Autos › Re: Buy a clean 2010 Toyota Camry In Abuja(SOLD) by Midecuc(op): 8:02am On Oct 17, 2016*. Modified: 7:40am On Oct 28, 2016 |
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Autos › Buy a clean 2010 Toyota Camry In Abuja(SOLD) by Midecuc(op): 8:04pm On Oct 13, 2016*. Modified: 6:39pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
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Autos › Buy 2010 Toyota Camry In Abuja (SOLD) by Midecuc(op): 7:58pm On Oct 13, 2016*. Modified: 6:43pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
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Satellite TV Technology › Re: STARTIMES DECODER:DO U NEED HELP? by Midecuc(m): 5:03pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Help please, my decoder was working fine in Akure. When I brought it to Abuja it keep showing No Signal. It never work, what can I do pls? |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 9:53am On Sep 20, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 9:51am On Sep 20, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 12:33pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 12:32pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Midecuc(m): 7:56am On Sep 13, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek: It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.
I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.
It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.
She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16. Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.
While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.
After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.
I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.
I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.
You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.
I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!! , I believe you have been accommodating too much from her in the past. Please think and rethink, don't get lost all in the name of Love, what if she doesn't love you the way you do? This world is very big that you can always find all what you need and comfort you if you search well with sense. You can only enjoy life if you married a woman that love you. Don't frustrate yourself by attaching too much love to a woman ,you are in Saudi not in Nigeria, over there a woman can put you into serious mess, you only love her don't forget a woman can pretend to love you when they don't, maybe just to have a partner. |
Food › Re: Pictures Of Things I Found In My Ram Today. What A Mystery by Midecuc(m): 4:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
suremossty: What A Mystery... Pictures Of Things I Found In My Ram Today
Wonder shall nvr end May Allah give us the understanding of Islam and life. Ideally in Islam, you should buy your ram few days before Sallah, feed the ram yourself several time with good food,grass and whatever it can eat make sure it eat very well before the killing time. But, here in our environment people will wait until Eid day morning before buying there ram. Now this is a lesson. |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 1:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 1:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 11:52am On Sep 11, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 11:51am On Sep 11, 2016 |
Midecuc: Very clean Toyota Camry 2011 model All system in good condition.
Four month registered but mint condition Black colour Double pipe Four cylinder
Call, 09052272020 BBM, 5EF7164B Available |
Autos › Re: For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 8:04am On Sep 11, 2016 |
Midecuc: Mazda 323 model 2001. All in perfect condition. Electric Window Working A/C Manual Gear New tyres
Contract: 09052272020 BBM. 5EF7164B still Available. |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 5:25pm On Sep 10, 2016 |
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Autos › For Sale, Mazda 323 Model 2001(Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 5:04pm On Sep 10, 2016*. Modified: 5:22pm On Sep 10, 2016 |
Mazda 323 model 2001. All in perfect condition. Electric Window Working A/C Manual Gear New tyres
Contract: 09052272020 BBM. 5EF7164B
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 3:33pm On Sep 10, 2016 |
This car is finally available for sale. |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 11:43pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Midecuc: available still extra clean. |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 7:48am On Aug 25, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 8:49pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 12:15pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 9:23am On Aug 24, 2016 |
Midecuc: Still available. still available |
Autos › Re: (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 8:00am On Aug 24, 2016 |
Midecuc: Very clean Toyota Camry 2011 model All system in good condition.
Four month registered but mint condition Black colour Double pipe Four cylinder
Call, 07081384597 Still available. |
Autos › (SOLD)2011 Toyota Camry For Sale (Abuja) by Midecuc(op): 5:46pm On Aug 23, 2016*. Modified: 6:40pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Very clean Toyota Camry 2011 model All system in good condition.
Four month registered but mint condition Black colour Double pipe Four cylinder
Call, 09052272020 BBM, 5EF7164B
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Science/Technology › How Can I Make Etisalat Network Strong In My Area. by Midecuc(op): 3:59pm On Aug 23, 2016 |
Hello folks, please I just relocate to a new area and I am finding it difficult to make calls and and do network things(browse l what can I do ? |
Science/Technology › How Can I Make Etisalat Network Strong In My Area. by Midecuc(op): 3:03pm On Aug 23, 2016 |
Hello folks, please I just relocate to a new area and I am finding it difficult to make calls and and do network things(browse ). Pls what can I do ? |
Autos › Re: I Need A Toyota Land Cruiser Prado (2010--12) Abuja. by Midecuc(op): 11:09am On Jul 16, 2016 |
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Autos › Re: I Need A Toyota Land Cruiser Prado (2010--12) Abuja. by Midecuc(op): 11:59am On Jul 15, 2016 |
Midecuc: I am in need of a Toyota land cruiser Prado 2010 to 2012 model in Abuja.
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Autos › I Need A Toyota Land Cruiser Prado (2010--12) Abuja. by Midecuc(op): 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2016*. Modified: 7:32am On Aug 19, 2016 |
I am in need of a Toyota land cruiser Prado 2010 to 2012 model in Abuja.
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Autos › I Need A Toyota Land Cruiser Prado (2010--12) Abuja. by Midecuc(op): 10:15pm On Jul 14, 2016 |
I am in need of a Toyota land cruiser Prado 2010 to 2012 model in Abuja.
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Crime › Re: Robbery And Kidnapping On Lokoja Okene Road(pics) by Midecuc(op): 3:27pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
ilenaira: @OP, tell your friend and his passenger to thank their lucky stars. I've looked at the pictures again and it look like at least 3 bullets were fired at the car. The first two was fired from the front towards the driver. One hit the bonnet and the other went through the windscreen and out of the side window. The third bullet went horizontally across the car through both windows (fired just about level with the driver, I'd guess). Luckily your friend hadn't leaned forward and the bullet was high enough not to hit his driving hands/left shoulder. Was there more than one shooter? or just one on the driver side of the road? please ask your friend.
They were both very lucky. Look at the exit hole of the third bullet. Compare its entry point on the driver side to the exit position at the passenger side relative to the window, it was getting closer to hitting the front passenger with the forward motion of the car.
It may have been random shooting on the part of the robber , but I have a feeling whoever was trying to stop your friend is not new to weapons and was going for upper body/head shots. For what it is worth, they should note the exact location and let people and the authorities know.
When your friend has calmed down enough, ask him to narrate the events. I want to know how these robbers try to stop people in cars. yes it has been happening between Lokoja and Okene for a while, whenever they see big cars they shoot the driver and kidnap the remaing occupants of the car for Ransome, people in the villages and some regular road users told us that is almost every day activities. I don't really know what the authorities concern are doing? |