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What the lady did is immoral what the man did is illegal especially videoing one against their wish that's huge privacy intrusion

The lady keep adjusting the cloth as if she is unaware of the rags she is wearing

On the man part, even if you will advice unsolicited you have no right to record, as the lady rightly said if it's a white lady will the guy has the audacity to record, if the lady call the cops the man may end up in jail or deported back to his morally upright Nigeria

I'm trying to buy land, I'm meeting with the owner soon, what questions should I ask

The land has c of O, do I need a surveyor before paying or after purchasing the land

I'm a newbie to this, and I may not know the right questions to even ask on nairaland

I'll appreciate response both on what I ask and what you think I need to know

I am a backend software developer with a few years of experience and doing considerably well, I will like to take my career up a bit I'm considering venturing further into mobile app development or data science. I'll cherish advise from nairalander who has been in one or both fields, I have taken some courses in flutter for mobile and also python for data scraping but I'm still confused and at a cross-road

Data science or mobile app development which will you advise a brother to go into considering ease of finding help, job and future prospect for someone living in Nigeria

chukkuhorti:
What

this is a scammer

KingAzubuike:
Lol, most people on this thread are just being too sentimental and carried away because oh, it's their mom, love of their life, she gave birth to them. Fact is 90 of mother's hardly support their husbands. They put all the financial burden on him without wanting to spend their own money. Growing up, mine had a very terrible attitude I thought was normal but as I became a man and started thinking well I realised it didn't just make sense. Ordinary for we the children to eat bread, she'll never buy with her money, she'll rather be expecting our dad to come back home first so he can buy bread. She had a shop then, she ruthlessly packed all the food stuff in our home store to go and sell at her shop, there was usually nothing to eat at home because she had gone to sell them off and it's not as if she'll spend the profit on her kids, she'll rather spend it on her self. She was a salary earner too but the way she does and stingy with money, you'll begin to think she wasn't even earning anything.

Then there's another bad attitude of not being able to keep secret, she basically didn't know how to shut her mouth and hold tight to a secret. She was a kind of person that if she won $1M dollars, she'll make sure the whole world knows she just won a million dollars. When my sister traveled to Yankee back then, the person wey dey go Yankee self no tell many people . Just a few family members and about one or two friends. Na this my mum begun spread the news on her behalf even go church give testimony. When I gained admission to thw university, she made sure the whole world knew, I started getting unnecessary calls from strangers whose kids were also looking for admission. When I graduated same thing, I started getting calls from strangers congratulating me simply because she must have told the whole world as usual. I got my first job, same thing, na she go give testimony in church without my permission lol. I started getting unnecessary calls from people saying they needed financial assistance. And she would also never contribute anything but always want to enjoy the profit. We had a poultry then we run yearly, she will never use her own money to buy ordinary feed but when it's time to sell the birds , na there you go see am.

Also, she usually put herself first over her kids. She was never always ashamed to chop better food while her kids ate jargons. Those years, she did something which I can never forget. Her uncle came back from Canada and sent her some money to give to me. This woman never delivered the message, she squandered the money on God knows what. I only got to know few months later but kept quiet , I didn't say anything.

Fact is, you can't get any answers here because most people are just too sentimental. The love for their mom won't allow them the terrible side of her.

mikeybrainy fuckingmallam45 mobileboy Abbeylanre15

more and more IQ to your brain cells, most people will never get it

they take the rosy relationship between them and their father/mother as same as the relationship between thier father and mother

I am a backend software developer with a few years of experience and doing considerably well, I will like to take my career up a bit I'm considering venturing further into mobile app development or data science. I'll cherish advise from nairalander who has been in one or both fields, I have taken some courses in flutter for mobile and also python for data scraping but I'm still confused and at a cross-road

Data science or mobile app development which will you advise a brother to go into considering ease of finding help, job and future prospect

Zanotee:
a million times over for my mum...

I have ask your dad? A parent and child relationship is a do no wrong relationship but husband and wife is different

No

But I'll like my kids to have a father and mother like mine

Most people saying yes are looking at it from parent child angle which is an almost do no wrong angle

Before you can claim to marry husband like your mum husband you need to as your mum the hard truth first, before you can claim to marry a wife like you dad wife you should ask your mum first

Truth is we can hardly see fault of our parents to other people especially when they are nice to us

oluwaseyi0:
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This guy complained he was banned because he reported a data scammer on nairaland

The scammer has been scamming for years with UBA account number


Cc seun, lalasticlala, disguy, justwise

Bill Gates warned the world of weak health system in 2016 or so but not one listened

If it's a prophet or pastor that said what he said dump Africans will be licking his anus, now the idiots blame him for there stupidity after receiving his millions of donations

DriggityDre:
Holy macaroni
17 kids?! Why do some people give birth like pigs?

Modified: The post says she adopted some. Some could probably mean 6 or 7.
The remaining 10 kids are still much

You surely didn't read, some were adopted

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The guy is very childish and the lady is unwise

There is nothing wrong if your lady made a comment about the food she ate, she didn't say it the presence of your mother so she has respected your mother enough

The lady is unwise, she should have deduced the man is not having any of her talk and she should have stop

Couples like this will separate because if how to press toothpaste

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Not impressed by buhari speech

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