly unmarketable for your next career jump. Take your pick.


3. The Fearful One.

People do ridiculous things when they’re scared. Just ask anyone who’s died in a horror movie (I mean, who drops the phone and runs up the stairs?!).

Fearful people will cause you serious amounts of trouble at work. If they’re scared of getting fired, they will find a way to point a finger at you. If their project is failing, they will suggest your role was to blame. Drowning people will grab whatever they can to keep their head above water. Don’t stand too close and become that object.

And don’t become the drowning person. If you ever feel worried about something at work, you sense something bad coming your way or you screw up big time, avoid the fear by taking some action. Talk to someone, your boss, your mentor or a peer to get information that will quell your fears. Or fess up and find out immediately what repercussions are headed your way for the screw-up so you’re not worried about the unknowns. Do whatever you need to do in order to avoid becoming the fearful one.


4. Apathetic Guy.

The other day, a friend of mine posted a message on Facebook FB +3.3% stating her frustration that people keep calling her upcoming maternity leave a “vacation.” She mentioned a litany of things that have to be done while you’re on maternity leave (none of it sounded remotely vacation’ish). She referenced this because she felt judged and persecuted for her decision to take the time off.

Consider now the single person. If you haven’t been in this demo for awhile, you might not be aware of this, but single people are also victims of workplace apathy. I’ve actually heard the sentence, “You can stay late tonight to finish this, right? I gotta get out of here and it’s not like you’re going home to a family.”


Everyone is dealing with something. Everyone feels judged and misunderstood every once in awhile. And everyone feels the sting from these moments. Show some compassion even when you’re having trouble putting yourself in their shoes.

Don’t be the apathetic coworker. The grass isn’t always greener, even though it may appear so.


5. The Sore Loser.

Anytime you’re successful or experience something great in life or your career, I guarantee you that someone somewhere will doubt that you earned it the good ‘ol hard-working way. That someone somewhere is the sore loser.

A sore loser will think you got that deal because you’ve got an important last name. Or that you were hired because your Mom sits in the corner office. Or that you simply got lucky (literally and figuratively).

You can’t stop a sore loser from thinking what they want and you can’t convince them out of their opinion. The only way to battle a sore loser is to make sure they’re not right (it might surprise some of you ladies that yes, business can indeed be conducted outside the bedroom!).

Update: It’s been called to my attention by several female readers that the comment above was offensive and diminishes the hard-earned success of females in the workplace. I realize now it was a poor example and misrepresented the very reason I have this column. It wasn’t my goal to suggest that women are perpetuating a Mad Men-era stereotype and that men are absolved of their roles in these scenarios. While it exists, this in fact is NOT a common problem in the workplace. I mentioned it as merely a side note to emphasize the importance in making sure “Sore Losers” are not making accurate accusations by carrying yourself properly in the workplace.

Use your connections and your network to get ahead, but do your own dang work. Show results. Then the sore losers will disappear one by one.


6. Malicious Gossiper.

There’s harmless gossip and then there’s malicious gossip. Harmless gossip is…harmless. But you must avoid the malicious gossiper completely. In fact, put large amounts of space between you and this person.

Assume that since they’re willing to share really bad information with you, they’re sharing it with other people. They’re kind of like the flu.

If you run across a malicious gossiper and they start talking, whatever you do, don’t agree with them. Because the next thing you know, your sentence of “Oh, I agree with you – I bet she totally slept with that guy to get that job” will be shortened to “So and so just told me that so and so slept with so and so!” And voila, you’re screwed.


7. The Apologizer.

I recently attended an event where several startups were invited to pitch. One woman stood up to sell her idea to a room undoubtedly full of millions, a big opportunity for a small company. She looked sharp and ready. But then she opened with, “Don’t worry, this isn’t a crappy website that does blah…”

Well shoot. For the remainder of her presentation, I assumed her website was crappy.

The Apologizer will discredit themselves as soon as they open their mouth. They will start a presentation with qualifying statements like the one above or they will ask for a raise by saying, “I know we don’t have a lot of money, but…” They lose these deals because they show a massive lack of confidence in the statement, regardless of topic.

You don’t necessarily have to avoid this person. Just don’t be this person. The company pays you a salary because they think you’re worth it. You have every right to be in the room and to be having that conversation right then. Why act like you don’t belong there?

Repeat the following statement as many times as you need to before you have an important conversation or make a presentation: Be confident, not cocky.

Source: http://www.forbes.com/sites/glassheel/2013/09/18/the-7-people-who-never-succeed-at-work/

woodcook: well it is kind of strange on the things we attached so much importance to. Now in every aspect of our lives we employed binary decisions: success/failure just to make us feel better. By the way who decides when one succeeds or not at work place on in their life.

It is strange that all the noise about success/failure who did what and who didn't boils down to waste of energy. Has anyone ever try to look at his/her life in light of that of the "ordinary" farmer in the village? Both the "ordinary" farmer and the successful CEO of blue chips companies are doing same thing; passing time and waiting for the ultimate end.

Its just like sitting in a lobby in the hospital waiting to be attended to, you see several people doing different things while they wait: some reading paper, some listening to music with their headset, some just with their thoughts etc At the end who can really say for such that either of those people as failed in an attempt to "utilize" their time while waiting to be attended to?

I personally think that we should stop spreading some self-serving "judgment" around just because if you really look at this the way they are without the worldly connotation attached to it, you would realize that in this battle called life, their is no victor!

Valdblngx: hey man..seems I'm still seeing the old michky. it's too early to start rejoicing, trust me that thang ya called project x definitely heading for the rocks

Valdblngx: BOTH BET WON

gabrielmorinho: Ok! Let me drop the bomb. Stake and go to bed!
OVER 2.5
hungary - andorra
Turkey - holland

COMBO
belgium 1
serbia 1
denmark 1
italy 1.
Goodluck!

Spambot: name my twin brother dey here o

domcarez: Azerbaijan u21 v Portugal u21 over 2.5 @1.48
Russia u21 v Denmark u21 over 2.5 @1.58
Turkey u21 v Poland u21 over 1.5 @1.20
England u21 v Lithuania u21 over 2.5 @1.29

Total odds= 3.62

lekkie073: Italy v Armenia 1dnb @1.10
Serbia v Macedonia 1 dnb @1.10
Israel v north Ireland 1 dnb @1.12

total 1.35

lekkie073: hero and michky....pls disregard any side attractions from any quarter abeg. do not reply d harbinger of distraction

domcarez: @Michky....i got ur mail but the body is empty, pls resend.

aventura: A thread was created for this purpose. Don't you think having two threads serving thesame purpose will be an impediment in our betting experience? It's either this thread is closed or the other one is closed. We just can't have duplicate threads. Just my opinion.

Michky: Guys, this one is a sure thing o. The system on it is compound-complex. Hence, for any of us to get a chance at this one, we'll have to prove ourselves. There will be no room for non-performers on this one. Lekkie and Hero have proven ourselves well enough but its going to be a fresh start for all of us. Including me. Sadly, i cant be left out even if i dont meet up. So, here's the task.

Michky: Lekkie, Hero. Am working on something very delicious. Will update you soon. Let me finish.