The celeb announced on Tuesday that her book of selfies is out. Now, pls , those of you who will purchase it, pls after you are done. Post the pics online so we can continue to see them with her other thousands of pics

OP, u just made a very big mistake. Public forums will place your mind on marathon worry and confusion because people here are different, so their suggestion might destroy something good or bring something good. U are in the right position to solve your problem and no one.

Here is what I think u should do. (feel free to reject or use it)
* Don't give her monthly salary, instead give her what ever that comes from your mind.(you are both young and still needs to start a family)

*Talk to her that you both are student and are striving to survive. even if u are from a rich family, tell her that u are rich does not mean u waste.

*if u intend to marry her cause u love her, she must learn to control her spendings. how she manages now will determine how she will manage your family.

Why she spends too much is because, the view of wealth which she has never tasted but now tasting is controlling her. and if she really loves u, when she will come back to her sense.

Now OP think, do you want to marry a lady that spends too much, make her control herself.
besides, we human fall astray sometimes and not perfect.

And as for those insulting,; how will u give out your point when it's full of insults. he needed advice that was why he came here at first.

What's wrong with this bobo Jim sef? Na only him dey talk about? if u sabi JARA show well na gossip mix with fact. should just over look it. Afterall some shows and blogs does it.
Make him kill am, he will smell the four corners of prison and know what the robbers are passing through.

Surprising right? Small creatures as they are, who could ever thought the animals could teach us one or two things not to talk of ‘eleven’! Hahaha, (never underestimate the power of the small creatures; they have the strength of the mighty). Read on to learn a few things from these wonderful creatures.

1) Loving truly; have you ever notice how a dog loves his master? No wonder they are called man’s true friend. We should learn to love without thinking of what we may gain from a person. Benefit can come later but let the love that comes first. Be real. No games.
2) Harmony and Togetherness; I remember as a little child how I enjoy watching those tiny creatures: Ant, carries a white particles to their holes, I kept on wondering how they maintained a straight line and how they kept on doing that duty day after day. This is an outstanding example of true
harmony and togetherness. Imagine how the world will be if we do the right thing in peace with closeness and unnecessary competition. The world will be heaven on earth.


3) Play; we can never get enough of it. Play. There are times when things become tough and the world may look dull. Toss it aside, and play. The dogs, leopards and lions knows how it is been done when they run around the field chasing one another. This reminds me a day I lost a particular project which was rejected by the company I put my hope on, coming down the street when I stopped to get a water to drink in frustration , I saw this dog it was busy jumping around and wiggling it tail in happiness. It enlightens me. Then I knew that ‘Hope in man can sometimes fail but it’s never lost. Immediately I put a cheerful face and whistled my best song as I walked home with a renewed hope. How I wish the dog could know how good it changed my mood.
4) Forgive; let’s take the cows and chicken for an example, they are been slaughtered for meats for we humans and yet they still cooperates when they are reared knowing the fact that sooner or later they will die. This shows that animals move past misery, pains, and grief faster they we humans do. Let’s learn to forgive and move ahead. Remember a forgiving heart is claim one.
5) Living for now; sometimes we create too much problems for ourselves by thinking about what the next second or minutes will bring. Why don’t we let it flow and come naturally? Trying to save ourselves from an unforeseen problem brings a problem along. The bird teaches us something, they only go in search of now food without thinking of tomorrow but allowing tomorrow to solve it problem and it does.
6) Listening; let’s try and listen more than talking, this will make people around us view us as a friend than a blabber, of course no one will like to stay with someone who talks too much and ignoring what the other person has to say. The dog is a good listener, no wonder they are able to understand averagely 100 human words of their masters language. Take a look at the dolphins also, they communicate with one other through high-pitched whistling sounds. If they don’t listen carefully, how will they know when one of them is trying to communicate?
7) Be Independent; the tigers, leopards and polar bears love to live in solitude, this does not mean that they don’t live with their mates; they do come together during the mating season. But they do prefer to live alone because of the competition for space and food. Now, this animals are not scared of been alone nor thinking of the consequences. Sometimes, we should try to be independent; it makes us not afraid of challenges or problems when they come.
Rest; ever seen a Hawk when it’s done with his prey or done flying? They rest. Let emulate to take a break and rest in between work. Remember a healthy body lives to work another day.


9) Humility; I have always heard that the turtle is a humble creature. If this little creature could be this humble, why can’t we human be too? Let’s try to learn from this little creature.
10) Brave; The Lion has it all. Brave and bold. Quit the armor of fear and put on a coat of braveness.
11) Smile always; smiles; a quick remedy for a sad heart. The chimpanzees can teach us how it is been done. They love displaying their teeth while they try to fool around or get noticed by people. Let’s learn to smile amidst pains and troubles, it relives.

feel free to add yours, and let's all learn

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Most snakebite are caused by non-venomous or non-poisonous snakes, of the roughly 3000 known species snakes found worldwide, about 15% of them are considered dangerous to man. In Nigeria particularly, many snake are difficult to identify and most snakebites occurs in the savanna region where about 10% of victims occupy the hospital bed and in Benue valley of Nigeria, the estimated incident of snakebites is as high as 497 per 100,000 population per year with 10 to 20% of untreated fatalities.
Snakes found in Nigeria region are;
• Saw-Scaled or West African Carpet Viper (Echis ocellatus)
• African Cobras (Naja spp)
• Puff Adders (Bitis arietans)
• Mambas (Dendroaspis spp)
• Gaboon Viper (Bitis gabonica)

(Don't get bored of the biological names and don't bite your tongue either )

If you or someone you know is been bitten by a Snake, take the person to the hospital with a knowledge of the type, shape and color of the snake. But in the mist of waiting to go to the hospital, here are some quick emergency to follow:
• Try seeing or remembering the type, color, and shape of the snake, which will help in administration of treatment.
• Be calm and avoid anxiousness. Movement can cause the venom to spread quickly to other part of the body.
• Remove tight cloth and jewelry because the bite is likely going to swell, so it’s advisable to remove those quickly.
• Position yourself so that the bite is below the level of your heart.
• You can clean the wound and cover it with a clean dry cloth but DO NOT clean or flush it with water.
• Splint can be applied to reduce movement of the affected area, but make it loose enough so that blood can flow.
• DO NOT use any tourniquet or applying ice.
• DO NOT cut the wound or try to removing the venom.
• Don’t take alcohol or caffeine.
• DO NOT attempt to suck out the venom with mouth.
• When going to the hospital, do not allow the victim to walk, he or she should be mobilized.

How to Know you have been bitten by a Snake
You have got a bit but not sure if it was a snake bit. Here is how to know; (Though, it depends on the type of Snake)
• A hole or a puncture mark at the wound.
• Swelling and redness around the bite with severe pain at the site of the wound.
• Having Nausea or vomiting.
• Finding it hard to breath, breathing may stop in extremes cases.
• Lacking sensation or having tingles around your face or limbs.
• High sweating and salivation.
• Unclear or disturbed vision.

How to prevent Snakebites
• Be cautions of snake when swimming in waters.
• Back away slowly when you see a snake and do not touch it or catch it especially those in the wild.
• Be careful of tall grass, plied leaves, rocks, and woodpile. These are mostly their hide-out.
• When working on were snake maybe available, wear long pants, tall boots, and leather.
• Be cautions or avoid putting your hands in unknown holes, they could be hiding there.

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temitemi1:
Great tips! Thanks.

always welcomed

A loving relationship shouldn’t just end in the quick time in bedroom or during holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, or Valentine days; it should be spread throughout the relationship days for sweeter union. There are simple things that make a relationship the best and fun. Read on to know more.

1. Have a private time together; we love spending time with our friends, families and relatives but have you consider spending an alone time with your partner? Try it. The quality time you spend with your partner may provide the time to talk out things that aren’t working well in your relationship or also give you the time to say some loving things to your partner, wish I’m sure they will enjoy.

2. What do you call Him/her? Pet names or affectionate names are beautiful. Have you tried using one on your partner? Most people take less regard of it but it helps. Create a beautiful name for your partner and use them often, and see how they will love it. You may come back to thank me later

3. Give Him/her some space; in as much as you and your partner love spending time together, you should also consider giving them some space. You don’t want your partner to see you as a babysitter or as smother. Give your partner some space so you both can enjoy some separate me time and discover your hidden selves.

4. Be his/her shoulder to lean on; hard times do come, and the wonderful thing you can do for your partner is to be supportive. Let them talk and you listen, it will claim them and give them the assurance that as least they have got one person who would hear them out when they talk or become sober with stress or so.

5. Play; always play, play, and play. A relationship that has more play is fun, lively, and irresistible. Of course there will be some serious times but do not hesitate to laugh off some of your silly mistakes together.

6. Leave your comfort zone; sometimes the house could be boring, yes! Why don’t you both take a stroll outside together? Explore the loving nature of evening breeze with the gentle hold of your partner’s hand. It would be relieving.

7. Partake and help with housework; I know some men would frown at this, but know that if every work load is put on one person, they might become unhappy, even when they pretend to smile. They might think that is why you need them in your life. Share some house chore and see the way you put a smile on your partners faces.

8. Special to you? Remind them; never hesitate to remind them how much they are special to you. So that in tough times, they will know they still have you.

9. Apologize; argument could be annoying but never balk to apologies if you are at fault. “I’m sorry” won’t create a big pit in your life but mend the pit. Use it.

10. Enjoy some old hobbies; If there are any hobbies or game you both like to do or play, why not teach your partner how to do so. Watching your partner partaking in that thing you like doing is loving and amazing. Even though he/she isn’t good at it yet, the sight of them learning how to do it could be quite a pleasure you would want to keep for a long time.

A loving relationship is combination of what both partners put in, put in good methods; you would produce a loving one.
We would love to hear from you, comment below for us to know your opinion or any method you think that would also work well.

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