Boj2:

I figured!!
U pissed??

No. I'm.not. Thanks

Boj2:

Now you acting insecure..
Oh well..

Far from it.
I'm not insecure.
I just know when to stop!!!!!

Boj2:

So all the condemnation was base on
Are you south african by the way!??

I'm Nigerian and live in Nigeria

MissVirginLuna:

I never did say I was holier than thou. I just gave my opinion about abortion, but if you feel offended, then I think we are done here. And my name is coined out from my name Virginni Evi-Luna. That's my name!!!!

End of discussion!!!!

Boj2:

And on the contrary..... I had to look at your profile
you are not spiritually but sexually and intellectually endowed
You r flashing cleavage
Your nick missvirginluna is in huge contrast with all that plus the "holier art thou" traits

I never did say I was holier than thou. I just gave my opinion about abortion, but if you feel offended, then I think we are done here. And my nickname is coined out from my name Virginni Evi-Luna. That's my name!!!!

Boj2:

Apologies for my foul and vain contexts but all these happened back in 2012 when i was still in the university... So what makes you think it ws just yesterday... All that phase of my life has passed and I don't see my self putting someone else's daughter thru all dat at this stage .....
It's all good.....don't be too quick to judge pple if you don't know they whole story ,ya dig?....same applies to every story u read on here...they r all past events that we just had to reminisce about aii!!!!
So we good!?

Good day then... Thx

Boj2:

You should never impose or cajole pple to emulate your lifestyle.....
I see a 1001 loopholes in your life from a mile away... Narcissism won't get you anywhere rather wil it make you feel more complacent

Dear, I'm not cajouling anyone to emulate me, if it seemed that way, then I'm sorry. I respect it's a big world.
Have a nice day already and thanks for the words "harsh or cool"
Good day

And there are also people older than you who haven't had sex!!! So you are not alone
Cheers..

You are not on the wrong part dear poster.
I will be 23 this year, a girl and a virgin.
I'm very beautiful and endowed and so I have had lots of opportunities that I declined.
Y?
Because not everyone is meant for you.
You mustn't have sex to be the best.
God designed sex for connection and intimacy between two people.
You can have an awesome relationship with the opposite sex without having sex!
It sounds like a myth right?
But trust me, whoever loves you will wait for you
But on the other hand if sex is their ultimate, they will leave eventually.
Just know that you are on the right part
Now damn the world and do your thing

Boj2:

It's not personal....it's jus shear stupidity on your end
It was meant to be a fun fun &fun thread.. Comments like yours just didn't correlate

Whatever you say then.
It's a big world.
Enjoy

Boj2:

You can't call GOD whilst being an hypocrite ...it's conflicting!

Ok. Good day

Boj2:

They weren't babies....jus mere blood

I don't hate you. On the contrary, I do love you.
Have w nice day

Boj2:


Quit with all the self righteous sermon
last time i checked: Life's just a movie,filmed independently
People like you that condemn people like you a God barely make heaven.... Cus' this ain't preaching Good morals.. Only GOD can judge me and my actions i take...... True men/women my Asss

If you weren't guilty of what I'm saying, you wouldn't take this personal
Peace....
I will keep praying for you

Boj2:

They weren't babies....jus mere blood

Mere blood you say?
God save your soul......
Abortion is murderer and I'm not judging you, I'm just surprised you don't see it that way.
You don't see a future with a lady, don't get her pregnant.
The blood of those innocent ones is the life and they deserved to live and breath just as you are....
But I'm scared you see them as mere blood..
It's harrowing.. Piercing and blinding!!!

Wow
I'm glad to see a thread created for fellow like minds like me.
God bless us all.
Like the popular saying, if sex and prostitution can be discussed without an apology, so y then should we be quiet as virgins?
We must uphold what we have and sensitize the younger girls on why they should keep themselves as Virgins!!!!!
Sex is meant for the confides of marriage and I'm not judging those who already have, but you can make a u turn now

ogtavia:
bro...the whole world doesn't see the sun at the same time...we all have different experiences and come from different backgrounds....what you think makes you a man might not be what another person thinks makes him a man....i have a mother and only sisters,the least respect I can give to my mother and my sisters is to respect them and every other woman who I come in contact with....it is how I have been trained...It isn't a big deal for me to do kitchen work,of course combined with office work, it is a bit difficult but anytime I can,i help out in the kitchen....i am not married yet but I do all my kitchen work myself...if I get married and I help my wife in the kitchen....i dont think it makes me less a man....i became less a man when I can't command the respect of my wife,when I cheat on her or hit her,when I don't take care of her needs -physically,materially,emotionally,mentally and sexually....i become less of a man when I can't guide her,become her closest friend,advice her,strive to make her a better person,i become less of a man when I don't strive to become a better person for her....i dont have to control or discipline my wife,....marriage isnt animal rearing, a military institution et cetera.....my brother....doin domestic work or cooking for my wife is the last thing that would make me less of a man....the lady in question is my guest....should I now die of hunger because she doesn't cook...??

Good riddance to bad rubbish.
People think that the ability to have self control makes you less of a man or woman when it comes to sex.
TThey don't know sex is not the ultimate. If you meet a girl and the only thing you think about is sex, then you are obviously not a man. Friendship will last the test of times and she will respect you more when you show maturity through self control.
When as a man, you don't and can't guide yourself from having sex with any woman just because you can't hold yourself, then sorry, one day your wife will travel and her sister will come and you will end up asking of sex from her.
It's a very harrowing and mundane mindset
My dear, don't give a hoot about what they think.
True men respect women
True men are not the one sleeping around and paying for abortions, killing innocent lives.. With bloodshed on their hands. Real men are the one's who know their boundaries...
Everything now is sex sex sex sex
Rubbish!!!!

Boj2:

Couldn't see a future with her tho.... Had to take Extreme Measures ....
P.s: (D&C was not in the Equation)

You mean you couldn't see a future with her, but you said she got pregnant thrice
What happened to those innocent babies
They didn't have a future too!!!!
Oh God have mercy!

As a young girl myself who's not married yet, I can't and should not stay with a Man who's not my husband as a roommate. It's not wise, biblically it's very wrong. But if perhaps by circumstances you are staying with her, then remove your mind from sex, if you cannot remove your mind from sex, then go find somewhere else to stay. Mr Poster, you are not a kid, so you shouldn't come and find succor online to affirm your plans or none plans. You said she's your friend's sister and from your writeup, you are already bothered about what may arise. That's not a good sign.... Cohabitation is wrong and even if you have no intentions, the devil may use you or her. Be wise, except you know what you are doing