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Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. Remember I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving this babe and She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will come to my rescue.[/quote]

Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. Remember I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving her babe until She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will take come to my rescue.

Please drop your contact.

How will you feel when you eventually get married and someone else is about to straf your woman. Try de think deep or if your Gbola hang for the woman tots n you’re caught. Use your head mf

[quote author=Moconka post=106821106]Hmmmmn. When they started, it was rosy and things were going on smooth, suddenly the man thinks they’re not compatible half 5years after.

Y’all reasonable people should think about this?

They’re going to hurt the little kids they have.

Hmmmmn. When they started, it was rosy and things were going on smooth, suddenly the man thinks they’re not compatible half 5years after.

Y’all reasonable people should think about this?

Tbh how can u fvck on empty stomach. She just needed money to cook for the house not for sex.

Go to ccc and do three Wednesday mercy service. Observe it Very well. Thank me later.

Do not forget God once he shows u d mercy

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Yesterday afternoon, the wife messaged me to tell me she’s not feeling too well that she can’t even help herself to move around inside the house because of the pain of the injuries she got from my guy. she wants me to help her call my guy that she has tried to call but my guy already put his Phone on DND Cos I tried to call him too.


So I message him on WhatsApp, he said he’s busy, I told him his wife’s situation, my idiot guy told me. Sheybi she can fight ni. ? I just laughed then I para for him and made him understand that his family should be his priority. he then thought about it and said he’ll drive home soon that I should Pls assist him to check on her. We stay closer to each other so I went to their house and met the wife looking lifeless, I sha tried to console her, then my mumu guy drove in. When he entered he didn’t even say a word lol. I was just smiling. He’s forming hard guy. They didn’t talk to each other till I left.



My Psycho paddy came to my place today and was telling me he tried to shout at the wife again this morning so she can retaliate and they can start the fight again but he didn’t know I already told the wife to be calm and not to utter any word to him if he’s about to start any craze for now. I just smiled and told him to just be calm that everything will be fine. I sha know they’ll settle it las las. He’s just still forming AM THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. I’ve told him to sha use his head before he bleeps up because the woman already told me her dad in America told her to wait till he touches her again.

Remember am just trying to help a nigga

What makes you think so

No vex my g

I mean my guy’s mom called my guy wife’s dad in America.

As we write at the moment, his wife just chatted me up saying he’s started this morning again. Asking me her to pack all her things and leave before he drives back home. I just told her not to pack anything. She should just be calm. Funny thing is my guy already called his own mom to tell her that his wife is raining curses on her, and that’s a big lie Cos I was there when the heat started yesterday. His wife hasn’t even reported to her own family. But my guys mom has called her sons dad in America to report. Lol

Thanks For the advice. But can’t cases like this be settled amicably or somehow? Just wondering why people always think divorce is the next thing especially couple already got kids. Just wondering.

Hi everyone


my friend just got a brand new car, and he’s been so busy which I understand because he needs to look for money as a man to sort bills. He’s married and blessed with a beautiful daughter. The wife has her own shop and they’re doing fine. He began doing late nights ever since he got the car all in the name of looking for money which I understand but the wife isn’t happy with it and she’s not understanding. Now they’re already having issues in their home because the wife knows he’s been cheating since he got his new car back and even before he got the car back. I was with him in their house yesterday and didn’t even observed what was happening because the wife wasn’t around then and my guy didn’t tell me anything until one of their co-Tennants passed by us because we were inside the compound gisting, she greeted us and she said to my guy......, please take things easy with your wife bla bla bla. That was then I knew something wasn’t right. I asked him and he began to explain to me that the wife nags a lot and he pays all the bills bla bla bla. After his explanation, I told him to always take things easy. I know my guy, he has hit the woman once right in front of me when I was in their house one night. We live close to each other, I stay on the next street. they usually have little issues and they used to settle it eventually. So I warned him to stop it, I think he hit the woman again And this time she just went to church vigil without informing him. We were still inside their compound yesterday morning gisting when the wife returned from church vigil that morning and she greeted us. Immediately, my guy was about to hit her inside the compound again telling her she’s not going to step into their apartment, that she should go back to wherever she was coming from insulting her and calling her different names. The wife kept trying to explain but he won’t listen. I had to interfere because they were hitting each other badly and he was really hurting the woman so I was just telling my guy to be calm and I kept begging him not to be used by the devil that he should not allow co-tenants to gather in their flat to settle things for them all the time. I wanted to get very mad at him but I just decided to settle the whole thing calmly for them, I just kept begging him, He kept trying to hit the wife but I just stood in their middle preventing him from hurting the wife. Finally, I got his car keys from their room and we drove out to chill. So I began advising him but kept telling me he won’t allow any woman to treat him like trash bla bla bla. They’re only four years into their marriage. He said the wife wants him to sometimes carry her to her own shop with the car and this isn’t the first car he will be using, they used to chill out together then untill he just changed his car. My guy is thinking of quitting the marriage, I just kept advising him and telling him to be calm that it hasn’t gotten up To this stage. He said he’s thinking of selling the car back then travel out of the country. I just kept telling him that he needs to be calm and settle the whole thing and even if he will be traveling he needs to fix his family in order and make her understand his situation after all he’s traveling to look for greener pasture for himself and his own family.

I just don’t like broken homes. Pls advice on some of the things I can tell him so he won’t just Bleep up. I just want them to settle.