My hubby behaves this way, I was have to beg him for nothing eeven when he is at fault. My dear I won't advice u but get busy with urself.

saintneo: Okoro shi w'ite ..... My village funny translation ..... Man to cook food

... Biko what part of igbo is this?

Libkid: no! Leboku is new year festival.its isua

Oga.....lekalangbeku is xmas while daiil lopelope or daiil sowe is new year.
Happy to c ugep ppl rep here.

Thanks @ smartchoice, am in d same condition as d OP, I wld check them c class out.

@smartchoice looks like there are plenty cars in this range. What year can u recommend and those iT still come in as toks?
@ tyoseni can u be more specific pls.

Thanks for all your advice. I didn't marry outta desperation & he is not a rich guy or the only son. I just can't imagine myself calling her to warn her. No class in it. My hubby is my challenge,he doesn't mind keeping malice with me. At this point it''s just prayer that is my weapon.

Thanks for the advice, I cook, I clean the house which he likes so much. Even while he is away, I send him Sms or try to chat him up he would never reply. Even when I know he does to his 'Ex'. While driving if he sees a lady he would look & say fine girl. I don't have a problem with that but he doesn't tell me I am beautiful,we have been thru this issue severally, I tell him how handsome he is & be romantic. I pray for him, he calls me his spiritual strength, sometimes I just wonder if it was love.

He told me because he loves me that is why he married me,his words & actions are different. In the chat the girl told him to stop! Does he want me to start calling her or send her text?

We just talked about it. He threatened me that he will go back to her & that I can't be rubbing shoulders with him. He is not even remorseful about it even the chat I saw on his phone with the girl.

My hubby & I dated a few months before getting married last month. While we were dating, one of his 'ex' he said to have dated a year ago,but couldn't take the relationship further,because she is not ready for marriage till 2015 when she would be 23. They kip close tabs that my hubby calls her in my presence while we were courting before he goes to bed,but doesn't do same to me while am away. He told me that he can't let her go,that she is just a friend & a drama queen because she likes attention. I saw no harm in that,months went by he didn't stop chatting wit her. I was away in lagos preparing for our wedding,my hubby was always chatting her up calling her names he never called me or romantic words he wld never said to me. I almost called the wedding off but my Mum told me he wld learn to be romantic. My hubby was busy lavishing the romance on his 'Ex'. During our wedding she called him,was asking what was happening,I was so pissed I had to control myself. During the honeymoon too she was chatting & calling. 2weeks ago I saw the chat between him & d lady I was so heart broken. Things he never said to me,I was so angry we quarreled. My parents had to sought it out. The painful thing is that he still keep tabs with her,not minding the damage on our marriage. Whenever her issue comes up he keeps malice with me I have to start begging. I am so confused

Don't want to make the same mistake again.

Thank u all for your contributions,
@ kuntash, I saw d M+S
@ikenna, I raised d suspenions on d car I would like to know if 205/70/15 with H would be okay.
Thanks again.

Pls what tyre size should I use for 1999 camry also how can I avoid winter tyres. How to identify normal summer tyres pls?

Your wife had a reason for getting a plan B,I would rilly love to listen to her own part of the story before I conclude. Most times some women feel threatened in their marriage & would do exactly what ur wife did to be secured.
Now she is remorse,take out time to review where u would have gone wrong,trust me ur wife felt threatened. While u earned 8x than she did,did u make her feel inferior? This are questions u need to ask. She built that house as a revenge.
For the friends she is keeping,if they advice her & she makes their opinion her reality,your marriage is heading for the rocks.

Cheating is a choice! It could also be because the man has a special bond with his Ex or its just a habit to have more than one lady while he was growing up.

Was when he told me, that I am the love of his life.