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Jahblessme:
I wonder why you are focusing on your mil?
Your husband is the one who pushed you and you sustained a head injury.

Your husband is the one who locked you out of the house.

Your husband is the one acting like your parents can't care for your children.

You both have issues which are deeper than you are letting on and I feel the focus on mil is a way to deflect.Take care to discuss with hubby that getting physical is something you will not accept! You too be careful what you do.

Your husband and his mother have huge plans for your kids,with you in the picture or not.You are not even allowed to make decisions on the care of your own children.Locking out of house And you are busy focusing on MIL

You'd best start sorting this out before the river will swallow you.
You are the woman of the house,better solidify your position there.You can ignore or patch up with MIL later,your choice.Of course you will be forced to say sorry for something you aren't guilty of,forced to say sorry for her disrespecting your parents too.That's the naija method...total humiliation.

What did your parents do that they are not allowed to care for their own grandkidsThey will be cut off very soon unless you stand up for them and refuse to allow this nonsense.Abi they are not as rich as your hubby and therefore underlings??

Good luck,you will need it!!

i dont usu comment here

Onegai:
I'm in the exact situation (my mum is trying to come over but her reason is the distance and she's old). My sister did it for a month when she had her son and she advised that you contact maybe a Naija kitchen or restaurant and order food in coolers. Your hubby can be warming it rather than you cooking. Other races do it (Indians sha being their mum and an aunt and pamper the new mum) and they survived.

@Thorpido, so hot water and tying doesn't work? I thought it was effective. Some Asian races do it and swear by it.

d hot water works o!

Na wa o

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Hello spyder880, i guess ve been livin under a rock o! Just saw dis thread nw chai..i wud lik 2 work wit u one day¤wat say u?

Howdy pals, just got info that the three missing kids have been found in shagamu..pls how true is dat? Can someone confirm cos am so feeling for the parents of those kids¤ God let it be true pls.

My advice 2 u dear is step by step. 1.read wit past question papers..after studying wit ur notes, textbooks etc..get past questions and try 2 answer d question. 2 if after trying u fail, open ur note again n try answering d question using ur note or textbook, trust me u gon get it dis time..3 go back 2 ur note, study it thoroughly..dis time ans d same question off heart 4.set questions for ur self..if after doing all dis u fail again den u are on ur own o! But pls ist remove dat fear in u cos from ur post one could notice u are afraid. U dont read 2 understand anymore cos u believe dia's no way in hell u can pass ever again.

bmoses:
sha, he is working, so, he is not a broke type. as long as he can stay without calling me, he can also stay witout seeing me. his excuse is always busy n not a call type

babe u neva answer all d questions pple dey ask u for here

adewasco2k:
that true but trust me most mobile gamers will not like it because of the small screen and low RAM


but for a chick to just use facebook, whatsapp, etc...its perfect for a budget phone

ok o! I get one question wat abt tecno tablet p9..wats ur say on it

adewasco2k:
the spec is not that great.

Camera Specs: 3 MegaPixels
Screen: 3.5 Inch IPS LCD capacitive touchscreen; Gorilla Glass
Memory: 4GB, 512MB RAM.

ok o! Its just dat d phone is just too good¤my sis has been using hers for lik a year n now no shaking

I no c Lg(L4) there o!

I no dey lik 2 comment here bt @op u are very funny o..he has access 2 ur account do u have access 2 his? U came alone 2 dis world n dats how u'll go o! A word is enof for d wise o¤ ur money is ur money, his money is for d family(u n d kids) open another account n start savin its not 2 late my dear will it to ur kids mostly ur female kids¤ i dont tink it wise 2 confront him abt his will

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Omo dis man go ban everi everi put women join¤ women no go dey waka for road again¤ i fear o

Ok na

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Howdy...pls do u no of any app dat can apply paint on any pics

Ok..tanks sha..but i no. i actually want to in in2 farmin n processin

stagger:
I have planted cassava, sugarcane, vegetables like waterleaf, scent leaf used in peppersoup, pears (both avocado and native pear), plantain, beans and yams, etc. My plantain trees are still standing today. The palm trees became way too tall and had to be cut down to make way for new ones, having been planted in 1988. The plantain farm was started in 1987. In my mother's village I have up to 1 hectare which I bought for agricultural use, since my dad's people are too fetish and have tried to have me killed severally.

I have planted coconuts and orange trees there. These were started 10 years ago.

I do not know how old you were as at 1980 when I first handled a pickaxe and hoe to farm on one plot of land allocated to me by my school for all students of agricultural science. That was the way we learnt agric science in those days: practically, and not by theory. The day of marking, your parents would be invited to come and see where their school fees money was going. You dared not disgrace your parents in front of other parents because everyone, the whole school, would be at the field then. I have also farmed pineapples strictly for domestic use, with a species which were given to me by an Eritrean Professor of Agriculture who was on exile as at then because Mengistu Haile Mariam's government had a bounty on his head. I am sure history students will know how this man slaughtered Eritreans in their thousands before the UN gave them their own country. I was too young then so I cannot remember the name of this man or the species of pineapples.

I answer you this way because I see the sarcasm in your question, and I will not dwell much on it because trying to convince you the cucumber farmer about it is a waste of time. So I will go to the main point on this thread: mistakes we have all made.

Yes, there was a mistake I made when I did the plantains. I had never heard of black sigatoka virus, which entered Nigeria in 1986. It nearly devastated the plantation, but somehow, we recovered. Had to burn the entire plants and get new ones. I also have to mention that I nearly lost the first fruits to villagers by allowing them to ripen on trees. They would just come at night and cut them down. So I had to make myself a clean cutlass which I would use to mount vigils in the place some evenings and nights, but stopped when I noticed snakes around the place. Eventually, I started to cut them when mature, without allowing them to ripen on the tree.

Now to answer your sarcastic question: IITA gave me a lot of help in my cassava research. I even have a book on the commodity markets for cassava products in Nigeria. That publication is not available anywhere on the open market. Nasarawa state ADP gave me a video documentary on application of herbicides for weed control. I have got quotes for cassava processing machines from PRODA in Enugu.

The way you approach these organizations will determine how they give you what you need. I will not say more.

can i get ur contact?

world1:
I called some of the above named cassava processing companies on behalf of some farmers in my area today with the response I got I have come to the conclusion that Cassava planting is a No Go Area Expect You Have Intention Of Adding Value to it.

wat do u mean by except u ve intention of add.... ?