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ZIMDRILL:
its not a Nigerian thing only but a common bad culture among universal african customs whereby elders by birth think there are wiser than anyone younger than them and the young one tend to follow every bark by the so called elder

this woman's husband is the young who look up too much to his elders sister without realising that he is also damaging his own marriage

Abusive elders are not partial but dictators by virtue of being of just being an elder by birth

Soo true
Some elders biological age is far higher than their mental age

innobarca:
It is not about men.

The husband will find it difficult to just forget his own family.

Rare to see a married woman hate her own family, very rare.

It's always wife quarrelling with the husband family, difficult to hear wife neglecting her own family unless the husband is not financially okay.

The woman is not a bad wife, She should try to make peace as the husband suggested?

My own woman came into my life and family, heard about how my eldest sister helped me.... She went close to her and they became very good friends, till today they are very close.

Some women knows how to make their men love them.

People let's still understand that life doesn't have a standard ratio
Some people are just insatiable
What if that's the case and what if that's not the case?
I'm more after people talking from one point of view
"It is rare" doesn't mean it doesn't exist,this is just life mehnn
I'm just saying if people want to advice her let them do it from 2 scenario's, let's judge fairly

Nigeria's culture has really promoted elders being really biased
Someone will ask for advice on how thing's hurts
Everyone hurts from different shoe's, you'll never see it from their own point of view
Since we can't know if the story is true biko just go with logic and give two scenario's
Be a logical elder and not a sentimental one

TonyeBarcanista:
Thank God you married a GREAT GUY
 
 
This is a generic term used by women when their bid to separate in-laws from their husbands failed them.


The older sisters are your own older sisters too. You have to be in their good book at all times as long as it isn't against your legitimate interest. As long as they are not telling you to do overboard


There is no manipulation whatsoever. It is you trying to separate your husband from his sisters. As a wife, you have to accept your in-laws as yours and live in peace with them as long as they aren't perpetuating evil against your interest. Your husband has lived with them for MANY years before he met you. He knows them better than you do. You have to find way to sort it with them than try to make him see reason to separate from them.

   What transpired among you in the 10 years? What is the recurring issue?

   
This is irrelevant to the subject

  
I'd do same if I was your hubby! There is no way you can claim to love hubby without showing same love and respect to his BLOOD!

  
Your mind has always been made up and you are done pretending! His elder siblings are all he has and you must take them.likewise


Go and make peace with your in-laws and stop creating this arrogance.

Do know that you will never enjoy hubby as long as you are warring with his blood!

If you like take the advice of all these frustrated, angry, bitter and aggressive feminists, and male she-men, NA YOU SABI

You're being too biased and sentimental here Sir
What if the story is just as she said it is and what if it's not?
Aren't you meant to talk based on these two scenario's?
Don't be too quick to judge,you're not in her House

innobarca:
Her mum should have seen that from the day one, and guide her daughter on the right track.


They did not like her bc of that, The husband should have looked into it then.

Do not dictate for people how they share love between wife and family bc you do not know how they grew up(
Some were trained solely by their elder sister, some gave their kidney to their junior bro, some sacrifice something for their brothers, some grew up fighting for each other, So even after they got married it is difficult to separate them from their mother or siblings.

Let me ask, Why is it that most Married Women tend to love and care for their own mother, siblings more than even their husband? That's it.

Are they not supposed to love the husband more?

What will you say in the case where this is opposite biko
What if this story was of the wife misbehaving to her own family and over loving her husband's family,giving no respect to hers,what will the men supporters here say then

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