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Im 34 yrs of age and has two boys and have been married for 6 years. I thought everything was going well until he comes back to inform me that he had a one night stand and the lady is pregnant. Then one day the lady came to my house to tell me the news herself. She asked me to accept the child and have a relationship with the father. I knew in my heart from that day I cannot accept any child in my house especially knowing I didn’t find my husband with any former kids. I asked myself lot of question if is worth saving this marriage or not. I decided to stay only on one condition that the will be no contact. I checked my husbands phone one day where the lady was telling him that she will always love him.

I need help urgently , I’m losing my mind. My husband made someone and don’t know what to do at this stage. He said he doesn’t have a relationship anymore with that woman. How to trust again? I have told him already I can forgive him but I don’t want you to have any contact of whatsoever with them and should I found that they are still communicating I will let them to have each other . . Am I being selfish to say that?