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9. Simp: A Simp is an irrational individual especially a man, who goes above and beyond to gain the affection of someone, often a woman, to the point of self-deprecation, sacrificing his dignity and self-respect in the process. A Simp always have an array of crushes. He either shows overwhelming affection or is trying to lure a woman to bed by appealing to her favour. Either way, a simp is often ignored or learns the hard way.
Other Names: Lover Boy, Doormat, The Nice Guy
Allies: White Knight, Runs Girl, Office Man, in some cases - Feminist
Enemies: Redpiller, Broke Boy, Olosho, Agbero, Yahoo Boy, The Elders
Religious Views: Christianity, Islam
Appearance: A Simp's look can vary but he often dress to impress in hopes of catching his crush's eye, sometimes overdoing it with flashy accessories.
Hobbies: Stalking crush's social media profiles, showering crush with compliments, planning elaborate gestures to win her affection, smiling to himself at night, fantasizing over girls on Tiktok, daydreaming about crush, disagreeing with contrary opinion, displaying his assets to crush
Hangouts: Locations he can admire his crushes
Positive Traits: Generous, caring, romantic, resourceful
Negative Traits: Naive, slow, delusional, low self-esteem, ignorant, desperate, boring, unfaithful
Weapons: Flattery, gifts, attention
Social Position: Lower to mid
Famous Quote: "Betty, I've told you severally. Your past doesn't matter to me even though you were a stripper at the community club and was married to our community chairman before me, I love you and that is all I know. I don't know why you bring up the past, we all have our experiences so let us leave the past in the past, okay?", "Where is this girl?", "After everything I have done for you, how can you do this to me?" "I called you, why didn't you answer?" "Bimpe, God will punish you!", "Who is this guy?", "Ye! dis girl done kill me!", "The thing wey women don do me ehn..", "Your beauty is divine, you don't know how I feel" "You are my everything." "No, no, no, leave it, it's okay, I'll pay for it."
Score: 30/100

8. Redpiller (Manosphere Edition): A Redpiller is a rational/irrational proud member of the manosphere where he shares his “wisdom” on dating, relationships and what he perceives as the harsh truths about women, often positioning himself as the ultimate authority on masculinity. A Redpiller lives a fake life and does his best to manipulate appearances and alter his personality to conform to the theories he learns from his gurus. A Redpiller's life is characterized by inertia. He has to be forced to step out of his comfort zone by an external force else he prefers to remain in his mental palace. He also tries to maintain a confident and captivating look to hide his insecurities but his low budget personality occasionally finds a way to glorify itself.
Other Names: MRA (Men's Rights Activist), PUA (Pick-Up Artist)
Allies: The Manosphere, The Elders, Broke Boy, Incel
Enemies: Feminist, Bluepill men, Office Man, Simp
Religious Views: Mostly Atheist, Christianity, Islam
Appearance: A Redpiller either often tries to look cool or completely ignores his appearance by dressing casual—think fitted jeans, well-groomed beard and a collection of T-shirts.
Hobbies: Engaging in online debates, consuming manosphere content, sharing of memes, making rude remarks at women online, scrolling through Tiktok, perfecting his "pickup game", masturbating to internet porn, mocking perceived or potential simps, lying down on the bed with his phone in his hand and one leg on the other, gaming women, sharing free insights on female nature
Hangouts: Redpill forums, 4chan, Nairaland, Reddit, YouTube, Tumblr and on rare cases - Quora
Positive Traits: Strategic, assertive, goal-oriented, knowledgeable, intelligent
Negative Traits: Misogynist tendencies, arrogant, silly, socially awkward, condescending, emotionally unavailable, ridiculous, immature, superficial relationships, embarrassment after being discovered, confusion, less success with quality women, prone to barum effect, rat-like behaviour
Weapons: Knowledge of dating dynamics, huge penis, superficial charm, a toned body
Social Position: Either Mid or Bottom
Famous Quotes: "When I tell them to swallow the red pill, they said no, okay na" "Real truth Bro," "It's not about manipulation; it is about understanding the game," "Women are attracted to power—so be powerful," "There is this girl that is...what can I...?", "Remember all women are like that", "Gay? me wey be confam alpha male", "Bro, you can't call yourself an alpha male, society would be the one to say so.", "Why won't women have sex with me?", "Every guy should visit the gym", "Leave them, when they reach 40, they would run to Shiloh", "Low budget feminist, na so dem dey do.", "Dis girl think say she get sense.",
Score: 60/100

7. Broke Boy: A Broke Boy is a rational/irrational individual, typically a guy who is charming yet financially challenged but believes that personality and charisma can make up for an empty wallet, often spotted using items in the latest trends… from last season.
Other Names: The Dreamer, Borrow Me Abeg
Allies: Fellow Broke Boys, Family
Enemies: Everyone
Religious Views: Islam, Christianity
Appearance: A Broke Boy wears a T shirt along with a faded knicker with an iPhone 6-7 alongside a power bank in his pocket and flip flops or he wears a stylish outfit from last season. He usually has a rough beard and bushy hair until he is able to source out money for a haircut which happens every two to three weeks. He is charming, funny and merry. His eyes is usually focused on Runs Girl but she snubs him everytime he makes a move. His low budget girlfriend also gets taken from him whenever they walk by the roadside and a car pulls by.
Hobbies: Getting free food at events, giving pep talks about future success, frequenting online platforms to complain after failing to get into Runs Girl's pants, borrowing from online loan apps, gambling, eating indomie and egg, garri lover
[b[Hangouts:[/b] Corner of homes, Religious Centers, Parties, Football Fields, Viewing Centers, Streets, Canteens, Schools
Positive Traits: Funny, resourceful, optimistic, creative
Negative Traits: Always broke, low respect, see finish, complainer, misogynist tendencies, unambitious, unhygienic
Weapons: Wit, charm, huge penis, knives, guns, fist
Social Position: Lower - bottom
Famous Quotes: "Nobody knows tomorrow ," "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" "I'm saving my money for something big," "How much last?", "Abeg una get iPhone charger?", "My guy, just make money, women go dey chase you like fly", "Guy, dis game sure, play two odds."
Score: 40/100

6. Runs Girl: A Runs Girl is an irrational individual, usually a young lady who knows how to navigate the social scene, often trading charm and body for cash and living life like it is a never-ending party. A Runs Girl is the cooler version of Olosho. She is savvy, smart and attractive. A Runs Girl lies to her parents and boyfriend in order to make extra cash and preserve her secret. She usually hangs out with Office Man, Husband and Politician, with Lecturer and Yahoo Boy on rare occasions.
Other Names: Sugar Baby, Twilight girl, Queen of the Night
Allies: Rich Uncle, Lecturer, Office Man, Politician, Husband, Yahoo Boy
Enemies: Haters, Broke Boy, Moral Police, Housewife, Parents, Boyfriend
Religious Views: Christianity, Islam, Idol worshipper
Appearance: A Runs Girl is always decked out in the latest designer outfits, perfectly manicured nails and a face beat that could stop traffic.
Hobbies: Shopping sprees, attending lavish events, hoping into cars, selfies, sharing updates on social media, travelling, visiting hotels, trash-talking other guys/girls
Hangouts: Other countries, Hotels, Beaches, Supermarkets, Classes, Parks, Bedrooms
Positive Traits: Charismatic, stylish, resourceful, brave, rich life experience
Negative Traits: Materialistic, dramatic, misunderstood, rebellious, unsatisfied, unfaithful, deceitful, prone to danger
Weapons: Charm, handbag, social media presence, slaps, insults, juju, extensive contact list of rich “Uncles", pepper spray, knives
Social Position: Upper
Famous Quotes: "Abeg free me!", "I know Babe calm down. He is my Uncle, you don't have to worry", "I'm not a gold digger; I'm a treasure hunter," "Chief what about the money you promised me?" "Who are you calling ashawo?, you better watch your mouth," "Ah, no Daddy, this is the university, I don't want my roommates wahala. No one brought their brother to the hostel, why should I?"
Score: 80/100

5. Feminist: A Feminist is an irrational, misguided and cynical individual, in most cases a woman who is a fierce advocate for women's rights and can spot a patriarchal plot from a mile away. A feminist typically a woman, has few friends and criticizes women who even dare give men a seductive look, claiming that men are only out to take advantage of women and can never be trusted, revered nor acknowledged as superior. She is intelligent, well read, influential and outspoken, in most cases, the queen bee in her prime and player's widow in the later years.
Other Names: Gender Warrior, Queen of Sass, The Queen Bee
Allies: Office Man, Runs Girl, School Girl, Most women
Enemies: Agbero, Olosho, The Elders, Boyfriend, Redpiller, Housewife, Player, Broke Boy
Religious Views: Mostly Christianity
Appearance: A Feminist either sports a bold style, often rocking slogan t-shirts that say things like “Girl Power" paired with a confident strut or dresses elegantly with a good command of her body.
Hobbies: Debating on social media, making sadistic remarks to men, reading literature, eye-rolling at sexist comments, hanging out with a special clique of ladies, punishing school girls who chase after boys, giving free pep talks focused on human relationships
Hangouts: Restaurants, Beaches, School libraries and Classrooms, Churches, Event centers, Parks
Positive Traits: Passionate, highly intelligent, charming, sexy, cool, witty, outspoken, loyal, prudent
Negative Traits: Dramatic, crazy, delusional, misandrist tendencies, aristocratic, intimidating, misunderstood, closed minded, vulnerable to manipulation
Weapons: a killer sense of humor, slaps, sadistic remarks, motherly insults, pushes, pepper spray, historical knowledge
Social Position: Upper or mid level
Famous Quotes: "I’m not bossy, this is who I am," "Behind every successful woman is herself," "Ambitious women really only have two options: a super-supportive partner or no partner at all", "I just want a man who understands me", "Men don't know what they want", "Why are men so cruel, I hate men!"
Score: 90/100

4. Content Creator: A Content Creator is a rational/irrational individual, typically a digital hustler who produces videos, memes and blogs, often showcasing the chaos of everyday life while trying to be the next big thing on social media, often pretending to have his life together when he might just be occupying one room in a face me - I slap you.
Other Names: Influencer, Vlogger, Meme Master
Allies: Followers, Brand Partners, Fellow Creators
Enemies: Trolls, Competitors, Parents, The Government, Algorithm Changes
Religious Views: Christianity, Islam
Appearance: A Content Creator wears trendy outfits, often mixing his local fashion with the latest styles while pretending to have it all together even if he borrowed the items to perform or have nothing to eat that evening.
Hobbies: Filming skits, engaging with followers, attending events for free food, brainstorming new ideas, bragging of new followers, stealing contents from other creators, chasing clout, spying on celebrities
Hangouts: Parties, borrowed houses, streets, event centers, markets
Positive Traits: Creative, adaptable, engaging, cool
Negative Traits: Pompous, inauthentic, condescending
Weapons: Smartphones, editing apps, dramatic display
Social Position: Mid - upper
Famous Quotes: "Don’t forget to like and follow, or I’ll send my village people after you," "10 facts you should know about..." "Let’s go viral," "There is a video that is trending on Tiktok where....," "Ok guys until then, stay safe.", "Which kind food combination be this, abeg you guys make una see o...", "Just click the link in my bio, then use the name xxxx as promo code."
Score: 85/100

3. Office Man: An Office Man is a rational and professional individual who works in a corporate environment, often associated with business attire and office culture.
Other Names: Corporate Guy, Suit Guy, Businessman
Allies: Colleagues, Managers, Clients, Networking Contacts
Enemies: Agbero, Olosho, Competitors, Bosses
Religious Views: Christianity
Appearance: An Office Man typically wears formal attire such as suits, ties, polished shoes and carries a briefcase or laptop bag. He is a selfish and goal oriented man who focuses on his work more than the people around him.
Hobbies: Attending networking events, dining out, investing in stocks, picking up of runs girls, participating in team-building activities, reading business-related books, hunting for university girls, reading the news before bedtime
Hangouts: Offices, Hotels, University gates, Churches
Positive Traits: Professional, ambitious, disciplined, strategic thinker, leadership, good communicator
Negative Traits: Boring, arrogant, workaholic, condescending, competitive, stress-prone, insincere, may neglect personal life, prone to weaker orgasms
Weapons: Knowledge, insults, negotiation skills, networking, presentation skills, police, lawyers
Social Position: Mid - upper
Famous Quotes: "Let's take this meeting offline," "Time is money," "I’ll circle back to you," "Can we table that for now?" "I’m just following up.", "I'm tired of this country.", "This government is just frustrating our business." "Will you be available?"
Score: 60/100

2. Olosho: An Olosho is an irrational individual, typically a woman who engages in sex work for money. She is confident, sexy and unruly.
Other Names: Ashawo, Iyawo Ita
Allies: Agbero, Club Promoter, Pastor John, Yahoo Boy
Enemies: Moral Police, Housewife, Religious Leader, Feminist, Law Enforcement, Runs Girl
Religious Views: Islam, Christianity
Appearance: An Olosho dresses provocatively with tight-fitting clothes, heavy makeup and fake accessories. In most cases she is dark in complexion.
Hobbies: Clubbing, chilling with area boys, saluting madam, brawls with other oloshos, gossiping, rubbing of men's chest, lover of fugi music, mocking, complaining of her life story
Hangouts: Beer parlour, Markets, Religious centers, Hotels, Streets
Positive Traits: Street-smart, confident, adaptable, resourceful
Negative Traits: Unattractive, dirty, loud, unreliable, unruly, unhygienic, promiscuous, unfaithful
Weapons: High heels, broom, spit, urine, slaps, insults
Social Position: Mid - bottom
Famous Quotes: "Baby, you go enjoy am," "Where the party at?", "No money, no honey," "I fit take care of you well-well," "Na hustle we dey hustle.", "Moni for hand, back for ground."
Score: 37/100

1. Agbero: An agbero is an irrational, forceful and local individual (mostly a man) who goes about making chaos and commotion especially around bus stops and markets. He is a hustler, a ticket collector and overall lord of the public transport realm.
Other Names: Area boy, Owó mi dà?
Allies: Olosho, Cultist, Chief, Politician
Enemies: Office Man, Husband, School Boy, Market Woman, Bus Driver
Religious Views: Islam, Idol worshipper, Christianity
Appearance: An agbero wears a faded jeans trouser with his shirt hung on one shoulder, usually with tribal marks, scars on his chest, dark in complexion and with a pair of bathroom slippers for convenience.
Hobbies: arguing with paddies, playing cards or ludo, chilling with the squad, gesticulating with his hands, demanding for money from passer-by, bullying the "weaker ones", staring at women's buttocks, watching football, rallying votes for politicians.
Hangouts: Beer parlour, Under bridges, Markets, On-top fences, Uncompleted buildings, Streets
Positive traits: tough, resourceful, charismatic, adaptable, reliable
Negative traits: Aggressive, cannot predict the future, vindictive, arrogant, condescending, promiscuous.
Weapons: guns, pistols, cutlass, fist
Social Position: Mid - bottom
Famous quotes: "Oga mi", "Twale!", "Madam, if you no get change, we go manage am. Na we be change!" "Oga, this bus dey go anywhere wey you wan go. Just enter, make we dey move!" "Baba, wetin you dey find?", "psst, fine gal", "If you no fit shout, you no fit be agbero."
Score: 47/100



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segcymoor:
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Your sense of reason is above average

Thank you. I will eventually.

efembaba:
That you have a long post doesn't mean you are making sense OP

Right you are but only in your own view. Let's not disturb those who see the insights to it.

Proserpina:
Oh take your time dear.

I'm willing to read whenever you are ready to respond.

lol, I was being sarcastic. You don't have to take my comments so literally. Sorry but at this stage that I am, I don't get dopamine from debating. I debate to understand, not to convince. Sorry once again.

Proserpina:
I'm honestly curious as to how you intend to "navigate" and "resist" society troubles you listed in your initial post as A REALIST you are.

This is you normalizing abnormalities in a society and preach them as fact. If Government is not your friend then who is the government? Aren't they people in our midst selected to govern us? If they can't be friends, shouldn't they be held accountable?

If the law is not there to protect you, why make them at all?

Churches are not there to save you, no Jesus saves not church. Church is a congregation of believers of Christ not the savior himself. Church is a group of people like you who come together to share what they have in their discretion. It is entitlement mentality to think a group of people whom you share same economic and social policies with are OBLIGATED to SAVE especially FINANCIAL saving. The Bible and Holy Spirit are number pathway to spiritual growth. There are lots of church goer's who don't grow spiritually not because the church is bad but they are yet to be saved.

Money in Essence isn't Debt, Loans are. Any right thinking being knows to minimize debts in business.

Doctors take oath to save lives, most doctors of functioning societies do all to ensure their patients are fine. If you preach otherwise it's little wonder your politicians would rather travel miles overseas to get treated than improve hospitals in Nigeria. Lol... They know people like you will understand and preach it as hard truth to gullible ones.

And who's fault is this? Your colonisers keep improving their educational system while you as a nation keep doing things same old way. Thank God for some private schools they inculcate practical life skills into their curriculum. Should we demand this for all institutions as well? Oh I forgot, Government is our enemy they are untouchable

Lol Probably because your nation is a dumping ground for things that ought to work but don't. If you produce drugs yourself and not wait for a group of pharmacist in India to research and create drugs maybe you won't get drugs that takes days to work at expensive prices.
Even at that some still work


Another sob story. Your vote should count shouldn't it

Lol I can go on and on but I'm curious how do you intend to navigate these hard truth?

Please you will have to forgive me. I'm a very lazy debater. There is just not enough time or energy to spare. I hope you understand.

Proserpina:
Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain

Awn, what a cutie!

Proserpina:
When people sell their cynical thoughts as "THE TRUTH" then you should know they are members of a very brutal societal system.

I'm not surprised you all got here! Victims are blamed and expected to be "wiser" it's only a matter of time before everyone begin to act smart, outplay one another and the evil ones you excused grow while the "weak at heart" you criticize learn to be wicked .

Lol... Just look at how you call practices sane individuals ought to weed out of their society as "Hard Truth" and the likes from people who share your thought process is mind boggling.

Pity!

A cynical realist is better equipped to navigate and resist societal troubles than an idealist or conformist. We must learn from history or we are doomed to repeat it.

psucc:
This doesn't apply to everyone.

Most times, it rather goes predestined. A number of people who works hard and smart do not make it but the lots fall on others who hasn't been serious about it.

It is either you modify your tactics to achieve your goals no matter the obstacle or adjust your goals to suit what is available, it is up to you. A lot of people achieve their initial goals through persistence while others edit their goals to suit society. None is better than the other. It is all about preference and one shouldn't complain when the bad sides of each preference comes to knock.

balaclava:
Salary is not designed for your freedom but your bondage.

Forget the appearance, your colleagues at work are not your friends.

Disregard the notion, your office is not a family.

Bosses are not interested in you progress, they are interested only in their business.

Like OP posted, It is all a scam

There is no privacy anymore. If given the chance many of us would choose to return back to the golden era where all we cared about was to learn, to conquer and to love. Money was never the goal, it was freedom.

Ow0eg0kudi:
Truth? Respectfullly, these are your personal opinions!

JESUS CHRIST is the Truth.

Blessings⛪

Remember Ephesians 6:12 in NIV version

Switinthemiddle:
What you said is so true especially the part about most people living their lives on the internet nowadays. Its so disheartning

The internet is filled with all kinds of distractions to be clear. People have adapted fantasies to replace real life experiences as a coping mechanism to how they would have preferred their lives to be. There are many gifted people who would have been demigods if only they could focus more on the present and learn to seize or manipulate opportunities to their favour.

If people were obsessed with their goals the way they obsess with the internet, it is no miracle, they will achieve concrete value.

victory36:
It's exciting to see that not all Nigerians are NPCs

Rationality is not common and that is the problem. I hope the mods would consider the article worthy of gracing the front page.

In my opinion, the only category of humanity that is free from this mental oppression to a minimum are the children. They play around and live the way they please everyday without even realizing the mess we adults have to go through to survive in a corrupt and mumu society. It makes us want to envy them

psucc:
Hmmmm! This add to the fact that this life is filled with mysteries. Things aren't truly the way we see them. They're never what we intend they are.

You can be deliberate on how you want your life to be. Remember number 10

1. The Government is not your friend

They don't care about you. You're not their priority. Whenever someone new is running for office, they focus on appealing to the small but powerful elites who secretly control the country. The candidate seeks their support to rally votes and these elites ultimately decide who gets the government seat. After making several promises to them, these influential elites will then mobilize people from their regions to vote for their chosen candidate. These elites run the country and once the candidate takes power, they must repay their debt to them to prevent troubles. The candidate also cannot make major decisions the elites disagree with or they'll risk not being selected the next time or even removed. Trying to bypass these elites as a candidate to gain power is also nearly impossible unless there is a revolution to backup.

You will do well to understand that Government at it's core is always driven by political agendas and self-interest, rarely prioritizing the well-being of the citizens. Policies are crafted to gain power, control and economic dominance, exploiting and manipulating the populace without exception. In essence, the government never opposes itself. You think they care that you cannot afford your school fees? Sorry to you.

2. The Law is not here to protect you

The legal system is inherently biased and exclusively serves the interests of those in power first and foremost. You were hardly considered when the laws were being made and will scarcely be when you're up against one who is significantly superior to you in society. Laws are created to maintain order and protect the elite, hardly ever ensuring justice for the common person. This is the society we live in.

3. Money in Essence is Debt

When banks create money through loans, they get richer by essentially creating money out of nothing. You, on the other hand are negatively affected. The banks benefit from the interest they charge and this income adds to their wealth. They also charge various fees, increasing their profits further and smiling their way home. For you, taking a loan means you must repay more than you borrowed creating a cycle of financial burden. The creation of money through loans also lead to inflation as business owners increase their prices to keep up with the dollar rates thereby reducing your money's purchasing power, and If you can't repay, you risk losing your assets adding significant stress to your life.

Simply put, the system enriches banks while placing financial strain on you. Financial stability for a majority of people is a myth under this system.

4. Most Churches aren't here to save you

Most churches aren't here to save you my friend. They would rather do the opposite and feel no remorse for doing so. They focus on rituals, traditions and money rather than genuinely helping you to grow spiritually. They also work alongside the government to keep you under control. Believe me or not, that is the game. How many times have you seen or heard it on the news where these charlatans demonstrate their heinous acts under the guise of Christianity? How deep and effective has the messages you've been consuming developed your consciousness?

Instead of solely depending on these institutions, my friend seek your own path to truth and personal growth. Your spiritual journey is unique and it's important to find what truly resonates with your heart and soul and not what another man tells you in his name. Though I know that is what a majority of you would prefer - for a charlatan to piss on your head to deliver you from evil spirits or to walk on your cash for your journey to financial breakthrough.

5. Doctors are not here to ensure your health

The healthcare system is intrinsically focused on profit and doctors are a part of this system that prioritizes lucrative treatments over your health. Drugs are sold at ridiculous prices and in most cases, health practitioners secretly ensure your care is compromised. Nutrition advertisements are also compromised to ensure you keep coming to visit.

6. The school system is not designed to provide you with existential knowledge.

Of course, unless you are the most absent-minded and ignorant type, it shouldn't take a prophet to reveal this to you. Our education system is all about memorizing facts and following rules. It doesn't measure true intelligence or help you to truly understand things or think for yourself. You just spend a whole lot of time getting ready for standardized tests by learning specific answers and never really understanding the ideas behind them. This way, getting the "right" answer is more important than thinking about different viewpoints.

In your classes, creativity and critical thinking are not the main focus. You are told not to question the material or suggest new ideas. Instead, you're taught to accept information as it is and remember it for exams. Thus, only your memory skills are tested and after leaving school, you forget about 80% of what you spent years of your life to acquire; you aren't even guaranteed a reasonable job by the way.

Our schools today are set up to make sure you fit into the current society. This means it is imprinted into your coding to follow instructions, meet deadlines and stick to the rules which are important for many traditional jobs. This doesn't help you challenge the usual ways of doing things, think in new ways or seek personal growth but about making you good workers who fit into existing structures rather than becoming an empowered, enlightened person who can think critically and creatively which are the very qualities that make you a true human. It is all about control and a deliberate one at that.

7. Pharmaceutical Companies are not intended to cure you

Pharmaceutical companies are solely profit-driven businesses. They never prioritize cures that don't generate ongoing revenue. Every treatment is designed with profit in mind, not your health. Consumables are filled with toxic ingredients branded as "preservatives" in order to make sells. The bread in the store and the bread made in your oven are very different from each other. You're given packaged foods that make you weak and keep you at the doorsteps of the hospitals. The behind of almost every product is filled with ingredients you don't even relate to nor have the time to examine leaving you at the mercy of these product industries. They tell you not to eat eggs (which has been proven to be very effective and less harmful) but every advert is filled with the display of tasty noodles and Red Bull.

8. If political voting changes anything for the benefit of the many then it would have been declared illegal

The political system is structured to protect the status quo and the interests of the powerful. True systemic change through voting is impossible and would be outlawed if it posed any threat to the elite's control. The only way out is when the masses see the government for what it is and realize that they are totally on their own leading to their revolution.

9. Today's Society is fundamentally a Scam

Every aspect of modern society, from consumer culture to media narratives is designed to mislead and manipulate you. Societal norms and values are constructed entirely to benefit a few, with no regard for the majority. Fear is the driving force today. You're constantly scared into doing things you naturally wouldn't do even when you hope for a better option and you're taught to cope with it rather than to challenge or refuse to acknowledge it by going your own way else you'll be ostracized.

You spend the best years of your life living the way others expect you to live. Working a job yet having very little to show for it even after many years, tax and transportation is also deducted before you even get your salary, the government also gets a percentage from your pension and if you dare die before time, you forfeit everything. You're also billed for electricity you hardly use and a home you hardly live in yet you hardly see the results of your efforts but may not even dwell on it because you have been programmed by society to just cope with it. Your romantic relationship life is sorrowful but you don't even realize because it is normal and you just learn to cope with it. Yeye women are now the new "wife materials" in the eyes of most men who wouldn't have even considered it 30 years ago. Men are even afraid to date now and the society isn't helping matters too. Standards have dropped low and everyone is just suffering and smiling.

Loan apps are advertised everywhere, everyone is distracted by Tiktok and a lot of people now fully exist on the internet. Funny enough, the government isn't opposing these things at least it is an opportunity to keep the masses in the influence. This is a scam society and anyone who subscribes to it cannot escape the consequences it brings. But of course, for all that is listed, "you just learn to cope with it."

10. To achieve true independence, mastering critical thinking is key.

Thinking critically is a skill that can be learned, yet many people lack it. Most individuals are not self-aware and rarely engage in deep reflection. As a result, they often follow others, even when it’s not in their best interest. This is largely due to a lack of discernment and critical thinking. When we fail to see things as they are and instead view them through our desires or emotions, we make poor choices in relationships, leadership, and lifestyle, mistakenly believing these choices are the best we can achieve.

Despite not being a popular opinion, the way to break free is through practicing mindfulness and embracing critical thinking. This means learning about psychology, human existence, relationships and finance. In a world filled with information, it is very low to be ignorant especially with matters that have to do with our existence. It is important to be selective about what you accept and to make mindful, well-thought-out decisions. By mastering yourself through mindfulness and critical thinking, you can avoid being controlled by others for their own gain.

I'll leave the comments to your thoughts.

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Eunoiaa:
If there's anything you probably got right in all you've said, it would be this.



This is weird. Your whole post, and even emails to me are weird. Like you sat down, thought it out and decided this post was okay to send?

I am not your type of woman because:
- I hate men
- Secondary to hating men is intentionally positioning myself for a relationship.

If you went through my posts' history and had an idea of who I am as you claimed, you will know I am unrealistic to the point of believing in chance encounters only or "we were not planning on this, it just kinda happened."

You would have interacted with me on your main first. That would have been the first step in proving your "legitimacy."

But either way, I do not care for making any friendship, so I hope this post would be the last of it from you.

Do have a great life.

Thanks, you too.

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Eunoiaa:
Awwwwnnnn. So touching. 🥺

A father Therese in flesh and blood.

Hello, did you see my mention in the other thread?

Many Nigerians are frustrated with the current situation in the country. Prices of important things like food and fuel have become very high, making life difficult for a lot of people. There are also concerns that the government is not governing well or being held accountable.

I think most Nigerians want a country that works for everyone, with a government that listens to its citizens. I encourage the protests to go ahead, but with wisdom and restraint. The goal should be to find real, lasting solutions, not just cause more problems.

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thrillionaire:
You're an OG! The realest 🤛🤝

Thank you.

dyydxx:
Wait, somethings dont add up.

1. Are you saying the scammer will order using the mark's address from the actual seller? If so, how will he order? Is he ordering and choosing pay on delivery or what? And if it is pay on delivery

2. Why would the 'Mark' not pay directly to the actual seller that has brought the merchandise to him? Shebi it is pay on delivery, and the seller has brought the item to your doorstep, so why won't you give the money directly to the person that brought you the goods

Let me re-examine the details in the text more carefully:

1. The scammer does not actually order the item from a verified seller using the victim's address. Instead, the scammer asks the victim to provide their address, claiming they will send the item.

2. The scammer then goes to a verified seller on a platform like Google and purchases the same item, but has it sent to the victim's address, not the scammer's.

3. When the item is delivered to the victim, the scammer then contacts the victim and asks them to make payment, claiming they are the original seller.

4. If the victim tries to contact the original verified seller, the scammer will block both the victim and the original seller to hide the scam.

So you're correct, the victim is not paying the actual seller directly, even though the item is delivered to them. The scammer is trying to intercept the payment before it reaches the true seller.

The advice given is for the victim to insist on meeting the seller in person to inspect the item, and to ensure payment is made directly to the verified seller, not the scammer. This would prevent the scam from succeeding.

Here is a summary of the key points from the provided video for those without data:

The video describes a new social media scam targeting people who want to make purchases online, particularly on platforms like Facebook Marketplace or Instagram. The scam works as follows:

1. The scammer posts an item for sale, such as a phone or other product.

2. When someone is interested in buying the item, the scammer requests the buyer's address, but does not ask for payment upfront.

3. The scammer then goes to a verified seller on a platform like Google and purchases the same item, using the buyer's address.

4. The scammer has the verified seller ship the item to the buyer's address, but does not inform the buyer that they are getting the item from a different seller.

5. When the buyer receives the item, the scammer will ask them to make payment, claiming it is for the original seller.

6. If the buyer tries to contact the original seller to confirm, the scammer will block both the buyer and the original seller to hide the scam.

The advice given to avoid this scam is:

1. Always insist on meeting the seller in person to inspect the item before purchase.
2. Ensure the payment is made directly to the verified seller, not the scammer.

Overall, the video warns about this new social media scam tactic and provides tips to help buyers protect themselves.