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classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

I feel ur pains dear and i kinda tink you not to far from the truth but i also tink you should also advice your fellow ladies to stop dressing like the 25th century commercial sex workers. There erotic and irresponsible dressing mode is a perfect defination of come and have what you see

Que sera sera! But Just as it is written ''hand join in hand, the wicked will never go unpurnish''

I wonder what runs in the devilish heart of this beasts

kellsblingsz:
some of the guys dat died at d Gsm shop today might have gone to buy small nokia torch, now see wat ordinary nokianokia touch has caused. some must hv gone to buy fone fr dia galfrnds while some came wit their girlfrnds, now see as woman kill dem.

loz! What are you insunuating guy? That we should stay away from ladies?

I wonder what runs in the devilish heart of this beasts

alexistaiwo:
my girl is always accusing me of cheating on her. the most recent accusation came up on sallah day, she told me last week that she wants me to take her out on that day but I forgot. she got angry claiming that I intentionally declined to take her out because have already gone out that day with one of my other girlfriends which she knows her self to be false accusation because I don't multi date. haven't seen her since then and she hasn't contacted me, now am beginning to think maybe it is because she is already cheating on me that is why she is always accusing me of the same.
Modified.
just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

generally, one thing you have to know about ladies is that the can be very jealous and attension seekers. Perhabs she might have been seeing you with some casual female friends and probablly sometimes feels left out

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MissYuzedo:
am an albino but very beautiful i dont know which
crime has albino commited in nigeria that guys have
refused to forgive us,Guys dont like to date me because i
am an albino,in 2011 a Guy managed to look my way
and we started dating but after he tasted my thing
and the next tin his number was no longer
reachable,since then guys have refused to look my
way no matter how i dress,anytime i dress up and i
am waiking on the stress guys Will look at me just
once and They Will just face front without looking
back again,the worst is that i went to buy a Cream
made for black skin to see if my colour will change to
a black skin,after using it for one month,i discover
that my skin was going red then i stop using it,pls my
people am really tired and confused as well,i am
even planning to relocate to ghana because maybe They
may like an albino,pls i need help?

Dnt feel so bad dear, its just but for a matter of time
#BITG

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