Stop helping her out financially and otherwise. Say no to her whenever she calls you. That is the only way, otherwise, she will destroy your life.
Because she will keep coming to your while she will remain attached to her hubby, causing you to remain emotionally attached to her, thus rendering you incapable of loving your own woman wholeheartedly and robbing you of your peace of mind, she's a manipulator, she wants yr money to run her home and life, and wants to use occasional lewd sex to capture you emotionally.

You will become her slave. period

@Ben, u r a BIG ID*OT, stop this nonsense now. Don't think you are annonymous, your name if Fadina Benjamin Muyiwa, you have always been a looser, right from maiduguri, to egbeda, to yaba , to VI. its not her fault, that you are a motherfucking deluded looser, who gives his mother 2k per month, treat his wife like shit, and run after helpless widows.

Its not her fault that you resigned from your job thoughtlessly.

Grow up and behave like a man for the first time in your rotten life.

Here is your facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/benjamin.fadina?fref=ts.

i will post more information about you, if you don't stop this s**t now, and delete the post.

BIG MUMU, with dirty stinking mouth like you.

Kindly let me know how much i can get a mitsubishi outlander/ford escape/toyota rav4 2003 model not more than about 100k mileage.

also a clean volkswagen Jetta/Passat 2003.

Thanks