Pesb:
God brought Vivian your way.

Share the problem with her.

As a good Christian, she will guide you properly.

I would have preferred if Vivian was a male.

If you have or can get a male like Vivian



That will help too.

In addition to that, stop being all alone for too long.....try to mix up with good people. Kindly disconnect yourself from friends that enjoy immoral discussions and actions.

Stop those acts that bring the thoughts in your heart.


Read your Bible always too....mostly last thing before you go to bed.

Finally, always pray about this.....engage in church activities too.

I tell you in a short time, you shall be brand new in all ways.

God loves you always.


Go to him.

Shalom!

Me too, I would have preferred it if she was a guy but my guys are not the spiritual type , they're too busy hustling (pressing) and they might also be an addict.
I was thinking that if I tell someone it might help and me & Vivian are so close (no strings) and since she shares the word of God with me she might help

MissRaine69:
Let’s call this what it is . An addiction, praying is not going to resolve this, it’s nothing to feel ashamed about.
1. Find an outlet for your time and energy if you have to take up sport or any other hobby so be it
2. Make a plan for avoiding masturbation during your go to times of the day.-
3. Limit your solitude
4. Stop watching porn on your computer/phone if you have to switch from a smart phone to a basic one for 3-5 days this will be a good step
6.Be persistent some days will he harder than others
7. Stop punishing yourself.
8. Don't believe the myths about the harms of masturbation. If you want to stop your masturbation addiction, then you should do it for reasons that are personal and moral, not for reasons that are health-related.

Here are some things that masturbation will not do to your body
Masturbation will not cause infertility, premature ejaculation, or impotence.
Masturbation will not cause insanity.
Masturbation will not cause blindness or even eye floaters.
Masturbation will not cause frequent urination.
Masturbation does not affect facial hair, growth, facial features, kidneys, testicles, cause skin problems, or cause any major physical issues! These are all myths.

9. Know that it will get better.
Maybe your goal isn't to stop masturbating completely, but just to limit your masturbation to a healthy amount, such as once or twice a day. That's perfectly fine, too. If you have the belief that you really can win this battle, you'll be much more likely to succeed than if you're constantly second-guessing yourself.
That being said, there may be days when you have relapses. This is a normal part of the recovery process. Don't become discouraged. Believe in yourself.

Thank you

Blaze888:


Only God can help you quite masturbation, feel free and talk to Vivian about it, so she will help you get closer to Christ

No addiction in Christ Jesus

Thank you so much

Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

Thanks.

bbyby01:
The addictive effects of masturbation is stronger than weed or cigarettes. This is because masturbation is done in the secret and that makes you free from the court of public opinion, this and the immense pleasure the act offers makes it difficult to let go.
I started masturbation at an early age. Precisely when I was in primary 5, I was standing by the window and looking outside the school when my dick accidentally pressed against the wall. It felt good and I stood there for a while doing it. Since then I have been masturbating in several different ways. (for about 20 years now).
Masturbation has Undoubtedly left several negative effects on me. The feeling of guit and self hate, an unhealthy self esteem, lack of pleasure from sex which sometimes lead to erectile dysfunction because you are not interested in it, distortion of the penis and also general body weakness and tiredness.
Have I tried quitting? Yes. Several times. The longest I went was 3 months. With the coming of the new year, I have decided enough is enough. I'm going to quit masturbation this year. It's a dirty act.
There's a a saying that if you want to go far on a journey go with someone, the reason I haven't been able to quit is because I have been doing it alone. This is the reason why I am bringing this here. For those who are in the same boat with me, let's row our boat together and I believe we will go far in our journey. Let us come together on this thread, whether male or female. Share our stories, encourage ourselves, share our challenges and evaluate our daily progress. I have shared mine what is your story?

NB: I know some people are of the opinion that masturbation is healthy, etc. Please this thread is for those that want to quit masturbation so please leave us alone and stay away.
Also, what ever we say here remains here. No mentioning of issues here on other threads or other places.

OK bro. Guess we're in the same boat. What do we do

IamPlato:
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Why Do You Wish To Quit?


NwaAmaikpe please Come Tell This Lad The Good News Of Choking the Tit aka Beating Off aka first Class Love aka Heavens Pleasure

I don't like it and I can't stop it. I feel guilty after Ejaculation

I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.