I married someone like my mum and it's been blissful. If I were a woman though, i can't marry a man like my dad. The man too tough, with my temperament, we nor go last 2 months.

Yes I will, his positives outweigh his negatives by far.

Ahhh someone like my mum? I don't think so, my mum is stubborn, she no dey gree, ahh won lagidi. All of us they fear her. No I no fit, I cannot come and kill myself
But I bet you, if you asked my immediate sister this question, she will tell you that, her prayer is to marry someone like my father. Baba ni baba yen jo. Very cool and intelligent man.

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I am not sure joor... My mum is waaaaay spiritual... Aside that I can marry any lady like her.. she is sooo kind hearted

I always pray for God never to give me a man like my dad ,I would rather remain unmarried than marry a man like my dad!.


A wicked philanderer,a toxic misogynist,a typical traditional man still stuck in the 1800s

Lailai
Mba
Rara
no

His bad/flaws supersedes his good

Ladycewhy:
I always pray for God never to give me a man like my dad ,I would rather remain unmarried than marry a man like my dad!

Wow, sorry about that sis. Sounds tough.

kk...yeah am a guy n can marry a bea lyk ma mum, so down to earth n she's d ous Spiritual piller because na she de back us all with prayers....not all this slay qweens we de c dis days...de tell bea abt my mum n jokinly ask when last she pray 4 me as her guy n she said since my mum de pray me fore i no nid her's n besides upon all my mum prayers say my lyf no still get head....i jus weak

Rozz:
I will marry someone like my dad over and over again.Infact I have been looking for someone with my dad's qualities but it seems to have gone into extinction lol.

You'll hardly find a man like your dad...

My advice find a man that'll complement you

Yes, I can marry someone like my mum and my dad. I'm glad to have a loving parents that gave their best to the success of their offsprings.

No

But I'll like my kids to have a father and mother like mine

Most people saying yes are looking at it from parent child angle which is an almost do no wrong angle

Before you can claim to marry husband like your mum husband you need to as your mum the hard truth first, before you can claim to marry a wife like you dad wife you should ask your mum first

Truth is we can hardly see fault of our parents to other people especially when they are nice to us

Lorazepam:

Wow, sorry about that sis. Sounds tough.

many Nigerian men are like that , toxic misogynists ,but my mum on the other hand , her name should have been Patience, being able to put up with such a man with an archaic orientation and outlook on life.

sassysure:
Well, I don't know about myself but my husband said I have his late mum's personality very well.
We are the same colour. Facially, we resemble a bit.

He's lucky..

If I find a woman that has half my mum personality, I'll be the most successful man in my lineage.

a million times over for my mum...

The good thing here is that you have realized your folly. You need to make it up to your dad big time.

Miarose:
Yes, I will marry my father even in the life to come.

No, you will not marry your father in Jesus name.

NOPE. I am not my mum, why would I marry someone like my dad. Not a perfect man, but he has done 'his best'

I will marry someone like my mum over n over n over again till dere is no more over

I won't recommend anyone of my daughters to marry someone like my father.... Never! Complains like a woman

Will marry a woman like my mum. The thing I took from my dad is womanizing. I just hope I change when I get married. My mum could contain all my dad excesses. Especially womanizing aspect. Though he is a changed man now. I just hope I dont continue with my nasty womanizing character when I get married.

Yes i will marry some one like my mother even though she is late


My mother suffer for my dad come rain come shine she even cover my dad disgrace outside my dad don’t hv tooo much but my mom struggle a lot to provide she was the one dat is bringing money in the family and still yet she still respect my dad she can’t carry out any decision like with out my dad even though she is providing

Yes i would 1000000% marry a lady who act like mom

No problem.. Just for the money ��

mikeybrainy:
For me I wouldn't try it, I can never marry someone like my mom. If I try that I would end up in an asylum.

She is a good mother, though not perfect (nobody is).

Some of my reasons are:

Nagging (like the neigbours can narrate everything happening in our house if asked to)
Involving strangers in family issues (like she says everything)

She can't ever take the blame for anything (blames everyone for her woes, and she is never wrong)

She wants to collect back every single penny she spends in the house (which is impossible)
Incites the children against their father (never realized this until I grew up and started thinking like a man, and honestly I'm sorry for all the ways I have acted to my dad, though my own is still fair, my siblings have complete disregard for their father)

Other things too that I can't mention here (makes me feel ashamed.

I realized all these when I started looking at everything from the lens of a struggling husband and father, and I'm still contemplating if marriage is worth it after all, I might as well stay single.... (I only date and break up with girls in my mind, Lol) cos I don't think its worth all the stress. Growing up in a broken, dysfunctional home is hard (sighs).

I wouldn't put all the blame on my Mom but I have resolved not to imbibe my dad's bad habits too (I can't even drink 1% alcohol not because I can't or it's bad, but I run away from it when I think of the things dad would have achieved, if he were not addicted to it)

Sorry for the long post.

Can you marry someone like your mom/dad?

Opinions

Yes I wished to marry someone like my mom but unfortunately my Wife is not as good as my mom.

Those type of women like our mothers are hard to find. It's almost impossible! Even the ones that look calm, few months after wedding they will stab you to death.

Then Come to social media and cry woof woof!

Rozz:
I will marry someone like my dad over and over again.Infact I have been looking for someone with my dad's qualities but it seems to have gone into extinction lol.

Search no further. I am here

Let my wife carry my mom cooking skill and my Dad Gentleness thats all not the rest of there character ..den I'm good to go

Amanee:
If na play, abeg stop am


A man like my dad? NEVER

you sounded so blunt

Appearance: No
Character: Absolute YES

Note: Mum is good looking and looks a lot younger than her age but mehn she is shooooort