₦airaland Forum

sonofElElyon:
Don't approach many girls and become a serial toaster!

You can have ordinary conversations with ladies without asking them out. That will get you comfortable in the company of the opposite sex and fix your anxiety..

However when it comes to asking for a relationship, avoid toasting many ladies at once because it will become an addiction and turn you into a womaniser eventually..

Just have normal conversations with the intention of making friends and then out of the friends you have made, you'll eventually find one who will be ready to have a relationship with you and when you find her, let it be for the purpose of marriage and not to have casual sex..

Second most sensible comment I've seen

Mr man, one thing life has taught me is that YOU CAN NOT PURSUE BEAUTY AND POWER AT THE SAME TIME. Most guys giving you advice are womanizers(although i don't judge people, since everything has it's advantage and disadvantage) and they are extroverts, hence their style and your style ain't the same, trying it their way may make you start on a faulty foundation.

Shey other introverts and programmers dey marry? as long as money dey your pocket to start family. But if you ain't ready for it please stay through to building a successful career. That's the most important thing to your future wife and kids. There's a woman for Every kind/class of man. You'll meet her along your path to fulfilling your destiny, most men always do.

You said you are tired of girls looking for sponsor? country hard my brother so no blame them. All the same, avoid idle/jobless but materialistic ladies, but also know that a woman loves/sticks with a man based on his ability to provide(security). But the koko is WHAT ARE THEY OFFERING? apart from their body and children?

Good luck

eniolaamos7:
It's not that you don't know how to approach ladies. But what you are lacking from my own personal experience is "why do I need her?" Even if I successfully persuade her, what do we from there? If your mind cannot answer these questions then you, then you will certainly still feel reserved.

Although i haven't gone through the whole thread, this is the 1st sensible comment. Others are giving him advice as if he wanna get laid. He said he's looking for a wife, a life partner. Although there's no particular standardon "how to find a wife", just randomly walking up to any stranger you find physically attractive is like jumping into a river you haven't entered b4 and don't know it's depth and nature... A recipe for disaster.

I will advise against just walking up to just any lady.

Where's Spider Man or Super Man when you need them?

Not Edo Governorship election...
Not NURTW election..

NMA is Nigerian Medical Association. Medical doctors o!

This goes to show that the association is no longer about the common interest of the Nigerian doctors.


Who was that dude that called the country a Zoo?

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It's 2020 bro. You fight with ya Brian. Snap pictures of your wife, obtain medical reports/bills. Get a Human Rights lawyer (preferably a female), you're good to go.

No be every time be gra gra.