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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by OROSUNBOLB(m): 11:27pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: You have just broken the yoke ! Now,don't go back into your shell again man. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:30pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Lols, what she did is just to taste your courage,....is even better she ignored you, she just opened the floor for you because you don't expect her to talk to you as a friend, the rigidity is a welcomed sign |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by wisdomkid: 11:32pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
That girl no know the thing she missed. Imagine a programmer!!!! The money you'll spend on her and lack of cheating sef, because you go dey house scatter. Hope you find a better woman that matches your character. 4 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by mansoura(f): 11:35pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
its a fresh start..dont kill urself over it.to make it easier for urself just hit on any of the ladies u familiar with that catches ur spec than hitting on a total stranger.not saying anything is bad hittin on a stranger as long as u dont sound like a perv..but u could make it easier on ursef by first hittin on the ladies u familer with |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by MuteMute(m): 11:45pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
op I currently in the same shoe too I get scared something's too nice move |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Bahamas95(m): 11:52pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
I hardly approach any girl I meet on the road for the first time. It's not that am shy or not confident but it's not just my style. The only time I will break my own rule is if am not likely to see her again then I can just say hi and ask for her number sharpaly without being emotional about it. As a matter of fact I can't even remember the last time I toasted a girl, and I have regular sex with different women. My guys call me slow poison cos they don't understand how I run my matter, we start up as platonic friends and before you know it I don collect.....It has been working for me since my secondary school days until now, I don't stress myself when it comes to women. 2 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by hstar: 11:57pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:pls what is d difference between a web designer and a web developer? pls no vex |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by abdullahi45: 12:02am On Sep 03, 2020 |
kukusdot: Love this. God bless you Chief |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by mojolajesu(m): 12:06am On Sep 03, 2020 |
nice try bro. Approach another one next time, you might hit it |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by AristocraticMe: 12:11am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by abdullahi45: 12:14am On Sep 03, 2020 |
starpower: 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by deltateam: 12:14am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Which kind of serious girl presses phone when you are talking to her? Doesn't it worry you that she might be a chewing gum girl? 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by obinna58(m): 12:16am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Most people are introverted. You met an introvert like you so you should expect nothing more than awkward situation . We're all afraid to fvk up that's why we don't try. I am an introvert and I'm not proud to be but I know to come out of it entirely it takes a lot of civilized nature, intelligence and self exposure else you'll start acting like a fool. Nevertheless I'm working on myself too. Easy route MONEY Money conquers all, so just make money. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Uniquekriss(m): 12:20am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:next time introduce a more friendly approach, probably target someone at a business place and go in such a way it looks like you are in need of her services, strike a conversation immediately before the transaction buh plz try and convince her conscience that you actually need her services first and let your topic be the one that portrays you as intelligent, updated or funny, and please dress well and smell nice, the next girl you'd attempt wouldn't need further convincing whether you are her spec physically or not. Thank me later. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Wingarnium: 12:20am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:then u will keep getting rejected and dejected. Why stress yourself if you're looking for friends with benefits. Why can't u just find friend with benefits. U can easily pick up girls at strategic locations. That's olosho. No decent girl will give u audience if they can smell you're all about sex. Na why u still dey single. Get sense 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Rexnegro(m): 12:25am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:are you in Lagos ? if yes then it's ur fault bro |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by lordchiz(m): 12:48am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Must u f**k? Carry Ur d**k and preach d word of God anytime e stand up! |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by kingwonder: 12:56am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Girl wey reject you today go give you number tomorrow. Na to no give up. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by vickydevoka(m): 1:03am On Sep 03, 2020 |
BuddhaPalm:Have u rejected a lady approaching u b4. Do u knw how she feels. This days lady only approach rich guys |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by vickydevoka(m): 1:04am On Sep 03, 2020 |
shawnfamous:Na so. Approaching random gal on de way doesn't make sense. We way get shop na dem de approach us |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by JemmyAdams: 1:12am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj After much thought I decided to write to you. Listen, speaking from a girl perspective... That street toasting is the most annoying thing ever. Generally we see guys who do that as nuisance, that's why she decided to continue with her phone. Typically In a day an average Nigerian girl will get toasted by 5 guys, maybe even 10. (OK maybe I'm exaggerating) but my point is the figures are quite high. And in our head ( or my head...) Any guy who sees me looking fine and start to do the usual, he is just being disrespectful because I believe he most have tried about 5 other girls before coming to rudely interrupt my day. If you are in an environment that the mood calls for socialisation and you meet someone you like, you can try to make a conversation. But a random girl on the street that you don't know how stressful her day has been, you just come out of nowhere and rudely interrupt her like that. Come on. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by RTSC: 1:20am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Nopanties:Imagine. Wizkid has four babaymamas. Lmao. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 1:28am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Try giving compliments to ladies you like first. Ladies like to be told they look nice, they are beautiful, their hair do is nice etc. I was an introvert like you and my first approach of a girl was almost like yours. I saw this girl in the secondary school. She attended a girl school in town and I told her that she was beautiful. She smiled and I said "can I talk to you" . "Yes" she said and she excused herself from her friends. She came to me and the next thing was, I did not know what next to say. "Will you pass here tomorrow?" I asked and that was all I could say. She looked at me and smiled. "Yes" she said "OK, I will see you tomorrow," I said. What do I want to say tomorrow that can't be said today na shyness to worry me. The next day I don rehearse tire for house. She passed same place the next day and I said to myself "if na die you go die, you must talk like a man today" She walked past and I said "hello" she stopped one time. I said "mo daran! O. How I go talk today" she was waiting. And I walked up and I said, "I just want us to be friends I like you," Gbam! She looked at me and laughed. "Is that all you want to say? Its OK no problem" Ehehehe! Na so I become a boyfriend o. But you know one thing. I was very handsome in those days. Very handsome. That must have been what won me the girl. No be my confidence. The confidence no too dey like dat . Since that day, if you like, fine pass Agbani Derogo. I go say my mind. The worst is you go say "No" and I no go die because of that. Start by giving compliments! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by bigbossila: 1:49am On Sep 03, 2020 |
dont worry is normal, especially in this country. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Microwhy: 2:02am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Everybody wey no get confidence go say him be introvert.. Chai.. Real introverts don suffer. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 2:02am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Go out brother. Go out. And try again! Once again, go out! |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by mman830: 2:19am On Sep 03, 2020 |
eniolaamos7: Although i haven't gone through the whole thread, this is the 1st sensible comment. Others are giving him advice as if he wanna get laid. He said he's looking for a wife, a life partner. Although there's no particular standardon "how to find a wife", just randomly walking up to any stranger you find physically attractive is like jumping into a river you haven't entered b4 and don't know it's depth and nature... A recipe for disaster. I will advise against just walking up to just any lady. 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by mman830: 2:37am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Mr man, one thing life has taught me is that YOU CAN NOT PURSUE BEAUTY AND POWER AT THE SAME TIME. Most guys giving you advice are womanizers(although i don't judge people, since everything has it's advantage and disadvantage) and they are extroverts, hence their style and your style ain't the same, trying it their way may make you start on a faulty foundation. Shey other introverts and programmers dey marry? as long as money dey your pocket to start family. But if you ain't ready for it please stay through to building a successful career. That's the most important thing to your future wife and kids. There's a woman for Every kind/class of man. You'll meet her along your path to fulfilling your destiny, most men always do. You said you are tired of girls looking for sponsor? country hard my brother so no blame them. All the same, avoid idle/jobless but materialistic ladies, but also know that a woman loves/sticks with a man based on his ability to provide(security). But the koko is WHAT ARE THEY OFFERING? apart from their body and children? Good luck |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Brushstrokes20: 2:41am On Sep 03, 2020 |
... same here... I don't toast ladies, they do the toasting and I still naively mess up in my response 95% of times.. Too bad. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Czartega(m): 2:46am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: |
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