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Guy, I think you dont have time for her, create time and talk to her to find out, what really her problem.. Believe me playing console games mighty had drain out your time for her and she is not happy with it. ..

.l love playing console games and it's had taking some of my time I would rather use for communication

Your problem might come from your console gaming. .

Because the guy came before and was chased out by my parents then come again years later to ask her hand in marriage , he has even told our relatives and uncle about it, asked them to beg my parents for him to get married to her. He even begs my mum's friend for them to convince my mum, and it's makes me suspicious about him... But I kept silent bcoz I don't want to be a prosperity blocker and the guy is really successful and people said he is from a good background.

Because of it my mum went to so many prophets to know if the guy is really meant for her, the prophets saying the same thing that the guy is good but she will get pregnant immediately he marries her and for her education, its left for my dad to negotiate with him. .. So times I thought that these prophets are just using their common sense to advice her.

If I said no to the marriage I might be blocking what God has kept for her but if I accept and bad things happens I might hate my decision for her. .. She is currently working with my mum in her shop and is waiting for her admission, she said the man usually visits them and she is now gradually developing love for the guy... But I still find it difficult to accept the guy bcoz of her education and she is not well grounded in things like marriage. ...

For a 20 years old girl to get married, is it right? .......... According the her parents, the guy came when she who just 18 years and still in secondary school but was rejected by the parents bcoz she was underaged and still in ss3 .

Then after 2 years the guy came back again and still begs the parents to marry her but she had wrote jamb this year and is still waiting for the screening and admission to commence. The only reason that guy wanted to get married to the girl is because he said that he like natural fair skin ladies, intelligent and from the same village ( home town ). He had promised her that he would take care of her education when married to her . From the parents view, the guy is from a very good home.

They asks my opinion on the matter and what I thought is that the girl has not matured enough. I hadn't reply to the parents so I seek to get information first before replying. .

The girl in question is my little sister. .. Please I need advice from married or someone that has an experience of it. .. Please

just a small amount N2k, but it's hurts me so much bcoz I would had told her that I didn't have the money and would not had broke the promise I made to myself and I just lend it to her not for dash. despite my great friendship with her and I told her too to pay me back that money and she agreed with me. what will she do when you lend her N50k then? ...... am very disappointed in her

I have a very good friend " A Girl " at my working place, she also does the same work that I do ( graphic designing ) but and payed a little bit high than hers and she behaves well, dresses moderately and acts like a well brought all girl. we did things together to the extent that when even I buys food, I share with her or bought for her and she doesn't the same for me, some of our workers even though we are relatives or in relationship but am just a friend to her.

I didn't knew her house although I can get it from her if I wanted and she didn't knew my place also but I can give it to her if she asks of it so we are just work place friends. later on, I quit the jobs because of my education and she also quit the job because she found a new place and she still call me on phone or we chat sometime on whatsapp.

then it's happened that she needed help so she called me on phone to help her with some money that she would definitely pay me back and I didn't know where she lives but the trust I have for her I agree, but I latter find out that I didn't has upto that amount she asked and I had promised myself not to withdraw money from my a bank account bcoz if I did, I might end withdrawing money unnecessarily, I decided to tell her that didn't have the money but I had already promised her so I broke my vow and withdraw money from my account for her then I directs her to come to my place to collects the money, the next day she came and I lend her the money, she thanked me a lot and I was happy.

before she left my house, I told her that I needed that money back, and I quit buying something just to give her that money then she promised me that she would pay me back that money a week after that day and I believe her bcoz of who I know she is.

could you believe that it's up two months she had not pay me back that money and she rarely calls me on phone or chat with me again, I'm the one that calls her most, sometimes she would ignore my calls and each time I answers her call, she would tell me I story or the other. sometimes I will shout and vexed angrily on the phone she would agree to pay me the next and two days and will not. I send to her my bank account to payin but she still didn't.

I was very annoyed every day when I remember her and how I stupidly break my vow just to fullfill hers. I can still locate her house but I don't so what I did is to curse her that she will never ever see good things in her life again and deleted her number from my phone.

so guy do all girls behaves this way when matter come to MONEY? I was really really disappointed by her attitude right now.

I had promised myself not to lend to girls again unless I don't intend for her to payme back.

After his prophetic vision of the eternal glories of heaven at the end of the book of Revelation, the apostle John described how he was overwhelmed by what he’d seen. And when I heard and saw, I fell down to worship at the feet of the angel who showed me these things. But he said to me, “Do not do that. I am a fellow servant of yours and of your brethren the prophets and of those who heed the words of this book. Worship God.” ( Revelation22:8-9 ) The Roman Catholic Church has committed the same error as John, promoting a mere citizen of heaven to an improper place of authority and honor. Despite the overwhelming testimony of Scripture, the Catholic Church has elevated Mary—a self-described servant of the Lord ( Luke 1:38 )—to the same level as God, if not higher. In his Ineffabilis Deus in 1854, Pope Pius IX established as dogma the immaculate conception of Mary, which preserved her from inheriting original sin. His concluding statements provide a good summary of the Catholic view of Mary. Let all the children of the Catholic Church, who are so very dear to us, hear these words of ours. With a still more ardent zeal for piety, religion and love, let them continue to venerate, invoke and pray to the most Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, conceived without original sin. Let them fly with utter confidence to this most sweet Mother of mercy and grace in all dangers, difficulties, needs, doubts and fears. Under her guidance, under her patronage, under her kindness and protection, nothing is to be feared; nothing is hopeless. Because, while bearing toward us a truly motherly affection and having in her care the work of our salvation, she is solicitous about the whole human race. And since she has been appointed by God to be the Queen of heaven and earth, and is exalted above all the choirs of angels and saints, and even stands at the right hand of her only-begotten Son, Jesus Christ our Lord, she presents our petitions in a most efficacious manner. What she asks, she obtains. Her pleas can never be unheard. Those words are echoed and expanded on throughout Roman Catholic history. Tradition dictates that Mary is part of the monarchy of heaven, soliciting grace and mercy from the Lord on behalf of sinners, and covering sin by distributing from her Treasury of Merit. She became a co-redeemer with Christ in His suffering on the cross, and is now a co-mediator alongside Him in heaven—essentially an alternative avenue of access to God. She replaces the Holy Spirit in bestowing aid and comfort to believers. In effect, she becomes an additional member of the Trinity. That blasphemy stands in sharp contrast to what Scripture actually says about Mary, and even what she says about herself. Luke 1:46-55 records her humble reaction to the news that she would give birth to the Son of God. And Mary said: “My soul exalts the Lord, and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior. For He has had regard for the humble state of His bondslave; for behold, from this time on all generations will count me blessed. For the Mighty One has done great things for me; and holy is His name. And His mercy is upon generation after generation toward those who fear Him. He has done mighty deeds with His arm; He has scattered those who were proud in the thoughts of their heart. He has brought down rulers from their thrones, and has exalted those who were humble. He has filled the hungry with good things; and sent away the rich empty-handed. He has given help to Israel His servant, in remembrance of His mercy, as He spoke to our fathers, to Abraham and his descendants forever.” The God she praised—the God of the Bible—does not need to be coaxed or wooed to distribute His blessings. He’s not harsh, distant, or indifferent—He’s gracious, righteous, and merciful. Rather than glorifying herself, she humbly worshiped the Lord. Scripture actually has very little to say about Mary. There’s no description of her physical appearance, nothing about her life, her later years after Christ’s death, or her own death and burial. And when she does briefly appear with the disciples and the other believers on the day of Pentecost, she’s not an object of worship or even a leader in the early church—she’s just one among many. There simply are no biblical examples of anyone ever praying to her, honoring her, or venerating her. Nor does she play a role in any biblical explanation of the gospel. Paul wrote a magnificent treatise on the doctrine of salvation that we know as the book of Romans, and all he said about the mother of Jesus is that she was “a descendent of David” ( Romans 1:3 ). He’s even less specific in Galatians, another lengthy exposition of the pure, true gospel in which he simply said that Christ was “born of a woman” ( Galatians 4:4 ). Contrast that with the unending Catholic volumes on the life of Mary, the miracles of Mary, the death of Mary, the apparitions of Mary, and on and on it goes. That’s why it’s often a shock for Catholics to read the Bible and see how little is actually said about Mary. But that’s what happens when you elevate tradition to the level of Scripture and ascribe to men the infallible characteristics that only belong to God. It warps the truth of Scripture and distorts the Person and work of Jesus Christ. God alone is our Redeemer, our Deliverer, our Benefactor, and our Comforter. He alone is to be worshiped, venerated, adored, and petitioned. The testimony of Scripture is clear. Gather yourselves and come; draw near together, you fugitives of the nations; they have no knowledge, who carry about their wooden idol and pray to a god who cannot save. Declare and set forth your case; indeed, let them consult together. Who has announced this from of old? Who has long since declared it? Is it not I, the Lord? And there is no other God besides Me, a righteous God and a Savior; there is none except Me. Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other. ( Isaiah 45:20-22 )

only God will help you to understand the truth and give you wisdom find the truth bcoz you are Catholics by birth. there is no single versus in the Bible that backup your intercession to Mary (a mortal human being used by God to bring Jesus Christ to the earth). you knows the truth but deviating from this. the truth can never be hidden forever "JESUS CHRIST IS THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE. know I comets to the father except through him (Jesus Christ ) but not through Mary.

thank you Lord my life, health and loving kindness towards my life and your wisdom you donated in me. PRAISE GOD!!!!

why are secular musicians richer gospel musicians?. why are secular musicians gets more sponsors but gospel musicians get less or none and it's making those that sings for God deviate

why are secular musicians richer gospel musicians. why are secular musicians gets more sponsors but gospel musicians get less or none and it's making those that sings for God deviate

REASONS
1. SOCIAL MEDIA / INTERNET :
in old days there is no phone and internet where corruption can be extracted into the minds of innocents
2. TV:
love movies and sex movies contributes in corrupting the mind of innocent youths
3. BAD FRIENDS:
peer group influences bad thought that will be put to practice by the innocents
4. LACK OF FEAR OF GOD:
Satan takes control of your life
5. LACK OF PARENTAL CARE OF WHAT THEIR CHILDREN DO OR WATCH :
parents don't like advising their children about sex and it's imperication therefore their children learn it from their corrupt friends and out of curiosity they put it to practice expectally the bogs.



guys are to be blamed

why, are some igbos guy like to date or even marry white or Chinese girls

can the graphics card of dell laptop be changed? I have a dell laptop of 128mb nvidia geforce graphic card and I want to change it to 1gb nvidia geforce, is it possible?

Pls, I want to know how much is a ps3 console. I want to buy one. am from anambra and wanted to buy one at Emekaofor plaza.

Guy, you knew the answer already before asking the question. Just examine your conscience and figure out the answer

From your mode of think in this post, you are not even a Christian talkless of a child of GOD!!

what are the job opportunities for a MATHEMATICS graduate

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