₦airaland Forum

neutralmind:
How can I get this ?

what do you want to get exactly?

Asavivian:
uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?
And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?
abegi

take am easy sista... my post was meant towards the lady who wrote to the radio station, not you (thus why i didnt quote your post).

BTW this issue is about people dating while not having much, which you have to admit, if the guy brings his own 40k and the babe brings her own, they can easily manage together.

#4 or #3 must be the mother

what you wrote...

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/05/nonsense.gif

Dilijingsly:
At the end, they get pleasures and payments. Wow

shouldnt you say the same thing about prostitutes then?

abeg bro, these xtians are not that bright for you to ask such difficult question...instead simply ask following:

- who came back from heaven/hell to confirm to y'all that it actually exists?
- why so many innocent xtians are dying of natural disaster, diseases, crime, accidents etc, if supposedly you guys are protected by your powerful god?
- why your pastor comes to you when HE needs money , but when YOU need money he asks you to pray on it?
- if your god is so powerful then why hasnt he been able to get rid of the satan for more than 2000years?
- go to church and ask that ALL your wishes come true... if they dont then your god is useless and his words are a lie.

KnowledgePower7:
That is all I need to know..
I swear, if I see somebody making a huge mistake. I will keep quiet and watch the person suffer. If Dem go die make Dem die
If somebody want to fall inside hole
I will lock up and watch them falling inside.
This will be the last time I will ever advice Nigerians or warm Nigerians about danger

maybe your delivery is wrong
maybe you come as arrogant when giving advice
maybe you are younger etc

dont be upset with that person, and instead continue giving the right advice to people (regardless of how the respond to it)..

Biggie225:
This is one of the most strict advice my father gave me when I was small.
No matter what ,never drop your standard for a woman . As a married man hustle hard ,born children you can provide and cater for. Always live below your means.
No woman is kind. The moment you can’t provide, that’s where the love ends.
Many men are facing shege in their marriage today due to ignorance.

Word of advice.

yeye advice... just because many of these married women are useless to their husbands (when money issue arise), doesnt mean that all women are. if a wife cant take over the family duty when her husband is down, then this useless woman shouldnt be called your "wife".

KnowledgePower7:
I spent 30 mins trying to give some advice
He was doubting me the whole time.
At a point i became frustrated
I just lock up. He even called me liar
then Suddenly his roommate arrives, over hears what we are talking about and tells the guy the exact same advice I gave.
To my greatest shock, the guy agrees to the advice with no hesitation or doubt..
Imagine me spending 30 mins wasting energy explaining something to somebody and he tells me it's not true.
Only for his roommate to arrive and say the exact thing I said earlier and the guy was nodding his head and agreeing....WTF

there are many people i wouldnt trust/listen to, regardless of what they say... i guess he trusts his roommate0s views compared to yours.

ollypass:
This may not be popular opinion but majority of those girls in that video don't look like they want to be rescued, or would not get back to this life style once given the opportunity of freedom as long as they can handle Thier own money

you are right... i doubt they can be rehabilitated. they've already tasted the forbidden fruit of "money for hand, back for ground"

raskymonojendor:
100%. If it's possible, those girls should be tagged, or else they would find themselves back in that same Ghana in less than a month after rescue.

their yeye parents will now send them to Niger or Cameroon, to cover their tracks

the above should automatically come with the below upgrade (for perfect usage):

FUTURE4202:
I sacrifices for people, share my last with people, make myself uncomfortable for others, displease myself to please others, but at my darkest moments, when am down, i find no one willing to give a helping hand.
I have decided several times to stop being nice to people. But once am back on my feet i find myself being nice again, and when am down and find nobody giving a helping hand i start regretting again. It seems good people are meant to suffer alone. What do i do nairalanders i need advice. Happy Sunday!

if you do it because of your good heart, and because you know that this is right, then you wouldnt care about people not giving you when you are down.

thats the Jack Daniels, Remy and JaMeson you usually pay top Naira for (in nightclubs/bars etc)

just dont hand them over to their yeye parents again, as if they do, they will certainly be trafficked again...

she must have a very dirty nyansh...

raskymonojendor:
Posters on X said the parents likely trafficked those girls themselves. They said they are all over Lagos too.

doesnt surprise me at all... probably these kids have been groomed by parents from a very young age.

if a man ends up broke after paying for all his life responsibilities (aka rent paid, bills paid, food paid etc), then this man A) aint broke, he just took care of business and B) such a man should certainly look for a r/ship, so that his future gf can bring her own life's responsibilties and together they can have a great life together.

such person most definitely shouldnt look for anyone who doesnt have their life responsibilities in order.

Seunpapa65:
She shouldn't have exposed her identity

why not? its obvious she was preparing her "exit"... thus why she came out to explain her suicide (in advance).

hope she comes through and learn a great lesson...

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!
its not about whether someone is married or not, its about their CHARACTER. an unfaithful deceitful disrespectful woman will cheat regardless of her marital status.

BloomingDale:
I think she gave that interview knowing that she will commit suicide. She wanted the world to know what happened to her before ending it all.

yep exactly, she wanted the world to know her pain before ending it... quite sad way to go.

another case of MENTAL ILLNESS after years of sexual abuse

1st go ask the parents of these 3 children (from the same parents) how their children ended up there.... if there was no police report of their abduction then start your investigation from there.
2nd if the only worry of these girls is the fact that they dont give them the money and the p1mp "collect everything"....then this is no abduction and only employer/employee dispute.

many of these lost girls go abroad willingly, and some even with their yeye parents blessing.

God1000:
This Paul kagame and Vladimir Putin of Russia are the same, very paranoid and despotic.
How can one man be ruling since 2000

the dude is a novice compared to Equatorial Guinea's own... who has been in power since 1979.

TheArrowhead:
Since 1994 actually

from 1994 to 2000 kagame was only vice president and the Rwandan president then was Pasteur Bizimungu.

ChigozieVictor:
WHAT I CAN'T STAND TO SEE A MAN DO TO A WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP
Can you imagine a world without women 😢
It is totally incomplete
Every woman is a blessing and gift to our world
Learn to celebrate every woman in your life even if she's your staff or you are working under her.

Value them
Appreciate them
They are not intimacy gadget
Give them opportunity to become better
Every woman multiply whatever you give her privilege to have or be part.
When you empower a woman, you have empowered two men in One
They are the gift of God to us as Men
Treat them well
I can't stand it when I see a man abuse a woman.
They are treasure that should be protected
I can't stand it to see man who can't celebrate a woman
I can't stand to see a man who can't empower a woman to succeed
Every woman must be valued, appreciated and celebrated too
YOUR FRIEND
Chigozie Victor Uwalaka

the above is so one sided, as if only women should be celebrated... the reality is that women without men in this world are NOTHING. we both need one another. a world without MEN is as useless as a world without women. Learn to celebrate EVERYONE great in your life.

furthermore, NOT all women should be valued or celebrated some women are useless to the world and certainly shouldnt be celebrated... if in doubt, check the following thread to see one of these useless woman: www.nairaland.com/8117960/woman-microwaves-er-28-day

no chance he gets released before 2028...

this is the definition of WHAT MEN CAN DO, WOMAN CAN DO BEST

if she indeed loved him then you would support him, but as you are a liability (with nothing to bring to the table) your only focus is marriage.... this woman is as useless as this dude.

marriage is a UNION, he brings his and you bring yours, and you guys manage together. if you bring nothing then YOU are the problem.

abeg, continue doing your community work, these babes need to be well fed so that other customers can have value for their money... when mounting these two sisters.