Am a young lady in her 20's, i have a guy am dating currently but i am attracted to his house mate who is also a very close friend of his. my guy is more handsome than his friend but there are some many things this other guy has that my guy doesn't have, we are so close up to the extend of us making jokes of sleeping with each other, even when he has a female visitor he tells me he's got nothing to do with them.

for a while i stopped going to see my guy and i prefer him coming to my house just to avoid seeing his friend. I think something is really wrong with me. this other guy listen to me carefully, as in make me feel like a matured woman. i love my boyfriend but i don't trust my self with his bestfriend.
What should i do?

This na temptation . . . .

wentin i go do, when my bobo's friend talk about love, i melt as in melt, , my bobo know dey romanic at all, but for the real thing he get am big!

wow dis is tough
i'll say follow ur heart but if u ask me i'll say ur bf's friend only wants 2 get u into bed

Listen and listen good!!!
The worst thing you'll do is to sleep with ur guy'z friend. It is better you sleep with some other guy outside whom ur guy doesnt know than to sleep with his best friend. My friend's girlfriend did that with me. I told my man and he told me to go ahead since she'z decided to be promiscous. I did it yea but men!! she regretted ever knowing us.
Both of them may be having some secret discussion abt you but you wont know and the worst is to let your man down.
U better come try it with me than him

the bobo dey see say u dey easily melt o,  the bobo dey do wetin your bobo no dey do on purpose, him dey notice,

but after da thing don happen finish u go see say he no dey romantic at all!! u self how u fit cope dey look both of them in the face after them 2 don do u 

i suck at pidgin i know!


just imagine they are tryna set u up!!

moyo,
don't b stupi#, aiight
the guy just wants to get what all we dudes want,
a lil bit of that, huh?!!
u know what you do,
in his presence, get wild with ur boy,
he'll cool off and put the joke studs on a hold.
its either u give him some and get played,
and then lose the one u truly love, juliet
do not follow that HEART!! use ur HEAD!!
A word is enuf 4 the wise!!

gal thats bad

hello are you there?

hmmm in ur 20's, this is not the time to be confused about who u love better, better be focused cuz time waits 4 nobody, da worst thing is 2 sleep or date ur b/f's friend, I wouldn't do such, gluck with ur decision

This is temptation, with a little confusion, that's infatuation and is gon lead you into depression, frustration and tribulation. Flee!

moyoF:

Am a young lady in her 20's, i have a guy am dating currently but i am attracted to his house mate who is also a very close friend of his.
I think something is really wrong with me. i love my boyfriend but i don't trust my self with his bestfriend.
What should i do?

You have said it all: "I THINK SOMETHING IS REALLY WRONG WITH ME"
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? Just be prepared for the shit that will hit the ceiling fan when you guy discovers. I trust that by then, his friend would have had a piece of the action.

Come on girl, put your self in your boyfriends shoes, how would u feel if u heard that he slept with your best friend? There is nothing as painfull as that to a man to discover that his heart throbe is banging his own best friend.

Please think of the consequences before u take a roll in the hay with this other bobo such as the probability of getting pregnant and not knowing exactly who the father is , or starting a 3rd world war both men fighting breaking each others head with bottle or stabing each other in the process leading to injury or even death.

God leads us not into temptation
try n follow ur heart n br real it happens to me sometimes ago its not easy to get over u ve to be very careful

Scatter:

Come on girl, put your self in your boyfriends shoes, how would u feel if u heard that he slept with your best friend? There is nothing as painfull as that to a man to discover that his heart throbe is banging his own best friend.

Please think of the consequences before u take a roll in the hay with this other bobo such as the probability of getting pregnant and not knowing exactly who the father is , or starting a 3rd world war both men fighting breaking each others head with bottle or stabing each other in the process leading to injury or even death.

Uhmmm temptation. Once u do it with ur bf's friend, u'll see that he ain't worth it.

Girl u will be greatest fool if u emback on this mission

@moyoF
just like xdos said

Listen and listen good!!!
The worst thing you'll do is to sleep with your guy'z friend. It is better you sleep with some other guy outside whom your guy doesnt know than to sleep with his best frie

another thing:

wentin i go do, when my bobo's friend talk about love, i melt as in melt, , my bobo know dey romanic at all, but for the real thing he get am big!

seriously, moyoF, you yourself get one tinker tinker problem.

so while your bobo's friend is rhyming you about his love for you, he is "showing you the real thing", while still romancing you?

Was it your requirement from him, that you must see the "real thing" before you "fall in love" with him? so after doing some statistical analysis about your bobos "real thing" and that of his best friend, you gave the latter a pass mark?

haba,
girls of nowadays!!!!!!

Nah, you aint gon do that !
thats a bad thing to do and dont even think about it again cos you are going to be the loser.

Much have been said about this and i hope you will just make do with what you have got from the forumites here.
Cheers

i feel so sorrry 4 U.
U really have a problem and it is called 'foolishness'
sit up, my dear,
if ur guy's friend has any respect u, he would wait 4 u to break up with ur bobo b4 sleeping with u.
this has shown that all he wants from u is exactly what he is getting.
my dear, men can be very funny. he wont take u serioulsy becoz he'll say to himself that
if u can do it to his friend, then u can do it with him (i'm talkong about cheating on ur boyfriend)
i'll advise u start on a clean slate, and leave both guys, neither of them is meant 4 u !
and behave urself.

Ya , this na real temptation!

Try party

My dear dont mind them, you've got good taste. go ahead and play the game . come to think of it, how sure are you that that boyfriend of yours does not have another girl he is seeing, i would advice you do what your mind tells u to do

i laughed to ma self when i read this and i think that d topic should be IN LUST WITH 2 FRIENDS. why cant you just stick to one guy and stop being slutty, be with one of em and stop playing smart.holla!!!!!!!!!!

girl open your eyes, the guy wants you on his bed nothing more nothing less

follow your heart gal but just make sure you do not hurt your guys feelings

Girl,I will advise you to back out of that which you are trying to enter into,I promise you will not enjoy it 'bos when that guy is done with you,he is gonna dump you and you will become a laughing stock.We are men and are very good at that,don't be surprised both guys are aware of this whole thing.I wish you all da best.

Kindly be yourself and stop foolling with your guy boyfriend. Be matured and go for the one you love

You shouldn't be with either of them! Clearly you don't love your boyfriend enough to respect him and the supposed relationship you have with him, nor do you respect the friendship between your boyfriend and his mate. I'm actually doubting if you even respect yourself to be bahaving like this. I don't mean to sound harsh, but at your age you're old enough to know better and to conduct yourself in a respectable manner.

word!!! 2c

This is how a heart breaks messing with your boy, and "joking" about banging his roomate. The poor boyfriend wouldn't see it coming, and bam all he has is regret. Oh it's always your own people.

gal , get a grip

it;s temtation not LOVE

Law of LOVE says you can only LOVE 1 person at a time ,

dt kinda LOVE o

Not the mututal one

so rethink and know where you are going before you get yourself in deep sh*t

2can, u said it, word!!