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MrNipplesLover:
people are not following the holy books.

is it written somewhere in the books that once you attain a certain age, you should resist your parents from beating you?

I wanna learn.

jumper524:
your dad would continue doing so until you dammn d consequences and react back..
was in your shoes years back.
at 21 my dad punished me in front of visitors including children for doing almost nothing wrong.
infact what I did that day was to leave the house when my mom's nagging became too much.
she reported to my dad that I left the house, besides u didn't come home late sef.
it continued until last year @age 23 when I finally reacted.
omo na so d man carry stick for me oo, my anger was too much I took the stick away from him but didn't do nothing.
but I just showed him the hard part of me that day, he tried again some other time and got a messier result.
Now attimes I feel sorry for him cos he knows he can't get me do things the hard way again, rather he begs me indirectly to do it which is something he should have learnt to do on his own but learnt it the hard way.
ill advise you hustle for something oo..
make sure I don't ask him for any penny yes any penny.
@that age of you still stay in your fathers house, it's understandable but if he's still the one funding your bills aside feeding, my brother you still got a lot to do too.

but next time he tries to bully you, no gree am.
it's not disrespect, it's you putting your dad's sense on track .

hstar:
Same thing happened to me @26
Mine was slap, he slapped me such that a mark appeared on my right cheek, I didn't like him before, but dat day I just detest him and moved out of the house d following day, till today I don't bear his surname again, but I played my part anytime I'm with cash.

I couldn't just fight him because he's my father, I wanted to, but I didn't, I just had to bring myself back, d worst part was when I got to my work place, pple who respect me a lot were just asking me how I got a mark on my face, but alas I couldn't tell them, save for one person.

Why did he slap me?
He slapped me because he gave birth to a baby and he was doing the naming ceremony and I refused to show up due to work and mostly I didn't vibe with him due to his character.

Pple wouldn't understand this unless they passed through it

mrblessed:
Why don't you say a thing or two about our discussion since it is "interesting" to you? Even though the statement wasn't written by me, I concede that I was sloppy and couldn't notice that error. However, I also noticed that my interlocutor couldn't write a comment without making a mistake, even though his knowledge of the language is pretty good.

LikeAking:
He did.

hstar:
I learnt from your statement, thanks

molbic:
Hahahahaha laf wan tear ma BELLE

Angelfrost:
I'm quite sure Mr. Greene never used those very or exact words!!!

Angelfrost:
Your grandfather flogged his married sons??!... As in, your father was still taking ass whooping from his own father, as a husband and father himself??!....

Damn!!! So many dysfunctionally raised individuals on this platform!!!

Sigh... I just can't deal!!! I give up!!!

butterfly55:
The only advice I will give to you is to go out there and become a man. Will you depend on them forever? At 26? Go out and hustle, get your own place, even if it's one room, start from there, do something with your life. Start small, make it and stand on your own feet. That way, no one will reduce you to nothing, not even your father. You brought this upon yourself by still living under his house at your age. If you live under him, you have to abide by his rules and take his shit! Sorry but that's the hard truth!

puremaker7:
same thing my dad was doing when I was 25, I made him stop it in hard way, I changed it for him on that good night.
on that certain night, it was around 10:15 pm, I was coming from my babe, so my dad thought it was a business as usual, I collected the cane from him and destroyed it at the front of everybody in the house, then I issued a treat to him, never to try to flog me again, baba was scared like mad, though I tendered my appology to him the following morning for raising my voice at him.

lereinter:
The US you have never reached

mrblessed:
Lol
Your statement should be written thus: "The statement correctly goes: "If I were your father, I will cane you." As you can see, there is no need to put a comma in the front and back of the word "correctly."

Will, not would, is the correct word because it is a direct speech, not a reported speech.

Thank you

darealbabe:
I feel very angry reading this.
No, not only with your father. With you too!
I understand you've been abused for so long that you can't think of a better way to cope.
Your mental health is at stake her.
Do you know this can make you run mad? Real madness!
You can get out of that house. YOU WILL SURVIVE!!!!
The world outside there cannot frustrate you except you allow it to.
YOU CAN SURVIVE OUTSIDE YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE AND TOXIC PRESENCE!
If it were me, I'll just leave.
I can help you with books that will help you heal.
You've got this.
GET UP AND GET OUT OF THAT PLACE!
Go out to the uncertain world and find yourself!
Or remain unhappy, miserable and wasted there forever.

lastchild:
you are very wrong, there's nothing wrong living in the father's house, the only problem there is his inability to provide for them financially

my elder brother lived in our house till he got married at the age of 35, he took care of my patents till they died

LikeAking:
SLAY THE OVER BEARING FADA.

48 Laws Of Power

EleventhWeirdo:
Lol

You are also wrong. The statement, correctly, goes thus: If I were your father, I would cane you for uttering this.

Gracias

mdchikezie:
HOW MANY FEMALES LIVING WITH THEIR PARENTS GO OUT AT NIGHT TO WATCH FOOTBALL

LikeAking:
You no follow.

Just shut your mouth and read comments.

A real fada wont do that.

He is old enough to mix with people.

If he doesnt mix up he will be lonely and broke like his dad.

Benwallt:
IF you wanna b anything, leave your comfort zone and face your demon. It would surprise you how easy it is for you to conquer. Don't wait till your father tells you that you are useless before u make move

Uniquewise:
@Righteousness89, pls let go this argument because you're so wrong on this. Sometimes it's better to be silent, especially on a matter you obviously have no full understanding, like this one.

And - the father of OP is absolutely wrong to keep beating his full grown 26yrs son, regardless of his justification for doing so. For one, that man is unwittingly putting himself at risk of being hurt the day his son fails to reign in his anger and built up resentment at such shoddy treatment. I am the mother of an adult son and I had to learn to control my quick reflexes of hitting my son, when he started putting up resistance against such from me from the age of 16! Now, I talk to him, advice him, (and I found these to be more effective); but hit him? Never again! Parents, especially African parents should stop bullying their children, period.

Ishilove:
No wonder your mindset has been warped

Ishilove:
Discipline you by flogging a full grown adult, irrespective of whether he is contributing to the family income? That's no longer discipline. That's criminal assault.

Pa3cia:
All na ur name na, so stop crying, omo dis tin pain u gan, y u no face d guy wey comment na me wey reply u dey follow talk, anyway u deserve d insult d guy gave you sha, he finished you, guy man brutalized you, nd babe is scared of confronting d guy in order not to get more of the insult.
See painment, cry me a river.
Anyways m enjoying d whole tin, all cruise na cruise, you go cry tire, m here for you Bae, Adeola the akpa aja, walahi o fine rara, u still cum wear dankpusa skirt join, nkan ti o da rara, my flat yansh cute nd sexy pass you, Ela o dun.
Keep crying dear, I await your reply, let's see who gets tired, fugly arugbo gehs

Pa3cia:
Eranko ni e!! You so pained! Chai, hope you've started taking Apetamin, as prescribed. Deola pele ti e.

nunnu:
Is gross foolishness to think because you have a child with someone you have to marry them.

joyandfaith:
Where is his family? He is a criminal probably a cultist living a fugitive life. He might have even impregnated other ladies in different locationi He would impregnate you again and disappear.

AnonymousRebec:
Super Story

ZedicusZurZoran:
he has com to test your loyalty,ability to sacrifice for your family and whether your love for him is tied to his wealth.
i tell you, that young man is a millionaire in disguise. 8years with nothing to show for it sounds contracdicting to the guy that had a clear path, plan and vision when you guys were still undergraduates.

1StopRudeness:
The ego of a man should prevent him from coming back empty after 8years ...
he’s desperate, I have a strong feeling he wants to use her or the kid for rituals....

Edyice:
Divanona 98% have told you to japaa

And 98% is an A1 if not A1+ self

Everyone knows about theme (once beaten twice shy )




JUST NOTE : that dude will japaa when baby number 2 enter ( that's if you decide to date him)



A word is enough for the wise

Jamean:
The lady shock me o!

No be only I want to marry you Nigga wants to tie her down for the rest of his life so he can walk in and out at will.