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now Fisayo has stopped talking to me. he says that he can't bear the pain (anymore) of wanting something and not being able to touch it.

really, am still confused, who knows wat sorts of rumors Tunde will start just to ve "revenge". the state (in America) where i live is like a close network of naijas where everybody knows everybody and my family also stays in the same state.

hmmmm?

This story is a little bit long.
     I met Fisayo about 2 years ago (not real name) while in college. He didn’t approach me until about 6 months ago. We started to talk almost everyday for hours (and sometimes hang out but not a date). I started to feel a connection between us. He didn’t ask me out, so I thought it was one-sided. Then one day he introduced me to one of his close friends, Tunde (not real name).
    Tunde and I started to talk (but not as much as Fisayo). The first day that he called me, he was like he’s in love with me but me no love am and told him. He said we should start dating to know each other better. I said no hoping that Fisayo would ask me out, But Fisayo started to encourage me to date Tunde. Fisayo started to list all of Tunde’s good attributes, so this made me think that Fisayo wasn’t feeling me. Tunde’s idea of a date is staying in his house for the nite, which I was like helllllllllll noo. So one day, one our way to the movies (Tunde and I), Tunde stopped at his best friend’s house and I was invited in. The friend (Olamide, also not real name) was like he has heard so much about me from Tunde, dat I should take care of him oooo. Before the end of the visit (like 30 mins), Olamide has started to call me iyawo wa (their wife), I didn’t want to embarrass Tunde so I just smiled, but in the car, I told Tunde to tell Olamide that I am not ur (Tunde) girlfriend (but I guess he didn’t).
    Olamide invited me thru Tunde to a party he was hosting. At the party, I was introduced as Tunde’s wife (girlfriend), I just smiled (Fisayo was also at the party). After the party, I lashed out at Tunde, that wats up about introducing me as his wife, dat I don’t like being manipulated. Then dat nite (after the party), Fisayo calls me and tells me dat he has very strong feelings for me, so I asked dat y didn’t he say anything, he said I should just count it has him being stupid and slow. Then I told him dat I also ve feelings for him.
    Now if I start to date Fisayo, Tunde will get mad dat he stole his girl (which am not), and all their friends will be in support of Tunde. People I really want to date Fisayo (dats where my heart is) but I don’t want to be the reason for breaking a friendship, or turning into news for gossip mongers. But I came to nairaland for advice from experienced people.