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Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by amnwa(m): 10:01am On Jan 25, 2017
Now before you judge me.. Take time to get to know me..
I have been living in the word of pretence.. Strongly cos of what people see me as. 98% females who know me will call me a master when it comes to sex obviously because of the way I talk, act and the crazy chats in social media.. It is perhaps my greatest tool to hide this simple face that am still yet to have sex...
Now its not lack of opportunity. I have had many. When I say many I mean every word. For some reasons I have always stopped at the last minute and it has led to many of my relationships ending immediately probably cos the felt am weak or they weren't good enough. In mind I have always wished the could understand me abit.
I could remember vividly the day a neighbor, who from some ways knew I hadn't had sex as I always shrugged off sexual advances from her. She offered to teach me sex. It was funny tho but it was really touched me deeply. Many would have rushed at that opportunity but then I declined...
Now I really have no reason of still not having sex. Fear has been a factor I must confess.. But I can't really describe what am afraid of..

Before many claim this is fabricated, note.. I don't need you to believe it. Am not too handsome, jus okay. You can rate me highly in romantic gestures and words.

People in the house.. Am I right in still being a Virgin or should I go ahead..
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by CplusJason: 10:13am On Jan 25, 2017
If to say goat know say salad dey, e for nor dey chop grass.






You're on the wrong path sir. cool

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:13am On Jan 25, 2017
Do not let any devil lead you astray,you on the right part...it's a thing of pride.Keep it up,do not lose it,pls.

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 25, 2017
You are so on the right path oga.

I don't understand your point. Are you saying it a shame to still be a Virgin at 22. Haven't you seen guys who married a Virgin at 30s?

My advice, don't ever indulge in sexual relations with someone you can't marry. If you must do it, make sure it with the right person.

So whether in marriage or outside marriage, make sure it with the right person, so you don't have to tell the tails later.

Sex is sweet, doing it with an asshole is Bullshit... So they said

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by iamDaisy(f): 10:15am On Jan 25, 2017
lipsrsealed
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by mznel(m): 10:16am On Jan 25, 2017
Your on the wrong path o. Don't mind all this females oo.. Na them go yab u pass wen d realise u havent

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by mznel(m): 10:17am On Jan 25, 2017
Tiny23:
Do not let any devil lead you astray,you on the right part...it's a thing of pride.Keep it up,do not lose it,pls.
My sister leave DT tin. B real to d niggar.
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by SUPERPACK: 10:17am On Jan 25, 2017
CplusJason:
If to say goat know say salad dey, e for nor dey chop grass.






You're on the wrong path sir. cool
.

Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by SUPERPACK: 10:18am On Jan 25, 2017
mznel:
My sister leave DT tin. B real to d niggar.
who sex don epp abeg.

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:26am On Jan 25, 2017
mznel:
My sister leave DT tin. B real to d niggar.

I'm being real na
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by NwannekaUloma(f): 10:28am On Jan 25, 2017
Not yet an achievement or something to brag about till u get married as a virgin..

but yea,,,we all are on the right path smiley
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by mznel(m): 10:32am On Jan 25, 2017
Tiny23:



I'm being real na
so u na Virgin too grin
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 25, 2017
NwannekaUloma:
Not yet an achievement or something to brag about till u get married as a virgin..

but yea,,,we all are on the right path smiley
The girl from the East
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:36am On Jan 25, 2017
mznel:
so u na Virgin too grin

why you wan know?
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by mznel(m): 10:39am On Jan 25, 2017
Tiny23:



why you wan know?
u shud practice wat u preach. Or are u....
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 25, 2017
mznel:
u shud practice wat u preach. Or are u....



okay
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by NwannekaUloma(f): 11:03am On Jan 25, 2017
TheSlyone2:

The girl from the East
the guy from naija
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 25, 2017
NwannekaUloma:
the guy from naija
Do what's up
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by firstking01(m): 11:57am On Jan 25, 2017
So, people are now detecting your life for you?...@that age bracket you don't know what's good for youundecided…berra wake up and start living out your life as the man you are and stop seeking people's opinion before you take a step, esp on trivial issues like thisundecided

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by DeLioncourt: 12:36pm On Jan 25, 2017
amnwa:
Now before you judge me.. Take time to get to know me..
I have been living in the word of pretence.. Strongly cos of what people see me as. 98% females who know me will call me a master when it comes to sex obviously because of the way I talk, act and the crazy chats in social media.. It is perhaps my greatest tool to hide this simple face that am still yet to have sex...
Now its not lack of opportunity. I have had many. When I say many I mean every word. For some reasons I have always stopped at the last minute and it has led to many of my relationships ending immediately probably cos the felt am weak or they weren't good enough. In mind I have always wished the could understand me abit.
I could remember vividly the day a neighbor, who from some ways knew I hadn't had sex as I always shrugged off sexual advances from her. She offered to teach me sex. It was funny tho but it was really touched me deeply. Many would have rushed at that opportunity but then I declined...
Now I really have no reason of still not having sex. Fear has been a factor I must confess.. But I can't really describe what am afraid of..

Before many claim this is fabricated, note.. I don't need you to believe it. Am not too handsome, jus okay. You can rate me highly in romantic gestures and words.

People in the house.. Am I right in still being a Virgin or should I go ahead..

n*gga it's your choice.
being a virgin or not doesn't change who you are.
why live in pretense when you can actually do the things you pretend to have done?

PS. sex isn't as awesome as porn makes it seem...so be prepared for a let down...except you're an excitable fella...
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:44pm On Jan 25, 2017
You are not on the wrong part dear poster.
I will be 23 this year, a girl and a virgin.
I'm very beautiful and endowed and so I have had lots of opportunities that I declined.
Y?
Because not everyone is meant for you.
You mustn't have sex to be the best.
God designed sex for connection and intimacy between two people.
You can have an awesome relationship with the opposite sex without having sex!
It sounds like a myth right?
But trust me, whoever loves you will wait for you
But on the other hand if sex is their ultimate, they will leave eventually.
Just know that you are on the right part
Now damn the world and do your thing

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:45pm On Jan 25, 2017
And there are also people older than you who haven't had sex!!! So you are not alone
Cheers..
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jan 25, 2017
amnwa:

People in the house.. Am I right in still being a Virgin or should I go ahead..

Anyway, you aren't wrong neither are you right as well. 22 is quite young, not everyone had sex before that age.

But i will honestly tell you you should find a Girlfriend & fall in luv before 25, which is 3 years from now. so you still have time.

Please don't marry as a virgin, there is no reward to it. Experience is key when it comes to women.

If you are poor in bed, the years of waiting will be of no use. Women don't care if you waited all your life. Its a NO NO for women. Because 1st time sex usually goes wrong, it takes time to perfect lol

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:
You are not on the wrong part dear poster.
I will be 23 this year, a girl and a virgin.

well, being a virgin as a girl is different from being a virgin as a guy. I'm not a sexist. I'm just being realistic.
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by MissVirginLuna(f): 1:17pm On Jan 25, 2017
truthsayer007:


well, being a virgin as a girl is different from being a virgin as a guy. I'm not a sexist. I'm just being realistic.
Well, I gave him a general advice not for just girls and I don't see anything wrong with that or is there
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by chomytex(f): 1:18pm On Jan 25, 2017
Fear of what? 22yrs and u complaining.
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by amnwa(m): 1:30pm On Jan 25, 2017
chomytex:
Fear of what?
22yrs and u complaining.
pls read the post well..

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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by MrsExplorer(f): 2:22pm On Jan 25, 2017
You probably suffering from erotophobia. While your post could be a joke or an attention seeking quest as most topics on nairaland are, i would like to say this for the sake of those that might actually be suffering from it.

erotophobia is very diverse and complex kind of phobia but majorly relates to the fear of sex or anything sexual.

While this might seem normal or something to be ignored,,an untreated erotophobia could lead to a lack of romantic relationships, fear of getting intimate, insecurities, low self esteem later in life.

you can check https://www.verywell.com/fear-of-sex-2671739 if you'll like to know more
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 25, 2017
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Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 25, 2017
truthsayer007:


Nothing wrong o, being that Miss Virgin Luna exist in your name cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by amnwa(m): 3:09pm On Jan 25, 2017
MrsExplorer:
You probably suffering from erotophobia. While your post could be a joke or an attention seeking quest as most topics on nairaland are, i would like to say this for the sake of those that might actually be suffering from it.

erotophobia is very diverse and complex kind of phobia but majorly relates to the fear of sex or anything sexual.

While this might seem normal or something to be ignored,,an untreated erotophobia could lead to a lack of romantic relationships, fear of getting intimate, insecurities, low self esteem later in life.

you can check https://www.verywell.com/fear-of-sex-2671739 if you'll like to know more

Thanks for your research.... But this isn't a joke I already stated that... And my fear isnt just about sex . I just can't define it.
Re: Virgin At 22.. Am I On The Right Path by MissVirginLuna(f): 3:30pm On Jan 25, 2017
[quote author=truthsayer007 post=53119294][/quote]
Evi-Virginni Luna is my full name and real name.... That's where that monicker is coined from. Understand now

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