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~Pamela Anderson~

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~ *cleans her blinkers to be double sure she read it right* ~

Women will still stay in a relationship even tho there's DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INVOLVED!NOW IS THAT LOVE OR DUMBNESS?

~I beg to differ,naah contradict that statement/question!!!

~When any indivisual experiences doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, in a relationship,that relationship switches from a "wanted relationship," into a "needed relationship."

~I know for a fact i don't "Need" to feel love,i "Want" to feel love N all the great feelings that come w/it,unfortunately,not everyone is lucky to experience this !!!

~There are women out there who have low-self esteem/issues;they have come to depend on their partners,who they beleive make them feel better about themselves,that dependency naturally creates fear of been abandoned N are prepared to do anything to hold on to that partner even if the love isnt reciprocated!!so i guess thats where the label "DUMB" comes in

~This could be text book excuses,but thinkin about it,there's no logical reason why a woman been abused physically stays except for her fears,lack of acceptance,the need to be wanted,loved etc,even with all these reasons,its still mind bulging gettin to the root of the "WHY's" but i think its brutally painful for women under any of these circumstances to be labelled dumb!!Yes they choose to go through been walked all over,taken advantage of etc,unless you've VVVVVVV


walk a mile in someone in that suitations shoes,hold back on been judgemental about their reasons!!!


~At the end of the day,it could be mind over matter,but not every one is strong-willed!!!People have been known to commit suicide on reasons you'll think"what the heck were they thinkin" to want to die over somethin you N i might consider trivial,but our minds are not tallied to accept pain,anger,rejection the same way!!

~There are various types of love,people love in different ways,who's to say what type of love deviate so much pain in a relationship!! Its sad,to see you make an example of abused women who stay in a relaionship,as a case of women been dumb !! As much as i suspect your point is misguided,its hard tryin to understand WHY,so i guess your  statement  is somewhat the same most people ask !!! WHY ! WHY ! WHY !

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