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Not too long ago we were treated to the Smith’s family saga when August Alsina opened up about his relationship with Jada Smith. A whole new relationship level was unlocked “entanglement” and many commented, “couldn’t be me”. Sorry to say though, but some are actually in a one-sided open relationship which they are not just aware of. In simple terms, an open relationship is one where partners reach an agreement to pursue sex or any other emotional attachments with other people. There’s a quite a lot of stigma attached around this concept of non-monogamous relationship but that hasn’t really stopped some from cheating behind their partners’ backs.
Many may consider having an open relationship for some of the following reasons:
*Varied sex drive between partners.
*Their non-monogamous nature. Some constantly cheat in their monogamous relationship and they want to avoid that.
*Where the partners are in a long-distance relationship, etc

But whatever the reason(s) may be, bringing up the subject of open relationships is never an easy thing to do, especially when it was never discussed at the dating stage. Not all partners will fancy the idea and even the one bringing it up might not like having his/her partner looking outside for fulfilment from others. Sure you’ll love to enjoy your freedom while still committed to the relationship, but will you allow your partner same allowances? You must also be honest about whether you really want it too or just doing it for your partner else this can lead to resentment. Let’s consider the pros and cons of having an open relationship.

Pros

Freedom to Be Yourself
Relationships require lots of work to succeed. Open relationships allow non-monogamous people to be open and freely express themselves without dread. You don’t have to pretend to be someone you are not, but you are free to be yourself. There’s no sneaking around or lying to your partner with such arrangements and this can lead to less emotional anguish.

It Encourages Honest Communication
Lots of relationships suffer from a lack of communication about wants and needs. The foundation of an open relationship is built on the need for complete and honest communication with your partner when making arrangements on pursuing others. If you are still hiding things and not being truthful with one another, the whole relationship is likely to come crashing like a pack of cards.

New Experiences
Open relationships are all about experiencing new and exciting adventures. Where one partner is having unfulfilled needs, an open relationship allows you to solve that itch without having to call it quits with your main relationship. You can freely explore while still staying committed to the relationship you currently have. A lot of people tend to break up, explore then find their way back but you can avoid all of that with an open relationship. There’s also no pressure for one person to fulfil all their partner’s needs and so they can enjoy the relationship without stress.

Read: https://tlc.ng/why-ladies-love-and-find-bad-boys-irrestible/

Cons

Risk of Jealousy
This can come about when one partner begins to feel he or she is not good enough for the other person and starts to feel insecure. This is especially true where one partner wants an open relationship more than the other. Such a person may start to wonder if their partner might still leave if they find someone better. There’s the emotional pain where your partner experiences happiness with someone else, which can then lead to the whole thing to backfire and conflict may then arise as a result of jealousy.

Risk of STI’s
Having multiple partners increases the risk of passing around sexually transmitted infections. You can’t always monitor their sexual lives so you open yourself up to unnecessary risks to your health. A mutually monogamous relationship reduces your risks of contracting STI’s.

It won’t Fix a Failing Relationship
If your relationship is weak from the start and you see an open relationship as a means to save it, this may actually backfire. An open relationship itself takes a lot of trust and a strong foundation, if this is already missing in your relationship you’ll only be bringing it to a quicker end. Fix up your relationship without inviting others, it won’t solve the underlying problems. You also can’t use an open relationship to run away from your problems.

It leaves One Vulnerable
What if your partner falls in love with someone else? This is a huge risk, in spite of the rules and boundaries you might have put in place with your partner. There’s always that chance that your partner may develop deeper feelings for the other party and this can put you at an emotional risk and feeling vulnerable.

An open relationship isn’t really for everyone, don’t be pressured into doing what you are not comfortable with. It’s a great option for those who don’t believe in monogamy or have tried but failed at it. In cases where it works, it allows you to develop a meaningful connection with another while still being free. It totally defeats the idiomatic phrase that says that you can’t have your cake and eat it.

https://tlc.ng/pros-and-cons-of-an-open-relationship/


What's your thought about it?

ZINIBANKS:
Op you didn't include yours
Wetin happen

Haha. Mine will be interrupting conversations, I usually have to make a conscious effort to hold my peace before butting in.

Kola5281:
well...so surprisingly that I don't belong to any class mentioned here...but i guess mine is staring back to your goddamn eyes if you stare at me, I'm damn good at staring back I'll even stare into your future
sef �

I don't wanna meet someone like you, lol. I tend to be unsettled when someone stares at me for long.

ibrutex:
1)Dragging 10naira change with driver... 2)Using Aboki perf. inside public bus...

LOL, that perf is really strong.

catwalq:
There's late and then there's fashionably late

Yeah, fashionably late or our own African time. But there are some places one can't get away with being late.

Oldoinyolengai:
Spitting in public where others could be watching

It's disgusting �

Bonatheripper:
Pressing your phone on the road...


Wearing earpiece and listening to music while walking with someone

Now this is one dangerous habit. Even with all the unfortunate cases that abound some still don't take heed. Those who are extra vigilant on the road still end up in one accident or the other, yet they choose to divide their attention that way.

catwalq:
I must be an alien then cause I don't do any of the above except the last one but then again I heard intelligent people tend to run late most of the time

Don't know about the intelligent part, but it's kinda rude to make it an habit of keeping others waiting for you. I guess for some it's a show of superiority

larrymoore:
farting in my present

True. Some have made it an habit to annoy others with their fart

Drvade:
There'r no habbit as bad as remaining poor.
join us lets make money.
check my signature.

LOL.

adajoe555:
Am guilty of non

Really? That's cool.

IARASORGANIC:
Occupying spaces for two in a public bus just because you are too fat.

LOL, then they'll start asking someone to make space for them.

Many of us have one annoying habit or the other. And for a lot of us, we do these things without being aware of how it affects others. They’ve become so ingrained in us that we don’t even know when we do them. You might think this doesn’t apply to you. Well read on and you just might discover one or two annoying habits you still do without knowing.

Staring at your phone when in the company of another person
Say someone invites you out for lunch but all through your time together you pay more attention to your phone than the person talking to you. This can be really annoying. It shows a lack of interest in what the other person is saying to you. And if you still do this it’s best you change. I’m sure you won’t enjoy it either when tables are turned. It doesn’t mean that you can’t check your phone from time to time (especially if you are expecting an important news) but don’t let it monopolize your date.

Talking at the movies
Some people at the cinema never stop talking and keep making commentaries like the movie characters can hear them. Please leave that annoying habit at home and don’t ruin the movie for others. At the end of the movie, you can critique and analyze as much as you want.

Putting on too much fragrance
If others can still feel your perfume an hour after you’ve left, then know that you might be putting on too much fragrance. Imagine how uncomfortable they’ll be in your presence. Do not use so much perfume that people across the room can smell you and everyone who comes close to you chokes on your fragrance. Remember, less is more.

Picking your teeth in public
It’s understandable, having a piece of meat stuck to your teeth can be frustrating and annoying. And so you might find yourself carelessly fishing food out of your teeth in public, which is something many find annoying (even those who do it unconsciously). If you’ve seen anyone try to use all sorts of things to pick out food from their mouth you will surely find it annoying as well. Try to find somewhere to do that privately or do it discreetly by trying to shield your mouth from public view.

Eating loudly
No one likes to hear someone chewing or crunching their food. And f you like to make a lot of noise while eating, know that there’s someone out there who is annoyed by your eating habits.

Trying to jump a queue
Ever been on a line for a long time only to find someone cut in front of you and claim to have been there but left to do XYZ? It’s really annoying. Join the queue at the end of the line, and stop trying to play smart by pushing your way to the front of the line. Everyone on that line has somewhere important to be as well, wait your turn.

Standing close to other people on a line
Some people don’t know the meaning of personal space. They don’t mind attaching themselves to the person in front of them like a Siamese twin. Back off and give people their space, no one wants to feel your breath on their neck.

Picking your nose
I’ve seen someone who was openly picking his nose in public. Removed his finger, looked at it and placed it back into his nose. That’s something a child will do and you’ll correct him or her. To see an adult still do that was irritating and annoying. Blow your nose into a handkerchief or toilet paper instead.

Running Late
There are some days where you’ll unavoidably get to an appointment late. However, if it’s something you consistently do and are known for, know that it’s annoying to others. Respect people’s time and be early to an appointment.

Read more:https://tlc.ng/15-annoying-habits-we-unknowingly-have/

Which one(s) are you guilty of?

meobizy:
There is no trick to it. Stay confident, in shape, dress and smell nice always. The opportunity will come out of the blue. My first happened while chasing a female only for her friend to open up for me randomly. My second was a lonely female coming over for a visit. Most guys I know do it to their friend’s girlfriend who takes a liking to them. It is more of an art than science where many roads lead to the same destination.

True, it's all being confident and on point. It's not exactly a one-night stand if you've known this person before, it will mostly count as a fling or something similar.

falcon01:

Thinking about giving it a shot? �

Ever thought of having a fun, no-strings-attached and drama-free one-night stand? Or maybe you are curious to know how sex with a stranger will feel like? We hear you. One-night-stand gives the people involved the perfect opportunity to go wild and uninhibited, and fulfill their primal desires without holding back. Since you don’t have to worry about seeing the person again, it allows you to act out your fantasies. Keep reading to find out how to pull off a one-night stand.

Location Matters

You are unlikely to find potential one-night stands at malls or seminars – you’ll probably end up in a relationship instead – which is not what you want. But places like bars, nightclubs, wedding and birthday parties are prime locations to pick up a willing partner.

Quick Search

So you are at the club enjoying some drinks with your guys, and also keeping an eye out for a potential one-night stand. You see a well-dressed beautiful babe, but how can you tell if she’s up for that? It takes a bit of practice but after a while you can also be a pro at sizing up who might be interested. First find out if she’s alone (and in need of company) or came with someone else before making your moves. She’s equally looking around trying to find who she will spend the rest of the night with. And probably doing everything to catch the attention of others (such as dancing seductively and laughing loudly)

Your Approach

When you find someone you are attracted to, offer to buy her a drink and strike up a conversation with her. Your first impression must be on point. Look your best (it’s purely physical ) so make sure you look as enticing as possible. Pick out clothes that bring out your best features and smell nice as well. Approach her with confidence and lead the conversation. Cut out all the lame and boring jokes (No, she doesn’t look familiar). If she wants to be left alone, leave and don’t harass her. Otherwise keep the conversation light and flirty, it’s not the time nor place for deep conversation. Chances of seeing each other later on is nil so don’t give the wrong impression (that you are interested in a relationship).

Be Attentive

If she hasn’t told you to take a hike that means you are on the right track. But then she probably might not tell you all she’s thinking so you have to watch out for her body language. That way you won’t spend all night chatting with someone who’s only interested in having someone buy her drinks and keep her company but nothing more. Making eye contact, flirting in an openly sexual manner, leaning into you and touching you are all good signs. If she’s more interested in her phone or seems closed off then it’s time to walk away.

Be Straight Up

When the possibility of a physical intimacy comes up let your intentions be clear. Don’t lie or lead her on to get lucky. If you don’t want to trend on social media for false representation be honest about what you want right from start. Look for someone who is also interested in having a one-night stand, not trying to convince someone to try it. You don’t want to end up in a relationship when your only aim is to smash and walk away.

Next Level

There’s no time limit for how long to spend getting to know your partner. Take her to dinner, have fun together – you don’t have to rush straight to the bedroom. Since you are both on board, make sure you’ve got a couple of condoms with you and you have somewhere readily available for your hook up. It’s not the time to start shopping for a pack of condoms so always be prepared. And in as much as you want to act out all your fantasies on your partner make sure she’s comfortable and on board with everything, respect each other ‘s boundaries. It should be a pleasurable experience for both of you.

Morning After

Avoid awkward goodbyes and making promises you don’t want to keep. There’s nothing embarrassing about one-night stands, the morning-after shouldn’t be either. Let them know you had a nice time and that you enjoyed spending the brief time together, dress up and go. Don’t make promises to call if you are not going to do so. It’s best to have the hook ups at hotels so no one overstay his or her welcome and you can easily go your separate ways.
https://tlc.ng/how-to-have-a-one-night-stand/

Ever had a one-night stand before? Tell us your experience.

DaCharis2016:
I feel a burning sensation under the soles of my feet. It stopped for a while, but came back now since I noticed a caught cold through my knee cap (the only part left uncovered from the cold) while driving a bike. And since then I have being feeling pains around my legs from the knees upward and downward.

What can I do? Doctor recommended multivitamin for me earlier, and after taking it for the two weeks, got relieved.

But I'm confused with this resurfacenes. What kind of test do I need to go for now? Or do I go for general body test?

I'm not a medical doctor btw. But you do need to go back to the hospital for a complete checkup. It could be nothing but it could also be a sign of an underlying ailment. Never take your health for granted.

DaCharis2016:
Does it cover general test?

Yes, it does.

In this part of the world, we rarely go to the hospital unless we’ve tried other options and they failed. Out of fear, medical cost, a busy schedule or plain ignorance, many will avoid getting regular checkups, preferring to gamble with their health. Got a headache? Painkillers. Your stomach aches? Painkillers to the ‘rescue’. Self-medication has now become a norm for many people. Some of these ‘simple ailments’ are merely signs of an impending serious ailments which could have been detected on time (through regular checkups) and therefore managed properly. The saying ‘prevention is better than cure’ seems not to concern many when it has to do with their health. Irrespective of your age, make sure to go for at least a yearly physical exam. Doing so can save lives – whether young or old, no one is immune to sickness. Here are 5 reasons why you should go for regular checkups.

Early Detection

By going for regular checkups, your doctor can detect potentially life-threatening ailments at its early stages which can significantly increase your chances of overcoming such and living a full life. The longer you live with an undiagnosed health condition, the lower your chances of treating it are. There are terrifying ‘silent killer’ diseases you can have without knowing. Early detection can reduce complications which could be detrimental or cause death

Risk of Getting Sick is Reduced

Regular medical checkup can reduce your risk of getting sick. This is because during a routine exam your doctor will perform several checks such as blood pressure, heart rate, etc. Therefore, any potential health issue is nipped in the bud before it leads to something serious. You will also be advised on healthier changes to make to prevent you from developing serious health issues.

It Makes You More Accountable

A lot of us tend to take out health for granted, self-medicating rather than visit the doctor until the sickness gets out of hand. But going for periodical checks will make you more conscious of your health and quit making poor health decisions, especially when it has to do with what we eat and exercising. It will cause you to make healthier lifestyle choices.

It Saves Health Care Cost

In the long run, you save money when you go for regular check ups. This is because it helps prevent diseases as well as treat other ailments at an early stage. Early notice reduces the risk of going for serious surgery and incurring heavy medical cost. It decreases your chances of taking a sick day from work, or even getting admitted to the hospital.

Regular Checkup Increases Your Life Span

By closely monitoring your health, you increase your chances of a healthier and longer life. By getting regular health screenings and updates, you are taking steps that improves your chances of a healthier life. Your doctor will get to advise you on lifestyle choices to make at each step of the way.


https://tlc.ng/why-you-should-go-for-regular-checkups/

Let’s cut the pretense and bullshit: Most guys want to sleep with a babe on the first date. In fact, in our minds, we have already slept with the girl severally before even shaking hands. However, if wishes were horses... Not every guy gets laid on a first date. In fact, so many don’t get laid at all. So, what’s the secret to being a bad ass sniper?

She also wants to sleep with you
Before you think you’re the baddest guy, just maybe, she wants to have sex as well. In fact, the easiest way to sleep with her on a first date is if she wants to have sex as well.

Set the Mood Right
She can either be in the mood, or you can get her in the mood. Everything matters; from the food, drinks, venue to your choice of music (If you are driving your own car). Everything has to be on point.
Pay Attention
Learn to listen, to what she says, but more importantly, words unsaid. Be detailed. Little things matter like telling her she has nice nails or something. Maintain a healthy eye contact. Compliment, do not over hype. Know when to touch or hold hands.

Packaging
First things first, your appearance really matters a lot. You can’t just dress anyhow and expect her to fall for you in your raggedy outfit. Be neat as well. Smell nice. Mouth and/or body odour reduces the chances of her wanting to get close to you.

Be Intentional and in Control
Confidence is a turn on for most ladies. In the words of Richa Kanwar, “Self-confidence is the best outfit, rock it and own it”. There’s nothing that turns a lady off than a nervous, bumbling and sweaty loser. Ooze charm. You need to appear all put together and in charge, fake it if you have to. Laughing every second, not finishing a complete thought, looking twitchy and stammering won’t earn you any points at all. You must look assured. You need to be a nice guy with a bad boy attitude. Nice guys finish last, goes an old saying.

Make Her Laugh
Laugh your way to the bedroom. No one wants a boring guy. After all, girls just wanna have fun. Make her say things like ‘you’re so silly’ or ‘you’re crazy’

Honorary Mention…….MONEY
Na money be fine bobo. If you are broke, nothing can save you. If you like, have all the 6 packs in this world. The real packs needed is your stash. Money is sexy. You need money to buy a good perfume, drive a good car, and afford a good date venue. Her decision to sleep with you becomes easier for her if you are going to be driving her in a bad ass whip to a posh apartment or hotel. Who no like beta thing? She also needs the assurance that you can take care of her.

So guys what do you think?


Source: https://tlc.ng/how-to-sleep-with-a-girl-on-the-first-date/

#JusticeforUwa
#JusticeforBarakat

Hashtags like the above have been trending on the social media sphere quite recently. See, these are not the first set of hashtags on rape to spark outrage on social media and might certainly not be the last if something practical is not done about this pandemic. We can’t keep doing the same thing over and over again expecting a miracle, there has to be a change in the way we attack this violent crime.

Know that rapists have zero regard for age, religion, social status, dressing, et c. So it has nothing to do with how the victim was dressed, from reports Barakat was a fully-clothed victim. Neither does it have to where she went, Uwa was reading in church when she was brutally raped and murdered, Barakat was raped at home, they were not at the club or hotel nor any red-light district. It doesn’t have to do with age, a 12-year old girl was allegedly raped by 11 men on different occasions . Eleven ooo. See enough of the excuses for rapists, justifications like these are what makes them continue their reign of terror. You don’t use rape to teach a girl a lesson. What’s wrong is wrong and should not be sugar-coated. So what can we collectively do as a society to reduce this pandemic?

There Should be a Swift Justice System
Justice delayed is justice denied. According to the Criminal Code, rape is a criminal offence and if found guilty, carries a life sentence. However, prosecution and conviction of sexual offenders are extremely low. The wheels of justice grinds so slowly and takes years for someone to be granted justice. Victims can not take advantage of the laws the legal system provide, and the ones that follow up rape cases to the court level end up being frustrated by delays either due to the excess workload of the courts or those orchestrated by a party to the lawsuit as a defense tactics. Something needs to be done to ensure that justice works swiftly in favour of the victim.

Stop Guilt Tripping Rape Victims
“It was the way you dressed”, “Why did you spend the night at his place”, “You were giving him the green light” and so many other variations should stop. This constant shaming of victims, rather than the perpetrators, forces them to hide and find it hard to report cases. Even the ones that decide to speak up and report at police stations are made fun of by those who should know better. Irrespective of the poor choices made by the victim, nothing, absolutely nothing, justifies being raped. We must learn to put the blame firmly on whose head it belongs, that of the rapist. This only emboldens perpetrators to continue with their acts and contributes to under reporting of rape cases. Let’s create an enabling environment for rape victims to speak up without fear of being shamed or called names.

No More Covering Up For Rapists
See, rapists do not live in an alternate universe. They live amongst us, we laugh and gist with them. They are someone’s father, brother, son. In fact some are on social media crying out for #justiceforxyz only to go back to commit the same act on another innocent person. Parents and guardians should stop collecting money in silence for the act perpetrated on their wards. Police officers should stop negotiating monetary settlements to cover up for rape perpetrators. They deserve jail time and not soft landing. Stop covering up for your male relative who has forced himself on a stranger. See ehn he will just continue till he ends up raping you when there’s no other female close by to satisfy his crazy urge. That your “padi” that likes to brag about babes he has forced himself on does not deserve your silence. Or are you waiting till the next victim becomes your female relative before you speak up? We all must work together to reduce (or eliminate) the rape pandemic.

Stop the Stigma against Rape Victims
The fear of being stigmatized is another reason why many sexual victims refuse to speak up. Many will rather keep quiet and try to forget it ever happened than to face the stigma and backlash of coming forward with their stories. And you wonder why rapists have a field day carrying out their despicable acts? Victims do not deserve any shame for being raped, only the rapists do. Please be guided.

Re-orientation and Education
Catch them young. Whether at home, school or anywhere else adolescents should be taught about respecting others, learning boundaries, empathy and other relationship skills. Let’s not end up grooming a younger generation of rape perpetrators.

Let’s Put an End to Rape Jokes
Many make silly jokes about rape which has somehow served to water down how serious a crime it is. Jokes about how you’ll rape a babe if she ‘chops’ your money, or ladies saying stuffs like “when she says no at first she wants the guy to work harder for the cookie” and the likes should be done away with.

Reporting a Rape
At the end of the day, the police can only arrest a criminal if they are made aware of the offense. There are also non-governmental organisations that have been set up to fight for the rape victims. Many have equally taken to social media to voice out and force the Police to act. In an ideal world the Police should not have to be called out before handling rape cases, but it is what it is. If you have been a victim of rape do not change clothes nor take a shower. All physical evidence are used in court.
In summary: Silence does not equal consent, a drunk or mentally impaired lady cannot give consent, minors can never give consent (please shut the f*** up about how she seduced you).
Is there anything I’ve left out?

The relationship scene these days has undergone a complete changeover as a result of the Coronavirus pandemic. Social distancing rules have made the usual dinner dates and other outdoor options currently impossible. Rather than dressing up to try out that new joint in town, you can only settle for takeout, which is not the same. Now whether as a married/ live-in couple or just staying apart, it has really put a strain in a lot of relationships.

However, social distancing doesn’t mean that your relationship has to suffer. There are still creative ways to bond and spark up your romantic life, it just requires a bit of creativity that’s all. And it’s merely a matter of time before the end of the epidemic so make the best out of this time, and come out stronger and better as a couple.

Here are some relationship tips and ideas to try out.

Tone down the criticism
I get it, being cooped up indoors all-day can make one go crazy. But understand that you are not the only person going through this ordeal and so transferring this aggression to your partner is not cool. This is not the time to pick offence at every little thing. For live-in couples, you are stuck together for a long while, with nowhere to seek relief, and it makes no sense to spend the whole time keeping malice.

Keep communicating
For couples not staying together, it is important to keep the lines of communication open. Send each other funny pictures and videos, get to know each other on a deeper level, throw in a lot of flirty chats and sexting too. This also applies to couples staying together, now is the best time to mend cracks in the relationship. Be honest and open with each other. If avoiding and sweeping the issues under the carpet has been your way of dealing with issues then it’s time to try something different. Just avoid talking down on your partner while at it.

Compete in a cook-off
Whether you are together or staying apart, challenge yourself to a cooking competition (or any other preferable competition). Let there be a reward at the end of the competition. The loser, for instance, may twerk or do any other ridiculous act for the winner.

Make future plans
Just because you are in lock-down doesn’t mean you can’t make long term plans. It makes the situation easier to deal with. You can make plans for a future trip. Explore travel options together, and work out all what it will take to make it happen. Always look ahead.

Date night
Set up a date night (physically or online) complete with candles and music. Prepare for it like you do for a real date, dress up to the nines. Order takeout and share a bottle of wine. Flirt with each other and let it go as far as you want.

Play an online game together
Take it a step further by placing stakes on the game. Decide in advance what the loser owes the winner- some risqué rewards makes it even more interesting.

Spa/Massage treatment
For couples staying together, treat yourselves to a homemade spa treatment. Men, allow your ladies to apply gooey mixtures to your face. Let her do your manicure and pedicure while at it, and also return the favour. You will both have a good laugh at the end of the day. You can also give yourselves a complete body massage.

Exercise
Challenge yourselves to a body fitness goal and work towards that it together. It should be a fun activity without one partner criticizing the other.
Use this period to get to know yourselves better and grow stronger in your relationship.

A nearby church held service today, but they didn't make use of microphones nor drums or other instruments. A really quiet service for which I was really grateful for.

A phrase used to refer to someone or something that existed in the past, which suddenly reappears again or that you are reminded of again. For instance, you could hear a song now which could make you recollect memories from the past. You could reconnect with old secondary school mate. Some past memories might be fun and cool to remember or come in contact with, while others are what you’d rather they stayed in the past.

In my case, earlier this year I reconnected with an old friend in an unexpected place (these things are usually unexpected right, lol). It seemed like an answer to a prayer, a sign from the heavens – I was definitely in need of a sign back then. Well take it from me, some signs are actually false leads as this one turned out to be.

In as much as I don’t regret decisions that have led me right up to this stage, this was one chapter I wish I had never reopened. It should have stayed buried in the past. But it’s all part of the learning process. Plus this encounter didn’t cause any harm to me, so I guess I was lucky.

But not all blasts from the past can be as insignificant as mine turned out to be. They could just completely alter one’s life, tear it apart and reduce it to ashes. What then do you do when something or someone threatens to destroy the very fabric of your life? How do you deal with that long buried secret that suddenly rears its ugly head up?

We all have that one thing we don’t want in the open. What lengths will you go to hold on to what you have now? To protect it from that hurricane threatening to sweep off all that you have worked for? Think deep and find an answer to that. How far will you go?

So many mushroom universities littering the country. Some are under construction right now sef. And poor souls will waste valuable time and money in search of a certificate.