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what a sad statement from her... i guess because she is useless to a man, she believes ALL WOMEN are useless to a man. no wonder she cant keep a r/ship and she prefers to have sex on camera for the whole world to feast on...

atoliman:
Only wierdos want to see a woman having sex with dogs.

bro, to each their own desires. these weirdos generally dont force women to indulge in their deviant sexuality. just do a Google search for Zoophilia p0rn, and see the countless websites dedicated to it with both men and women enjoying it.... same with scatophilia p0rn to understand that these weirdos are not just rich men in Dubai. the Dubai ones are just the tip of the iceberg because they use the most beautiful babes on IG to humiliate via money.

atoliman:
These ho aint loyal Rule 2.

as much as your 1st rule makes a lot of sense, your rule #2 makes no sense whatsoever. HOES AINT SUPPOSE TO BE LOYAL, THATS WHY THEY ARE HOES!!! a hoe is a woman that anybody can have, and who is loyal to NOBODY (but her hoeing self, money, clout and good dikc)!

lol, must have been really bad for him OR so great for her, that he decided to not debate her again. dude is shitting his pants!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dis3.gif

OBVIOUSLY.... until you desire some nasty down and dirty sex, thats when you would rather do that nasty degrading stuff with a hooker than your serious gf.

here is a clue: most who desire to shiit in babe's mouth or watch them have sex with dogs, rather use hookers than their serious gf.

99thEnemy:
A lady enjoying or valuing the fact that her husband had so many partners prior to her and she emerged the one who was wifed also speaks a lot about the modern day basic girl/woman who is in the same train with the category we speak of.

sadly, it has always been that way.... there is a reason why so many women around the world are happy to become a 2nd/3rd or even 10th wife of a successful/wealthy man, while most men would never want to be sharing a wife with another men (even though we now seldomly hear about a woman marrying multiple unemployed simps)

Magicalsineros:
How many women can you help without demanding for their body in return? Just answer this question in your heart

who do you take me for, father xmas?!?!? if a total stranger comes begging for help then i need something in return (whatever it may be), but if a FRIEND comes asking for help, then i will give it to her without anything in return but a verbal agreement as to when/how she needs to pay me back. thats what friendship is for. BTW if she is a friend of mine then she also probably knows my woman too.

a man who uses the desperation/hopelessness of his friends to fukc his woman, is worse than satan himself!

Magicalsineros:
You see how you judge people.
I took my time to follow up this particular lady's post right from her first post and I'm seeing a different approach than your view.

I'm sure if it were to be a case of suicide, you will definitely be among the first people to blame her for not walking away or voicing out. Hypocrite.

you are fully entitled to your opinion...
i, on the other hand, believe that she should have thrown out that useless bastard she calls "husband" a long time ago, and continue living (in that house) the life she had been living for the past 3yrs. no need to "supposedly" become homeless and put her children in jeopardy!

i will never feel sorry for someone WITH CHILDREN who decided to walk out of their home to become homeless... and now comes on NL to beg for handouts and help. i dont believe we should reward such behavior, as it is obvious the aim here is to get a pity party (same pity party she was looking for when she told us the story of her husband being lazy and jobless for 3 long years).

hope you are not as hairy as the below:

https://www.nairaland.com/8211018/date-marry-guy-like#131965541

Magicalsineros:
Dear men, don't be a hypocrite. How many of you can assist a helpless woman without demanding for her body?

sadly, you are asking the wrong question:
the above question is irrelevant... proper friends would help without having any sexual motive; proper wife wouldnt even remotely consider the help that comes with sexual favors in return.

How many of you can render help to your fellow man in difficult situation?

so you mean that because a man cannot help, a wife should therefore automatically wh0re herself to the highest bidder?

This is the same country where a young man was shouting endlessly '' I don't want to die'' ''pls help me'' he even ran to the police station and drop a statement, yet nobody stood up for him until he died, and immediately he dead, the whole country stood up in protest,
Ranting justice for the dead.

so everyone should help anybody in need, abi?

What was this man's wife suppose to do, if she has tried all her effort and it's not enough?
Was she supposed to wait and die with her children because of hunger?

yet if that husband kills his wife/child for money rituals, you will now look down upon it, right? WRONG IS WRONG, however you want to look at it. the minute you claims that it is RIGHT for a wife to wh0re herself (for any reason whatsoever) then you are part of the problem here.

Many of you can't even support your family members in need, but once it results to suicide, you will start pretending as if you care.

are you now claiming that if a family member is in need, we should kill ourselves to help them (regardless of the struggles in our own lives)?
BTW anyone who thinks that suicide is the way out, are a selfish waste of life and deserve everything they get. imagine someone committing suicide after people have gone out of their ways to borrow them money etc?

Death is not the worst thing that can happen to a man.

... yet many are choosing to end their lives than to face the reality of life. to some selfish people, death is better than life.

Many of you, suddenly becomes lawyers and Chief judge when bad news comes up.

... and what you are doing now, what is it called (if not suddenly becoming lawyer and chief judge of bad news)?

surrogate mother pregnancy loading....

this man is a gorilla... or what?

AngelicBeing:
You have started again with your eagle 🦅 eyes investigating skills, l will contact Femi Falana ( SAN)to sue you for 500 billion Naira for your post on nairaland, Haha 🤣

i mean, the above story makes very little sense... this lady has a JOB, has a HOME, and has been paying everything for the past 3yrs...but suddenly decides she wants to leave her home with her children to become homeless... but then comes on NL to ask for help to pay her rent and part school fees?!

very simple matter... he will be sent to jail for a month, and when he comes out, he STILL HAS TO PAY THE MONEY and everyday you delay the payment, some extra will be added to the full amount or else he will be sent back to jail (and/or they will confiscate his assets and sell it off to pay the babymama)

at the end of the day, there is NO WAY around paying child support for these people.

Afonja101:
I stopped worl over 2years ago after some issues at my former place of work. Then i focused on my hand contract work which I get once in a while to sustain me an my family. But right now i don't like the thing about staying at home constantly, maybe it's good I should be going out like others. So i applied for work in a company which I just got. But I'm now contemplating about taking the job due to how I go use to my freedom of scheduling and making good use of my time, but if i take the job now, I'll resume by 7:30am and close by 3 or 4pm... Please guys do you think i should take the job?

shouldnt you 1st figure out WHAT YOU WANT, before asking the above question?

one minute you want your freedom and the other minute you dont like staying home all day... make up your mind.

so instead of comforting the unfortunate brotha, they beat him to add to injury?

there are out there enjoying the money they received in order to publicly support Tinubu...

seunoladele:
MEN WHO ARE NOT SEXUALLY SATISFIED WITH THEIR WIVES

1. Have low self esteem
2. Easily get angry.
3. Are easily sexually attracted to other women
4. Are some times irrational
5. Are easily distracted from their vision, dreams and goals.
6. Suffer financial set backs.
7. Some have sex in the dream
8. Despise or hate their wives.
9. Spend more time with other women.
10. Waste financial resources on frivolities..

If your husband is suffering from any of the above...check your sex life. Is it regular, hot, passionate or boring, sick, almost or non existence?
If it is boring, dead or semi dead...there is fire on the mountain!

what does sexual satisfaction got to do with the above?!?!?!?!?!?

Healthrelatedjo:
Good morning guys,I am getting another apartment next month and I'll be needing a pet cat .
Location is IFO,ogun state.

although good for the rodents, better to get 2 cats, as just one will get bored at home and may start taking his frustration on your furniture.

Fuckallmods:
Initially she wanted it everyday… the way it just dropped marvels me o

- could be that you didnt upgrade what you were doing, and now sex with you is boring to her
- could be that she is getting better anaconda (aka playing away matches)
- could be that LIFE happened and she has better things to do

sex is great in a r/ship but unless you supplement it with a great connection/relationship with that person, then its just that (sex), and people easily get tired of it. bring up upgrades and see if it will make your r/ship better... but MOST IMPORTANTLY, why dont you communicate with her and simply ask her whats going on?

99thEnemy:
A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:
“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.
Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.
Then he gets another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with other high status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great, and I have some of my girlfriends there as well, all bad peaches”.
Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.
Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.
Then it happens for 2 days. He is going to think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.
Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.
He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day for nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.
He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.
All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

sadly here is the REALITY of women:
if you walk in a room with your wife, and you see 3/4 guys that had sex with her in the past, the value of your wife will diminish that instant in your mind, and you would be ashamed of even holding her hand.... BUT, if a wife walks in a room where there is 10 women that had sex with her husband in the past, she will be PROUD TO BE THE ONE WHO GOT TO MARRY HIM TODAY.
therefore, a man with a lot of exes is value, while a woman with a lot of exes is WORTHLESS!

MAD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE!!!!
i guess he didnt want to be with her any longer but didnt want her to move on with her life either.

if she says no sex before marriage, that means she aint having sex with anybody... if she is the neighborhood olosho and having sex with everybody but you, then that means she is taking you for a FOOL/MUMU!

Cousin9999:
People really should learn more about Japan before praising it:

there is rape/crimes all over the world, and Japan aint exempt to it (there is a reason why the metro and trains in Japan have FEMALE ONLY carriages)... but as much as Japan aint perfect, IMHO it has one of the most respectful culture in the world by far.

Gerrard59:
Sorry, but your child will never fit in. Biracials haven't fit in, na fully black pikin? Nah. Obviously, there is a lot to be learnt from them just as they learnt from white people. But you don't have to erase every aspect of your culture. Trash out the bad aspect and keep the good ones while ensuring your ethnic group is wealthy - that is the koko. Humans admire wealthy groups' cultural practices even if those practices are harmful or terrible.

exactly... the catch is to learn from all the good/positive in their culture and leave out all the garbage (without losing your own identity). just like any other culture, there is good and bad everywhere...

Gerrard59:
American tourists, while seemingly friendly, tend to be very loud. The worst are Mainland Chinese - the language when spoken seems as if the speakers are fighting. I don't hear that "noisy/loud" tone from Taiwanese and Chinese Singaporeans.

their Chinese language is such a tricky language... and Cantonese is the toughest but yes, they seem to always be upset/rude or shouting in China, and wealthy Chinese are the most disrespectful of them all. Chinese in Singapore/Malaysia are such an upgrade to mainland China

Gerrard59:
I would probably believe they love black men for the preek, not for marriage. The only place where many Chinese women marry black men is in China, which is logical as that is the home of Chinese women. However, outside China, many Chinese women don't marry black men, including the US. And to be honest, we as black men don't get the elite Chinese ladies, white men do. East Asian women LOVE white men!

yeah outside China, Chinese stay in their own communities and its even more difficult to mix with them, but the younger generation does (in some way) mix a bit more, especially the Chinese born abroad. In China there is a big stigma (from older people) when dating a foreigner, especially black, because to these old people we are still the "demons of the west" (as we were called a few decades ago). all foreigners were seen as demon of the west before the mid 90s.
most of the Chinese women i dated in China, would be the sweetest indoor but as soon as we were out in public, many wouldnt hold my hand etc... but i had one girl in Beijing and we were all out, we were in love and for 6months all was great and she truly believed that her rich parents wouldnt care about my skin color (because they were well travelled etc)... until her parents saw us in a shopping center and realized i was black... and then later told her:" you brought shame upon our family!"... when she refused to stop seeing me, she was kidnapped by her own family and sent to Canada by force. if you see the type of THREATS to my life that i received from her family to stay away from her, even me sef i jejely moved on with my life. babe would call me from Canada crying bla bla bla, i would just ignore her.

I will say it is an East Asian cultural act because I see many Japanese women wearing long black clothing to cover their arms while walking, running or riding a bicycle.

the US military has so many bases in Japan that Japanese have been used to seeing blacks for decades... and there is even a trend (i forgot the name) where Japanese men and women want to look dark skin, as a way of life. they use sunbeds and creme to look dark skin. you see them all over Shibuya (as seen below)... Japanese dont have such a negative view on darker skin people as Chinese do, thats why dating a black guy is normal in Japan, the only problem is all Japanese women are so shy, its difficult to date them anyway, whether you are black yellow or green.

Schprobs:
Do u read the message well
The man could not provide, his wife have to hustle with her puna to feed the family including him.
The woman choose infidelity over hunger.
Thou shall not judge.

bro as much as this man was trying to provide for his family and failed, that certainly does NOT give his wife the right to go wh0re herself to the highest bidder. does it? so the minute a man fails in his responsibilities, his wife can suddenly turn into a low dirty wh0re? out of all the solution possible (aka sell pure water, sell yam in market etc), na whoring the best solution she could find?! no wonder so many men and woman are dying out there when making such poor decisions in life. i really craze man would have killed the wh0re, then killed that so called friend and then commit the above

i am not judging, i am just saying that men who are not ready for the misery that an olosho will bring to their life, shouldnt marry low down dirty oloshoes.

BTW this is not a friend of his, thats a BASTARD SNAKE who he thought was a friend.

Namigotalktru:
He was eating the food in the house with his kids. Where did he think the money for food was coming from? Afterlife?
Be a man and bear responsibility for your family if not stay single and be a red pillar on nl

a man failing in his responsibilities (sometimes) is normal; your woman taking over such responsibilities (when you cant) is also normal... but that your woman turns on you and start wh0ring herself to highest bidder for food, thats NOT NORMAL. let us stop making it seem like as soon as a man fails, he should be punished by his wife that suddenly turned into a low dirty wh0re. claiming that a man is not a man any longer because he failed in his responsibilities is not true. everyone can fail sometimes (and still be viewed as a man), the deal is to get back on your feet and solve the issue.

Lamasta:
She was on point by you but second in command to Biden in a failed government, TRUMP is coming.....

remember, as much as she was on point, we all know that she is the CURRENT vice president, and therefore she has a part to play in whats happening in the US today (although a vice is useless really). many will praise what Obama did for 8yrs while Biden was his vice. should we now say that Biden is great because he was the running mate for Obama? a vice presido is useless with policies...

so that she can now continue sleeping with the so called "friend" in total impunity? next time bring them along with you...

as we always say:" THOU SHALL NOT TRY TO DATE/MARRY WORTHLESS/USELESS OLOSHO, AND IF YOU FOOLISHLY DO, DONT TEMPT THE ANIMAL!"