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According to Tinubu supporters: All these are just lies to bring Tinubu's administration down.

Nigerians are richer than ever. Tinubu is the best thing that happened to Nigeria after independence.

It's not rocket science, you introduced reforms, you're now collecting more from Nigerians than before hence the increased revenue, but you're using the money to fund your lavish lifestyle.

treesun:
https://punchng.com/poverty-threatens-79-of-nigerians-despite-reforms-world-bank/

Without asking I just know you're probably a woman that is married and have given your husband another man's child or you plan on doing that.

Goodluck sha.

I hope God opens the eyes of your husband.

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

Look at Hollywood movies from full films to series like Henry danger to different family shows... They always portray the fathers as either dumb or deadbeat dads and the mothers as the smart one.

It's not a coincidence.

Host78:
It's hard to compress a lifetime into a few hours.

And this is what the movie hoped to achieve: capture the whole life journey of the legend into a few hours.

Hence it was fast paced. A few missing pieces that leaves you desiring to know more about Michael Jackson.

You do will not see his development properly. The character development was mostly empty.

One aspect I would have loved to see is his relationship. As a star Micheal probably have more female admirers than anyone else.

How did he deal with those fans? We saw very little except for a girl, who was not actually his girlfriend.

Also you'll almost learn nothing new from the movie about Michael Jackson. Which begs the question, why create a biopic at all?

But something that really stood out to me most is the portrayal of Micheal Jackson's father.

He played a very central role in the movie and no doubt in Micheal Jackson's life and career.

And so I really do not understand why they tried to paint him as this cold and almost devilish figure.

At some point, his father figure role was almost designed to make you hate him and only love the mother.

But I don't think he is the villain of this story but instead a hero.

He was a mere factory worker and wanted his children to end up better than him.

"if you do not work hard, there's every guarantee that you'll end up right here in this small town as a factory worker. Now would you want that?"

He pushed the kids to be good at something. Not many fathers can see their kids and see the future ahead.

More so, actually push them to fly when the odds are stacked against them.

How a steel factory worker trained 5 boys to become the greatest music bands ever showed someone who deeply cared about his children more than a strict and wicked father.

Of course he could have pampered them like the mother and let them go to school, then join one of the boys in the hood and become nothing.

And it's so sad that towards the end of the movie, they try to portray him as the villain when everyone suddenly turned on him simply because they are now rich.

I mean, he built everything from the ground up. Mr Jackson not only gave the world micheal Jackson, he did the job of moulding him, shaping him up and developing his talent.

And worst still, every night when other fathers are too tired from work, he gathers the boys to practice.

That's not hate. That's tough love.

Another thing I love is the young man who played micheal Jackson. While you can clearly see the mimics in his moves, I think he did very well.

Overall, I think it's a good movie, worth watching but you'll learn nothing new from it.

And that's another angle, it tells you nothing new about the legend.

As a biopic we expect to see the legend in a different light, see aspects of his journey probably gathered from family members and close associates.

But the movie is more or less based on publicly available info. It's like watching what you already know.

There's absolutely nothing to learn new from the movie if you already read a few articles about the singer before.

Much time was spent rather on the making of his music videos such as thriller, beat it and wanna be Startin something.

In this regard, the movie actually lack substance.

There are so many direction this could have gone. I wonder why the dynamic between his father becomes the central role of the movie.

I'm not buying it that his father is bad or terrible.

Any human will be happy to have such a father who not only see them as other kids but as stars.

But not only see them as stars. That's the easier part and every father and mother think their kids are special.

But how many actually take the extra step to put that belief into work? How many fathers today will buy music instruments from their "factory" labor salary, come back from work and make their kids practice even when tired and exhausted?

How many will take their kids around town to book them for gigs, stay up while they play and look for ways to improve them?

Yes, he did beat them. But beating is not killing them. Little discipline goes a long way.

And I think this is a central role to almost any great person in history.

Serena Williams father was also strict with his children in their biopic. And like Micheal Jackson's father, he took his girls to practice regularly even when they don't want to.

He book their games as well finding as many opportunities for them as he could so they can shine.

Sorry Hollywood, but I'm not buying the idea that Jackson was a terrible father to his kids.

Bro wanted to privatize government property.

You learnt the hard way.

Sirchiboy:
I met this girl on Michat years ago.
A smallie of 20 or 21 years old.
I asked her why she is into hookup.
She told me she is in school , she is the one sponsoring her self.
No single support from her parents. .
I was moved and thought I could make her my gf because I had never had a gf before so I thought is an opportunity for me.
We started dating but it was a miserable experience. ...
All my savings running into millions vanished within a twinkle of an eye in the name of gf.
I am just starting from square 1 now.
Did what her parents couldnt do for her but this girl mess up...
Open shop, rent house , supported her
It is very hard to see girl when get sense.

Must he always mention Obi?!

Did Obi steal something from him?

Is it Courage that we want to eat?

So someone purchased the presidential contestant form for #100,000,000 just to show that he has courage?!

Rubbish.

fergie001:
Bashir Ahmad

Bayo Onanuga replies his post

Special Adviser on Information & Strategy to President Tinubu

How exactly will Nigeria make the list?!

Nigerian relationships that are purely transactional!

Where you take her to for the first date will determine whether she'll ever talk to you again.

You ask a girl out for an ice cream date and she's already ordering jollof and if you refuse to pay she'll broke shame you.

A country where women are demanding allowance from their boyfriend for dating them!

Should I continue because the list goes on and on?!

Zidoh:
Where is Nigeria ??
Nigeria must be in the list

As you dey sleep with people babe just know say them go fvck your wife join oh.

Cum4me:
Sleeping with someone partner hit different the pleasure is completely insane. Mostly those ladies in a serious relationship. As far no be rape oga enjoy it while it lasts

So it's not human effort! Na why una March for street then against Jonathan Abi!

We all know what we're doing sha.

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/next-president-has-been-decided-by-god-says-adeboye/

Omo hypocrites full this platform oh.

If you've genuinely repented and God has forgiven you, that's fine. Don't ever in your life confess to your husband.

Delete all evidence of cheating and focus on your marriage from now on.

"A blind husband is a good husband."

"A man's ability to provide is his shield"

"A woman's fidelity is her shield."

Don't lose your shield.

Preciousgirl:
Will you advise a Christian wife who cheated on her husband, has genuinely regretted and repented to confess to her husband?

Why?

Thanks

Omo so you get time dey reply the fool!

He didn't come here for advice, he came here to get justification as he already knows what he wants to do in his mind.

Nothing we say here will change his mind. From his message you'll see he's making up excuses for her. Bro is a simp in love.

Let him learn please.

Namaster:
You sound like someone who has LOST 2 things:

1. Your DIGNITY.
2. Your MIND.

The breakup was NOT amicable.
You did NOT go your separate ways because of irreconcilable differences.

She DUMPED you the moment she met ANOTHER man who was ready to marry her.
She DUMPED you without a second a thought.

She DUMPED you for ANOTHER man.

And for THREE years, she did NOT reach out to you.
But the moment she needs MONEY, she remembered the MOOOGOOO that used to FAWN over her.

This woman wants money from YOU that the man she LEFT you for CANNOT provide.

And instead of REVELING in the KARMIC nature of the situation, you are here MULLING the idea of actually GIVING her the money.

Absolute MADNESS!

I love the fact that you said it's not about the money but about kindness.

I know that you already know what you need to do in your heart but are you willing to do it?! What you want to do is very different from what you need to do.

If she has not invested anything into that relationship she's not going to value that relationship at all, it's obvious she doesn't rate you at all.

Try this. Don't spend any money on her for a month and you'll see your supposed wife for who she really is.

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

Bro all APC supporters need serious mental checkup. All of em castigated Jonathan for less.

jmoore:
With these obvious evidences, anyone still doubting that INEC chairman Amupitan owns that X account needs a critical mental checkup.

Tinubu recruited his supporter to head an electoral body. And you think the election will be free and fair?

APC is defending INEC

INEC is defending APC

LagosOrigin:
The INEC chairman is a man of questionable integrity , a disgrace and stauch supporter of APC . He's not fit to conduct 2027 general election because he will manipulate the process to favour the most incompetent president ever known to mankind, Tinubu.

No lies here bro.

To know mad person no hard just ask am about APC performance and you have your answer.[quote author=PlasmaTV post=139067560][/quote]

Bro this guys are just intentionally dumb. Instead of them to go and do their research they're here defending the corrupt institution called INEC.

Kingosytex:
It's not a fake tweet, you can do a fact check yourself.
Grok is there for you.

Go and do your research and see who has the account.

Kastonkastroll:
I saw this topic trending seriously on Twitter. Doesn't make any sense to me that the inec chairman have that account.

I'll tell you what I use to tell mum. God is not coming to save us

Tenses:
These apc people no get shame at all. You put Nigerians into untold hardship yet unah get mind won gather to select another set of thieves in Abuja.

God, surely apc must gather tomorrow but the gathering is not of God they must scatter.

God prove to your servants that you still reign in the affairs of men.

Send down brimstone and fire let it consume the 32 and over 8,000 criminals including that wicked strategist of failure.

Master strategist my ass.

The bed is not the issue though! Wait till you hear how much has been allocated for this.

nlfpmod:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/fg-rolls-out-50000-mattresses-for-correctional-centre-reforms/%3famp

You all think Solomon married many wives just for the fun of it?! Go and do you research well.

It was strategic unions my friend to avoid war. Hence the wisdom.

fineboynl:
Happiness varies. One reality is different from the other reality.

Money will give you 80% happiness.

The remaining 20% happiness has nothing to do with money. Solomon the wealthiest person in the bible already said that before.

He was depressed and frustrated and married many wife and concubines yet he was not still 100% happy.

Welcome to the friend zone.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

You and who be Ninja?!

Na only you oh.

FashionCookie:
Ninja and the Way we go about this Religion stuff.
Very embarrassing I swear. Kini gbogbo katikati!?

Lol! The arrogant bitch even said she has standards.

I’ll be really disappointed in the guy if he decides to continue with this friendship cos bro she has literally said you’re ugly, unattractive, broke, not a guy that deserves love.

Omo men fell off big time.

dollynnn:
She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism will make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

By the way, is it a crime for ladies to be respectful and polite? Nothing kills a woman’s character faster than arrogance and rudeness.

Bro Nigeria no fit win both games. And SA ain’t bottling it against Zimbabwe.

Zionmdde:
God of miracles

Win Lesotho win Benin
Pray the SA loses to Zimbabwe with at least 2 goals
Then boom we.are in world cup


But trust Nigeria to blow the chances away

What kind of foolish advise is this?!

Babe is literally keeping him as safe option and you’re saying non sense. Baba fling her don’t let her manipulate you.

Mutemenot:
You have time to build the relationship . You guys haven't really come together, prove to her you are willing and ready for the relationship . Women always have options most especially when dealing with men they think can t meet their demand .
..knowing that she has everything you want in a woman, I suggest you give her more room for repentance ...

Agbafian spotted.

Nnamdipapa:
Bros, if she feeds you, there won't be any respect, and over time you will grow to resent her.

Wow! You can pay 500k just for a good company?!

Simp don drop motivational quote everybody.

Nnamdipapa:
I hate paying for sex. I can pay a lady 500k just for a good company and conversation but have a fundamental belief that sex should never be transactional.