You said the truth but you never mentioned how Ilorin was captured by the fulani
OriOko88: So na legislative act dey depose Emir for north.
I doubt if hausas even get culture. Cos it wasn't that far that they were islamized by Dan fodio. Just 1803 or so. What titles did their Kings bear before those jihad periods
Yoruba culture for Life!! Cant imagine an Ooni or Awujale being deposed by a legislative bill.
For almost over three years counting now,Oyo never get Alafin. Atari ajanaku..kii seru omode
What do you expect from an old fool whom a 11 years old boy knows better than him.
SaiOba: Use and dump, you say ? Bro, go ask APC National Women Leader the true definition of use and dump.. ROFLOL Una go just open mouth dey yarn trash without shame.
Guy congratulations to you if you can summon the courage and accept her decision because there might be bigger trouble if you end up marrying her. The red flag is up and clear enough for you to see.i made such mistake and am living to regret it. A word is enough for the wise. Good luck to you.
Lukmanraji: My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.
Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.
So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.
I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.
To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.
So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.
Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.
After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.
Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.
I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.
I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.
Rebuke: That guy was literally eating out his life. Look at his face in that last picture....he looks like he was already pushing it out through his anus
Never mind those yeye people who always think with their stinking anus. If the an average Nigerian citizen is enjoying the dividends of democracy why will such lady went on an unknown journey just because she was promised a job of HOUSE HELP in a foreign country. Nigeria's borders are so porous that innocent youths and children are been trafficked to neighbouring countries on a daily basis, yet someone with the brain of cockroach doesn't want us to blame the government.
DeathToRiggers: I knew it, awon ole alagbado will blame the lady and praise Nigeria economy, wereh oja gbogbo.
Abeg go for DNA test on your kids then come back and tell us the result before further comments
PrayWills: Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.
I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.
As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?
Lmao. I'm glad market women, transporters, civil servants, students, even beggars are laying curses already on this administration. Them no dey social media
I hope that rino mockery and the apc miscreants will have something to say against the apc govt in Benue state after condemning Obi for building brewery in Anambra state.
Will you still forgive her if you eventually finds out that you're not the father to one of your so called kids Think about this.
Iykegodslove: Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.
There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.
Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.
It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.
Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.
Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?
11 trillion naira loan, if Nigeria cannot pay they will print money to pay the loan. Yet some people are applauding this news just because their beloved devil in the skin of man is the president. if you're among this category of people, believe me your coming generations will lay heavy curses on you through out their life time, because they will be part of the people that will suffer from your irrational thinking.
If HE Peter Obi was the one who said this, the BATidiots in this forum would've been calling him all manners of name, but now that their man said it you won't hear anything from them and yet they won't accept the truth. These are the set of people with GOD given brain yet they can't think
What do you expect when the street takes over Aso Rock?
NairaOcean: Numerous individuals sustained injuries following a clash among hoodlums in the Ile-Epo area of Lagos State. According to reports from Punch Metro, the altercation commenced in the local market on Wednesday night and extended into Thursday morning. During the confrontation, several shops were set ablaze, and merchandise was vandalized. Our correspondent, who surveyed the scene, discovered that the timely intervention of the police was hindered by the unruly mob. Additionally, a fire service truck attempting to enter the market was compelled to retreat after being bombarded with stones.
Infact they used it very well against some of us who are unknown to them that we are Yoruba. Ara won koo otoo oro, meaning that, such people will never accept the truth...
SoNature: The biggest tool of APC is tribalism (divide and rule). Engage an APC minion in a conversation or debate, he will call you a tribalistic person who hates the progress of the country because he has nothing to say.
They've used that tool so well in Lagos to win guber elections and have brought it to national politics. It is a shame that Umahi who joined APC yesterday has adopted this same strategy.
Someone should tell that umahi that Tolu Aina isn't an Igbo man by expressing his displeasure against the demolition private business because of road construction
Domaining101: Popular Nigerian Travel and Tourism YouTuber Tayo Aina, has come out to share his take about the current controversies surrounding the coastal Highway project that resulted in the dshouemolition of the popular Landmark Demolition beach in Lagos.
Tayo Aina who has almost a million subscribers on his YouTube channel mainly focused on travel and tourism, communicated his thoughts through his verified social media handle saying -