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@BosColeone and H2O2

I'll just let him be, and move on with my life.

@yeswecan

Thanks, I'll be fine!

Once I fell asleep by his side, prolly thinking I was still unconscious, he quickly stole a kiss from my lips (we never kiss).
This guy is so confusing! Why would a man do all this just because he wanted to play?

@ebinom

|I'll be very careful!

@ebinom and faakay

You guys are so amazing! Thanks God for NL! You can't imagine how helpful you have been to me. I feel stronger now, and I have a clearier picture of the situation. Thanks so much!

@hellooooo

ok!

@faakay

Ok! Thanks!

@mafolayomi

I have found better man for sure, but the problem is I'm not interested.

@faakay

I don't know about the love machine oooooooooooooooooooooh! lol!

@faakay

I didn't love him, and since he's a good person I didn't want to use him. I wanted us (ex-bf and I) to stay friend even after our relationship ended. It's hard for him to accept it, but I'm still working on this. I didn't want to hurt him though,

The other bobo is my first love. You're prolly right, but he was (is may be) my heart desire. It was the first time I was experiencing this kind of strong feeling for someone. Anyway, this belongs to the past now.

Thanks for advising me! Next time I'll be more careful.

@andrrew


LOOOOOOOOOOOOL! So true, but very funny! Don't worry, I don't plan to visit him anymore. I just want to move on with my life for good. By the way, I think it was love at the first sight, but we had also spent some time together.

@sweetpie23

I hope not,

Yesterday, I changed my cell phone number in order to move on, and I was really motivate. Today, God, it hurts so bad. I miss this man so much! Do you guys have any advice?

@Emzybrown

I'm still trying to convince myself to find the strength to move on.

No, I could not stand his reprimands anymore, and I started having remorse because I knew that I was just using him in order to forget someone else. He is a good person so I called it a quit.

@steve49ja

Sometimes, it's even worse than before. I can try to ignore him and move on; anyway, it is my only option now. I pissed my ex-boyfriend off because I cared more about my cell phone than him.

@steve49ja

I can't date him if he doesn't love me not talking about having sex with him. I tried to get a boyfriend, but he realized that I wasn't there for him.

@Hanoobaba

According to you, what is his plan? Give me a scenario please!

@steve49ja

No, he told me nothing. He touched me, but we didn't have sex. However, not all my body, just my backside.

@steve49ja

I had an affair with someone but that change nothing. I had to leave him because every time I was with him I was thinking about the other guy or expecting his text/call.

@Hanoobaba

It's easier for me to try to ignore him because I don't play games.

@rokiatu

what if he doesn't love me?

@Hanoobaba
I went to visit him last summer even though I did not want to at the first place. When I got there he told me that he was the one that made me come. What can I do?

@Hanoobaba

What can I do to take control of myself again? He does this so often, I feel like I'm losing myself. He is disturbing me.

@Mavenb0x

Thank you!

@Mavenb0x

I even asked him if it's sex that he really wants. He replied: "lol, if you say so" . I'm so confused. I'm not sure if he's shy or not.

@Mavenb0x

I did, but he told me  he doesn't know what he wants from me.

Topic:This Guy Is Killing Me! - Nairaland
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-366007.0.html#msg5107401

@Mavenb0x
I'm just hoping that there's nothing wrong with me.

I mean it's like he's taking control of my mind. During this time, I don't know what to think; I can't think. I'm just loosing it. It's make me very uncomfortable, and scared me.

I fell in love with this young man, but we're not in a relationship. He is a christian. Moreover, we're living in separates states. Even though we are in touch, sometimes I feel that the thoughts of him are driving me crazy. I mean crazy! It's like he is taking over my head. However, if I send a text msg to him he will confirm that he's thinking about me.

Last week, while I was studying I experienced this same strange feeling. Few minutes later, He sent a text msg to me about my body, and I realized that he was Hot. Recently, I even ask him to leave my mind alone, but he told me that he can't and he won't.

People, how can I explain this?

@raybahny

No, but with his cruel intentions.