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FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 9:39pm On Jan 18, 2013
dayokanu: Beating someone weaker till she bled

Its like you beating a 14yr old boy till he bled because he abused or slapped you
Except that the woman is not a 14year old but an adult just as the man is, in this case. This is a case between two adults for heavens sakes. Or are you trying to say that there is a law that specifically punishes men that beat women in a fair fight despite her being the cause in the first place? Dont get me wrong o. I seriously stand against any sort of physical abuse that may occur between humans. But is there any law that states that men cannot beat women or women cannot beat men, in a fair fight?
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 9:21pm On Jan 18, 2013
naijababe: Far from it, the wife, the hubby and the sister, none came out of this smelling of roses.

Being a wife is like being an ambassador in a foreign country sometimes, you don't courting trouble where you know there's an abundance of it and you often find yourself smoothening ruffled feathers to protect your home even if you appear mumuish to those who do not understand what you have at stake.
Now i see where you are coming from. Great point.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 8:36pm On Jan 18, 2013
dayokanu: Exactly thats why even in Sport they dont pair women to compete with men. Pawa pass Pawa
Oh, so you're going down that lane eh? Lets not forget gender equality o (women presidents and so on). If women can ask for equality there, why shouldn't they get it everywhere? Don't wanna stray off topic, so i'll rest it here.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 8:32pm On Jan 18, 2013
naijababe: You really think the hubby decided to beat her sister on the spot just like that?! You don't think there would have issues which probably had been allowed to fester?! Ok o I don hear, shebi na 'were' and he just decided to beat his sister just because he could.
You're just looking at this from the gender angle. What i'll like you to remember is this, no matter the gender, if you cause trouble, then you deserve whatever happens to you afterwards.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 8:24pm On Jan 18, 2013
naijababe: You really think the hubby decided to beat her sister on the spot just like that?! You don't think there would have issues which probably had been allowed to fester?! Ok o I don hear, shebi na 'were' and he just decided to beat his sister just because he could.
You probably missed this post (it was on this same page). Didn't get the point you were trying to drive at though. Perhaps i need to sleep over it.

Michky: Lets look at it this way. Dont you think a woman that has the guts to go to another woman's house to cause trouble must already be insubordinative? What if he calls her husband but he clearly says he wont come nko (he's probably glad that someone is beating his wife for him, after having received beatings from her in the past)? I agree with the part where you said he could have just left her there alone though. But like someone said, perhaps some tension had been brewing up btw bro and sis that eventually birthed that anomaly.
HealthRe: Can You Allow A Male Doctor Touch Your Bosom? by Michky:
I don't even know what the fuss is about this bre.ast matter. Bra and clothes is what's still giving some of the girls here the privilege to talk. If all women were to walk the streets na.ked, some of them would go into perpetual hiding because of the flatness or uglin.ess of that thing they're bragging about. As some people have said already, na because the sickness never hammer you well. Am glad the doctors made their positions clear on this matter though. Your bre.ast? Who cares?! Open that darn tennis bat and lemme examine you joor!!!
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 8:09pm On Jan 18, 2013
jasper7: can't believe Espanyol vs Mallorca goal market is this way. this 2 teams are among the top 5 conceding teams in la liga. and have scored at least one goal in each game they played. my best bet is over1.5 at 1.2 in this game. but am honestly going for over2.5 at 2.20. would keep my stake moderate. and soak my chaplet in water grin. but for real value. actual score 2:1 looks good at 4.00. (but that's for gamblers). real game prediction should be Espanyol wins. @1.95. this is a relegation game and am tipping Espanyol to win the game. given their form in their past 5 games
huh
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 8:07pm On Jan 18, 2013
Perhaps samm, it will be best to open another id. You can still use this one but with a dot at the end. Hopefully, that will be the end of this problem. What do you think?
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 7:49pm On Jan 18, 2013
naijababe: Utter bollocks!!! In my family, normal brother-sister fight does not include siblings beating each other blue black. If you really believe the wife couldn't have stopped this from happening then you are simply naive about women.
Obviously, you are not aware that no fights of this nature come with a predetermined end. In other words, if its not a regulated bout, then anything can happen. Please remove women from this matter. Ok? And since its your opinion that the wife should have come out to separate the fight, i respect that.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky:
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]I have some questions. . .

Will the beating be okay if the sister was younger and/or unmarried?

Should the brother have kept his hands to himself only because she is older than him and because he wants his wife to enjoy her marriage?

Is the sister slapping the brother justified because she is older?

Is the the Sister justified in fighting the wife because she is just the wife?!

Do we expect her to act differently if the wife was her own sister?

Will the scenario be better if it was man vs man or woman vs woman?

If the answer to all of that is NO why then are we using the qualifiers. . .married woman, older sister, sister in law, younger brother, man, woman etc? What we are inadvertently saying is that it is non-violent acts are limited to just these people. Anyone outside of that. . .it's a free for all!!

The flip side of that kinda thinking is the people who have been mentioned in the group start to believe they are immune to acting right. I can say whatever I want, do whatever I want with little or no consequences because I am in the special group. Except we just want to pretend ignorance, it is obvious this is the mentality the sister brought into the fray. . .I can do whatever I want because I am a woman, I am older, I am married and she is my in law. That someone is calling the sister out on that way of thinking does not mean she is supporting the brother giving her an azz whooping.

Life is too complex for issues like this to be reduced to a black or white, for or against type scenario.

Honestly, I think (and y'all feel free to call me naive cheesy ) life will be so much easier to navigate and people easier to relate with if we adopted a universal sets of behavior as opposed to a contextualized one?

You can't hit, beat, slap, punch people because they are PEOPLE not because they are married, single, man, woman, old, young short, fat, in laws etc.

You shouldn't treat people well just because you want something out of it. . .you should treat them well because they are PEOPLE!!

Brother is wrong for hitting his sister not because she is married or female or older but because she is a HUMAN BEING.

Sister being older does not give her the right to slap her brother.

. . . .Too much violence going around and the only way to stop it is to stop saying who shouldn't get beaten in what context and when. STOP BEATING! PERIOD!


@ Debrief
It goes without saying that you are one of the people I admire on this section and to be honest that admiration grows every day. Victims of abuse of any kind tend to see the boogeyman lurking in every corner. Those who were sexually abused as kids are prone to see every adult is an abuser, women who were physically abused tend to see all men as abusers. . .these people can't be faulted for their way of thinking, we expect it from them because of their experience.

It would have been easier for you to come here and automatically take side with one part of the violence displayed in this matter, as a former victim of domestic abuse you have earned you blinders in spades. . .you can wear it anytime you want and judge however you please but you didn't. Instead you chose to take it on as a WHOLE. . .Violence against men, violence against women. . .to you all of it is VIOLENCE AGAINST PEOPLE!

Not wanting to risk being accused of trying to snatch you from your husband, I will go easy on the admiration prose...but I'll say this - THANK YOU!!!! cheesy[/quote]Chei, i hope i wont be stepping on toes if i say i love you (just noticed that someone did that already). Anyway sha, you seem to be a very wise chic. Your husband or bf is definitely the luckiest man alive IMHO. Keep the wisdom flowing jare!
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky:
jennykadry: Relax debrief and stop acting all defensive. The epistle and you posting more than necessary makes you feel unnecessarily guilty. Dayo, myself, CC or nwando have not cleared the woman. What she did is wrong wrong wrong, you don't go to people's house to harass them because you had an issue with someone that lives there. Hitting a woman let alone a married one is wrong.

I presented this case to my husband and the only thing he said was "why didn't the man ring the BIL to come take his mad wife home? If the man was at work he would have simply gone inside the house and left the mad woman outside".....

Some people are joyously giving the man a medal for defending and protecting his wife from his family. Two things would prick my brain if my husband has to protect me physically from my fellow woman:

1. My parents have failed me.

2. I have failed as a woman.

There is nothing to be proud of if I cannot physically protect myself from my fellow woman.
Lets look at it this way. Dont you think a woman that has the guts to go to another woman's house to cause trouble must already be insubordinative? What if he calls her husband but he clearly says he wont come nko (he's probably glad that someone is beating his wife for him, after having received beatings from her in the past)? I agree with the part where you said he could have just left her there alone though. But like someone said, perhaps some tension had been brewing up btw bro and sis that eventually birthed that anomaly.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 7:07pm On Jan 18, 2013
naijababe: I don't think anyone on this thread believes the sister was right to go and threaten the wife in her house but the wife comes out of this looking much worse by letting hubby assault his sister so badly. Would she have condoned the same degree of assault on her mother or sister?
What should she have done eh? Gone out to seperate the serious fight between brother and sister and get hurt in the process? Look, lets remove wife from this matter. To me, its just a normal brother-sister fight which would probably have been happening since child hood.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 6:55pm On Jan 18, 2013
ileobatojo: Exactly! You and I hold similar positions on this and we have been consistent with this stand on these boards over time. So people trying to scream hypocrisy probably have a problem with reading. There have been several threads where this issue was brought up including that controversial Jenny thread where we put the blame on a female poster for initiating the physical altercation so what are we talking about here?

If I beat my husband first, why would I be upset if he beat me back? I wouldnt even go and say it outside because i know the blame is on me! So just because I'm a woman and 'a man must never beat a woman', I have free rein to go around physically assaulting men?
God bless you for this comment.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 6:53pm On Jan 18, 2013
[quote author=D_BestDoc]I was wondering what kind of a man could beat up his mother.just discovered karma is at work in your family.if your mother could beat up her mother inlaw when she had the chance to, then i see no reason why you wont beat her mercilessly cos she must receive what she gave in hundred fold.its perfect she has sons that reason like her.[/quote]Karma is a hoax darnit!
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 6:11pm On Jan 18, 2013
alickdavid: wantd 2 ask him d same questn bt I can't b 2 sure dat he is d real blink cos most persons nw av a replica of their usernames here.
Yeah. But am double sure that this is the real Blink. I wonder what he's been up to recently.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 5:20pm On Jan 18, 2013
blink182: Ehen! So people are still wasting money on this rubbish. Still in season 4, that's a good sign, lesser people are interested unlike season 1 and 2 that virtually flew.
Ah Blink. Long time. Are you saying you've abandoned sportsbetting for good?
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 4:42pm On Jan 18, 2013
You see sammy, i don't know your prob with that bot o. Wetin you do am na? Everytime i quote your post, mine gets hidden.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 4:41pm On Jan 18, 2013
iamoladipupo: Please, can someone tell me why i was banned?
Mehn, get used to it. Sometimes, the software just malfunctions. Or perhaps you mentioned a brand name that nl disallows.
HealthRe: Can You Allow A Male Doctor Touch Your Bosom? by Michky:
kambo: the bossom thing has been over-sexualized . In more primitive settings bossom isnt such a turn on. Go to some village communities where people bath in streams, the men/boys there have seen so much bossom that its not a big deal the women and girls arent boob conscious and that's how it's suppose to be. Even if a man gets a hard on from first sight by the time he's seen hundreds and felt hundreds the awe will drop. Its just anoda bag of skin!
Gbam!!
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 12:19pm On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: we don stop o
Yes o.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 12:16pm On Jan 17, 2013
Farouk senior: Av bin waitin nD watchin. Evry season D̶̲̥̅̊ devil posseses one soul nd sends him dwn here.dis season D̶̲̥̅̊ devil had å change of hrt..HE possessed many souls..#hahahaha..# grin
LMAO!!
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 12:15pm On Jan 17, 2013
[quote author=mr,endowed]Xpset,you have a problem.you lack manner of approach.you better deal with it now before it becomes part of you in real life.and for you mickhy,you are biased.correct yourself[/quote]Noted. Making ammends.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 12:15pm On Jan 17, 2013
iamoladipupo: 20.45
Arouca – Belenenses
X2
1.40
21.00
Den Bosch – Eindhoven FC
Over2,5
1.50 (bet365)
pleas dont insult me ooooo.
Guys, dont ignore inplay. You can use inplay to back your initial picks. GOOD LUCK!
hahahahah!!! That part got me really laughing.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:48am On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: Xpset shud stop abusin ppl.
Its nt a must he ansa newbie's questns.
If he can't ansa politely, he shud ignore d post.
He shud also stp quotin ppl's picks wen they lost.
I agree with you on that aspect of requoting people's picks. Lastly on this matter, most of what you mentioned there had already been done before you came out spitting venom everywhere. Anyways, it is well. Can we get back to business now?
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:41am On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: mind u, i'm nt repostin shit lyk u did.
Dats d diff btw our level of maturity.
Who said you were reposting anything? You see what am saying, you cant even interprete and understand what i said. Well, i dont want to join issues with you here. Lets just move on. Chei, where is this ignore botton when you need it.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:33am On Jan 17, 2013
[quote author=udemzy_udex]mr alickdavid nd mr michky,abeg e don do...[/quote]Seconded.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:26am On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: @michky; i say Bring it on.
U said xpset is smarter dan me bt how smart were u wen u wre postin n repostin nonsense(long post) to destroy dis page in order to chase away zionbaby?
Then, U actd lyk a litu baby.
Clearly, i did all that reposting for a purpose. What's your own purpose for doing this one you're doing presently? Eh?
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:21am On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: I knew u ar one of his kind.
Being smart means doing the right things at the right time. You could have just let it go instead of saying i caused it all. No one is above mistakes, not even you. So why linger on my mistake na? We have said lets move on, but thats the time you feel is right to start your own. Abeg lets stop wasting these pages and lets be mature joor.
BusinessRe: Football Betting Season 4 by Michky(op): 11:00am On Jan 17, 2013
alickdavid: He shudnt ignore d post
U causd all dis cos weneva any1 try 2 shun him, u'd say dat he is "unrelently stubborn"
Bleep u n ur stupid followers...
If i start with you eh. In short, let me say it simply, Xpset is by far smarter than you %100. Lets assume he didnt take his insults too far, i would have stood by him come rain come shine. No be lie, despite their wrong habits of the past, people like Xpset, Elari and Zion...will still continue to be far better than you in this punting business.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 10:45am On Jan 17, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]lol, i think this is about to be a family royal rumble for real. That woman's husband is looking at some pretty serious beatings. He better not go to any family function unprepared. LOL. But really, under no circumstance should things deteriorate to the level that people start getting verbal or physical with inlaws. It never ends well. I dont think any man will see his wife beaten and let it go down like that. cheesy. Younger brother or no, he crossed the line.[/quote]On the other hand, this is one of the du.mbest posts that i also came accross on the front page of this thread IMO. This girl just won't learn. I pity you. Am sure you'll also partake in the flogging of your brother's wife because your brother did what he did abi? If such ever happens in your family, then all of you would be goat-heads for not being able to settle issues rather than compound them. You're just so dum.b.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by Michky: 10:39am On Jan 17, 2013
coogar: he did well considering the circumstance.....
like your story revealed - he tried to settle with the sister, he told her not to enter the house but she insisted on making trouble. i think the sister deserved what she got. a man must protect his wife from any threat(foreign or local)!!!
You're sure a smart dude. This is the best post so far on the first page of this thread IMHO.
Although, i believe no one (not one single person), is worth fighting for (whether wife or sister); the sister deserved what she got because she insisted on causing trouble despite pleas from her brother. Next time, she'll be smart enough to understand the meaning of entering another person's territory to cause trouble.

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