₦airaland Forum

There is no democracy anywhere in Abuja. Maybe it exists in Adeji's house, but certainly not in government spaces.

Nope. It's a superb structural design not known to many people yet.

Why would you? when states are failing over themselves in the West with promises of recognition come September.

Any politician always attacking another politician who is not a threat to him is clueless.

A lady called you to be in a relationship with her and you sincerely worry why it didn't last?

As black people and Nigerians, we are congenitally incapable of learning from his demise. Examining camps of critics and mourners, align with our reactive nature.

A security wizard and an economic expert.

Marry a person who is interested in marriage.

It's all business. Do what suits your interests.

Facing Nigerians doesn't mean losing the election.

Is it possible to embrace what you don't care for?

Why is Nigeria where it is.

What is the solution?

Because big man don dey involved.

This is buck passing 101.

Yes, that's true. But where is the will to do so?

That's democracy dividend.

Where is the slash

And not elected to be submissive to the executive.

Yes, Nigeria remains a secular state.

E be like say dole exchanged hands or accounts.

I will, not I have...

The police need government support to police professionally, especially in their welfare. It's not about issuing public statements to curry cheap favour.

From America first to white first.

This man get ground o.

And not learning ground. This is why majority of them seek ways to cut corner for their children.

Okoya family na Igbo as well. Nigeria we hail thee!

Implementation remains key.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
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The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
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It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
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I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

. It's the reason counselling is not done behind closed doors.

What else?