The thing is why sleeping with her to a point of getting her pregnant and even keeping the pregnancy in the first place. The truth is, men knows what they want from the onset when it comes to choosing who they want to spend the rest of their life with but why wasting other people's time. Why dragging others into your mess. It is pure wickedness. I wouldn't even suggest marriage for the sake of the lady's mental health, it hurts though but the person will be fine at the end.