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Thanks all for your advice well i tried as much as possible to avoid going there. my bobo refused to come back to London. am so so so lonely now. i called his friend and we talked at Lent today, he promised taking me out for a dinner.

i dey sorry fro the break oh, you see on Friday, Na so this my bobo friend call me say make i come prepare food for am, when i got there i prepared the food and he asked me if i would be sleeping over( my bobo travel for like 3weeks now, he would be back on the 10th) i said yes, he asked me to follow him to buy a drink, when we got there he bought an alcoholic drink(he know say i no dey drink oh) he asked me if i will ''taste not drink'' and i said yes. i told him to go home that i will be with him shortly. i never went back. i later called my guy and said it joking that his friend bought a drink and i refused, he said why? and i told him since he's not there that i might get funny.
THE PROBLEM
bobo friend came to my house this morning to tell me he had a dream about me that i should not marry the wrong guy! he said a lot but i just cooldown and i dey look. sometimes my guy say things joking about his friend and me but i don't really count it, he once told me that he trust his friend so much that he can leave me with him!
when my bobo friend talk sometimes i imagine oh, i imagine us making love and i know for sure he's making things difficult me i can't concentrate on my guy anymore! And i can't confide in my guy as well. if i do i know he will hate me for life.

wentin i go do, when my bobo's friend talk about love, i melt as in melt, , my bobo know dey romanic at all, but for the real thing he get am big!

Am a young lady in her 20's, i have a guy am dating currently but i am attracted to his house mate who is also a very close friend of his. my guy is more handsome than his friend but there are some many things this other guy has that my guy doesn't have, we are so close up to the extend of us making jokes of sleeping with each other, even when he has a female visitor he tells me he's got nothing to do with them.

for a while i stopped going to see my guy and i prefer him coming to my house just to avoid seeing his friend. I think something is really wrong with me. this other guy listen to me carefully, as in make me feel like a matured woman. i love my boyfriend but i don't trust my self with his bestfriend.
What should i do?