DZTech:
hi I just saw this thread
I suggest u go to 2 Catholic churches near u.
register with st. Vincent de Paul.
I know they help people in ur situation.
ask specifically for a job or handwork training.
food and clothes for u and ur kids should be available.
if one helps wit food/clothes, ask d 2nd for training.
God bless

babythug:



Thank God for everything!

Continue to give this life your best shot and everything will be alright in the end

babythug:
My.mind wanders to this thread occasionally.i hope that lady was able to sort herself eventually

thorpido:
Congrats.I hope you've been able to settle well now.

thorpido:
Moji,how are you doing?I can't reach you on phone.
Hope you are having things better now.

thorpido:
Like tearoses said,I can't see any pampering here o.

thorpido:
Apologise to Onegai.No one here is not interested in getting you in a better shape even if they say harsh things to you.You need to take it because you're the one who needs the help.

thorpido:
Apologise to Onegai.No one here is not interested in getting you in a better shape even if they say harsh things to you.You need to take it because you're the one who needs the help.

Funjosh:





Where or when you supposed to be replying or responding to you wont reply

Caracta:
Well OP, I believe you are not in the right frame of mind right now. You are depressed, angry and lonely. You need love and you ain't getting it... not from family, not from friends, not from neighbours, not from your baby-daddies.

You feel everyone is kicking you while you are down and you just want to scream your lungs out at them. They don't understand. But they are judging you. I know you don't want your present life or present state and just wish things were different.

You need to trace your steps and understand that you are responsible for your life and your kid(s). For the sake of that baby inside of you, humble yourself, forgive yourself, forgive your mother and be responsible.

Relax. Be calm. Don't frustrate the help of others. Just let go and think.

katchycouture:


Sorry to ask but what exactly is your problem with the tab... Do you know my internet enabled fone is something I can't do without, it keeps me sane, I read, interact and socialise with it...plz render your help if you want to, if not leave others to help her without demanding she sells her phone... You have been shouting sell the tab sell the tab... Can you do without the internet??

Mynd44:

True, anyone who thinks the solution is money is unrealistic as her mother is able to provide it………hello, she got her a nanny………she needs to change and realize it is time to grow up

thorpido:
Hmmm,you said someome gave you pregnancy in South Africa and you haven't even sorted yourself out before getting pregnant again?Na wa!

Anyway,give further details about your condition and location if you are for real.

When you eventually deliver this baby,I'm interested in putting you on family planning contraception.

MizMyColi:


If you see the way she eulogized the boy on Whatsapp, you will know it's not even an option.
Cute Kid too.

I understand the need for logic, but let's also apply empathy.

Mynd has done well to hide those posts.

I don't think she's lying.im never lying

Yes she might have done sex work on NL and beyond to make ends meet, but then, perhaps she was forced to cos she felt she has no other choice.

It is true she opened this account newly.
I will do same if I were in her shoes.

Why would I use an account for prostitition to ask for help, no one will take me seriously.

Perhaps, she smuggled her way into South Africa. More like runs girl things.

I may not know all the story.
But my intuition doesn't fail me just like that.

This woman here needs help.
She might have used all the Tecno tablets and power banks in this world. She might have f*ked Obama himself, but as it stands now, she needs help. Monetary, then psychological help.

A look at her posts suggests that she hasn't found it funny in the hands of men....
True, she put herself in that position.

But then....

jaybee3:


So what specific help do you need then since you aren't necessarily open to suggestions

Do you realise things will only get worse with an addition to your current situation?

Do you realise majority of people that might be inclined to donate don't if have the luxury of what you are insisting on?

Do you realise it's insensitive to be procreating in this difficult economy?

Contact TeHN once you are realistic with your expectations

Have a good day

jaybee3:


How about giving your child up for adoption?

Onegai:


Yeah right! So you don't have a bank account, yet have a tablet and have beem flirting all these months with NL boys?? Do you know how many of your posts I have screengrabbed?? How is your Xhosa friend, how is Bukola Ajide, when you were travelling upandan when did you suddenly become "too penniless to own a bank account"??

jaybee3:


Desperate times for desperate measures and i'm approaching this from a logical standpoint so all you religious folks relax a lil

Would you consider aborting the baby?

It makes no sense for you to bring another child into the world at the moment when you can barely survive

TeHN wouldn't just dole out money unless they feel the desired/possible outcome will be sustainable.i dnt want to abort d baby, as God seems me, it's like killing an innocent child and my life may even be in danger, pls help me out people

LadyMercedes:
After what you encountered the first time, you still opened your legs and got pregnant again.

You're funny! You should've sat down to think of how you'll fend for yourself and the first baby. But no!

I hope you get all the assistance you need, and I wish you a safe delivery when that time comes.

After putting to bed, go and look for another man to "take care" of you again, you hear?

kaboninc:


You can try First Bank or GTBank. Those direct sales agent can help you. Go with a passport, a utility bill and means of identification.

Mynd44:

I am looking. Plus people are already asking the questions I would ask.

Redundancy is poi

Onegai post=50099060:
moji26, please upload pictures from your antenatal card or something to prove you're pregnant or that you lived in SA.

ntless

kaboninc:


My dear you can open an account without funding it.

MizMyColi:


Sis, someone asked for your full name. So we can do background checks. Please understand that it is not to spite you, but like I said, to eliminate possibilities of fraud.

kaboninc:


You don't have an account number, you don't trust anyone but you want to give an account number should people decide to help you.

Green White Green

Onegai:
errrmmmm.....

make una cool down for Jesus. mymizcoli and co.

moji26 Where is the father of the pregnancy amd the father of the toddler, where's his family?