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Sistar:
Its obvious you still didnt get my drift.
DO NOT RUSH INTO MARRIAGE.
Smiles and what makes you feel am single...

who said we have to marry tomorrow?

Sistar:
No marriage is not meant to be miserable. But because most of us just rush into it...forgetting that both of you came from different background. Had diferrent home training and see life diferrently.
So coming together as one shouldnt be a union to rush into
Marriage is beautiful
Smiles

lets get married and prove you wrong

Bluezy13:
Because it is unwise to do either.

do you vote? or you stay neutral and never vote?

Bluezy13:
I can't support or counter her opinion.
Refer to my message to her.
I'm of the opinion that some things are better left the way they are.

why cant you support or counter her?

Bluezy13:
I asked some series of questions which I know has no answers. From the unanswerable questions, I was forced to hint that it was a proof that everybody is not meant to marry. And then again, from these same questions I concluded that "Life is full of questions such that one has no choice but to allow those who will marry, marry"

Then in addressing her, I kept repeating... "Maybe... "


Now, to answer your question:
Absolutely, I'm being neutral!!
I only asked questions to throw some light without being braised.

in Supporting her what would you say?

Bluezy13:
Her Statement summarized that marriage isn't meant for everyone.
I had to air my view base on the question you asked her. I did understand you weren't on a particular side in your question.
And I'm being neutral as well. Just thought it wise to throw some light.

is this being neutral?

Bluezy13:
What happened to Solomon's 300 concubines

What would have happened to 699 wives if he had married just one??

What happened to the supposed 699 husbands who would have married the 699 wives but didn't, if he had married just 1 wife out of the 700

This is a proof that everybody is not meant to marry. And there maybe were not enough men each for a woman respectively in his time.

And then another questions:
If a young young man dies in an accident, what would happen to his supposed wife and vice versa if everybody was meant to marry??

Life is full of questions such that one has no choice but to allow those who will marry, marry. Allow things be the way they are.

Sistar:
Firstly we have the Fathers . Sisters.
We have Single mothers. Single fathers .
All are happy and prefer to remain like that than to marry or remarry as the case may be.
Some committed murder on their spouses and are reminded in the prisons.
Some lost their lives on marrying.
Somes are just coping in their marriage and wishing they had not taken such step.
Only few are happily married and not having extra marital affairs.
Only few are happily married and having good inner relationship with their inlaws.
Marriage they say is not a bed of roses. Its a school you get into to learn real life experience with you in the picture. And if your not full of patience you might graduate with a divorce certificate. (Which is a stigma in Nigeria)
My advice. Dont rush in so you wont rush out.

if we were to take your word for it you would think married people are miserable.
why do you hate marriage?

Bluezy13:
What happened to Solomon's 300 concubines

What would have happened to 699 wives if he had married just one??

What happened to the supposed 699 husbands who would have married the 699 wives but didn't, if he had married just 1 wife out of the 700

This is a proof that everybody is not meant to marry. And there maybe were not enough men each for a woman respectively in his time.

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are you sure her statement was because of numbers? or something else? thats why i asked her. mind you i didnt oppose her or support her i just asked Why she says so

Sistar:
The age at which you end up marrying and also decide to stay in it. That is your individual right age. Stepping out of it means you still not at your right age. Having in mind that not everyone is meant to marry. Think twice before you enter into it(marriage)

what makes you think some people are not meant to marry?

WORDWORLD:
Muslim men says TRUMP?! The whole mess boils down to choice of ideology.

whats up with you and adding to posts? is your brain getting slower?

riddle me this:
why are Feminists making noise supporting Islam when Islam is directly opposed to Feminist ideology?

she's a MiLF. they are magical. but usually for the nice guy losers with mama issues.

WORDWORLD:
Muslim men says TRUMP?!

what say you?

i think 19-22 for women. 30-35 for men.
women at that age have all the freshness and naivette.
men at that age have all the maturity and moola.