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Hey,there is one part you guys always forget -- we don't BITE!
She might like the way you are, but you can't
survive in this "dating world" without being able
to look people in the eyes! Eye contact is one
of the most powerful ways to connect with
people.
Without it you won't seem confident,
and that's the most important key to being attractive.

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1. Pull courage; get to know her. After this,it becomes easier.
2. Start a conversation with her. Invite her to some cool
party. Spend some time with her. If you notice
you like her, then: Ask her out in a way that makes clear you
are talking about a date, and you like her.
3. Expressing your emotions directly, honestly
and confident is what makes a guy sexy. Learn to hold eye contact and act calm when
you're talking to people (especially attractive
women). Don't be afraid of showing vulnerability. Become as confident as you can. Ask her question that must have lengthy replies,as she talks,think of more.

Oahray:
if you are female, what makes you think you are in a position to define what guys want?

Oahray:
Op, when was the last time you appreciated a girl for being smart? When was the last time you tried to have a deep and meaningful conversation with a girl, not sex-chat? Be truthful.

Stop pretending the majority of guys aren't more interested in a lady's curves than in her brains. You run after the ones who are obsessed with their looks and then try to act like you've met every girl out there.

Take a seat jare.

7. Being shy teaches us from an early
age how to overcome barriers. From an early age, Gandhi was a very shy person. In
fact, even as a lawyer in his early 30s, he was
so shy that he could barely speak in front of a
judge. He was obviously very unsuccessful,
until he found the right cause. Shy people,
because they have a barrier that holds them back from things most others enjoy with ease,
are taught how to overcome those barriers.
Once you learn how to overcome your
shyness, every other barrier in life will be easy
in comparison.
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5. Shy people can appear to others to
be innocent or good. In many situations in life, it is better to be the innocent or good
person, rather than the outgoing and dominant
person. Socially, people may respect you more
than the aggressive and dominant individual,
which leads to them having a stronger trust in
you. In many cases, having an innocent or good appearance can be a great trait to have
for an up-and-coming leader.
6. Shy people tend to be more
believable. In comparison to people who are aggressive and outgoing who may be viewed
as more self-serving, shy people, because of
the “good guy” impression they make on
others, are more trusted and believable.
Though it is scary for them, shy people can
become effective public speakers and leaders for this reason.

3. Being quiet leads to a calming effect
on others. Other people will notice that you do not say a whole heck of a lot, and very
often they choose to view shy people as
simply being more calm. In American society,
where people are more often rewarded for
“tooting their own horn,” being quiet and calm
can have a profound positive impact on other people.
4. Appearing vulnerable is great for
certain jobs. Shy people appear to be vulnerable and easily taken advantage of by
others, which can be the case in work
environments that reward the most aggressive
competitors. However, for various human-
service-oriented jobs such as working with
mentally disabled people, counseling, or therapy, appearing vulnerable causes other
people to open up to you more, which is a
great benefit to have in your life if you are
going to be successful in these lines of work.

Yes they do like shy guys. There's absolutely nothing wrong about shy guys.
Following are seven of
these apparent weaknesses, and how, when
used right, they are actually strengths.
1. Cautious thinking. While cautious thinking can really hold you back when you
need to act quickly at times, it can also be a
great strength. Say you encounter a really
difficult problem at work. If you make a snap
or reactionary decision, you can find yourself
in a world of trouble fast. Sometimes, thinking things through for a few days and considering
them from multiple different angles is in fact
the best route.
2. Meekness can make you
approachable. If you appear to be an ordinary joe, people can feel more comfortable
in approaching you at work or a social
gathering. While being meek is not necessarily
praised in Western society, it can be a social
strength. Compare this to a person who is
really aggressive and outspoken – no one wants to go near that guy.

If i don't reply your Mentions with A Smiley, It DEFINITELY Means i Don't Like You... - smileyfreaK - ESTHARFREAK

islie mynd44 lalasticlala farano

Most girls don't have anything else to offer
apart from looking sexy.
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Argue all you want,
but this is the truth. Most ladies spend all their
time and resources on their appearance, just
to look sexy -forgetting that He is not going to
be Hot forever.
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There are times when he would only need a
real woman to share his worries with & your
miniskirts and long lashes would not bring
anything to that table. There would be days
when he would need your managerial qualities,
but you are only used to living lavish. Slay mama!
Don't spend all your days making-up,(Except
you're doing it for the money, doing nails and
turning up anywhere a DJ takes his speakers
to. Build yourself.
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Learn & practice things
that can add value to your life. Being beautiful or sexy doesn't prevent you from still being
dumb at the end of the day. There is time for everything pls. We need
responsible mothers for our unborn children,
not just a SLAY QUEEN. MAMA,SLAY
(Chop am na )

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thesicilian:
Are there working hours? or is it all day long?

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Piercedclit:
True . You haff sense

youngest85:
And so?

Kgdavid:
Of course.. all women would argue that they have intuition. Really, i think they are just a bit more observant. I actually don't understand the part about will-power...in what context?

Annie939:
I don't agree with you

Kgdavid:
Disagree with no's 5 and 7. Everything else may be true