₦airaland Forum

Uptheante:
He's a Tiv man as well

I don't care if he's a Tiv man, I repeat he is a big lair , there is no such practice amongst the Tiv

robbase:
There is no smoke without fire. I am a living witness to this culture of tiv entertaining guests with their wives. In 2015, I and two of my colleagues in the office went to a village close to gboko for a wedding. The grooms uncle and his brothers sent thdir wives to sleep with us. We were giving separate huts to sleep earlier. Oh boy we kna k kpekus tire

And you are not ashamed of this pathetic lie you just typed? Look some of the things you kids hide on nairaland to type cause is a faceless forum , you might not always get away with it , you will suffer misfortune

Uptheante:
Bro, Tiv girls/ women of even 50 something years full brothels for Abuja, Nasarawa, Taraba, Kaduna, Kano, Gombe, Plateau state, Enugu (Obollor Afor, 9th mile, Nsukka & Enugu city) etc dey sell their toto for as cheap as 1k.
Even many of their married women dey collect preek outside with little inducement.
I once heard from a senior boss, how some Tiv men allow their wives to Bleep Fulani men to get money for the family

I think only Igbo ladies come close to them in terms of prostitution in Nigeria.
Tiv women's own is even worse because they can easily Bleep without protection & can give you freely, which Igbo girls will never do unless with money

I don't want to debate about prostitution,

The topic of this discussion is about a cultural practice amongst Tiv men giving out their wives to visitors , I repeat it's a big lie such does not exist amongst the Tiv people, and whoever your boss is , he is a lair.

OVB123:
Thanks for this piece of information.

You are welcome

Enemyofpeace:
they offered them to me

In your dreams

LadyRosa:
Big LIE!
IT still exists, these one I KNOW FOR SURE.

its how effective it is in some parts of Idoma land should be the issue of these conversation.

Some very wicked traditional idoma societies still incur these Alekwu gods.

I don't believe it

LadyRosa:
https://dailytrust.com/idomaland-where-the-gods-still-impose-penalties/


https://www.themiddlebelt.ng/2023/10/12/the-harmful-traditional-practice-suppressing-women-in-nigeria/

I read it , and I will tell you it doesn't exist , Tiv people have similar tradition which is called SWENDE it's a kind of tragic misfortune that comes upon a man if he sleeps with another man's wife , in idoma the effect is on the woman but amongst the Tiv it's on the man but still Tiv men still sleep with other men's wives it doesn't work , the SWENDE also comes upon siblings who sleep with each other even if they did it while they were little children if will affect them as adults unless they pass through ritual cleansing , (Anande ve ke adudu) which simply means to burn them , they will be locked up in a tatch house naked and the Tiv priest will perform the ritual and set fire to the tatch house they will break free from the house and run outside naked swearing we are no longer siblings and I will never have anything to do with you , and they will run all the way to the stream and Wash themselves

LadyRosa:
Still very effective till this day in some parts of Idoma land. Infact, the idea alone it exists, effective or not Still instill fear in women.

What does Aleku mean and what does it do?

LadyRosa:
Ofcourse they do, but not as loosely terrible like the TIVS.

What happened to the idoma Aleku you talk about?

LadyRosa:
Every one can do that, but Aleku in Idomaland won't wait for brideprice to he taken before striking the infidel.

Idoma women do cheat on their husbands Aleku or whatever doesn't work

Okechinwadike:
they gave me, but not the first wife oooo.Lol

Where in tivland did this happen?

bayocanny:
You don't know more than me cus am presently living there. I don't even have the strength to type

You have no idea of how much I know the Tiv people , and if you believe this myth about the Tiv people then I bet you know nothing about them

LadyRosa:


It's an age-long practice and so, TIV men at a point did these things. Whether it practised to date? May not be possible but maybe, TIV men in their reasonable majority do not value their women that much. Unlike the Idomas and igboid groups, which share boundaries, TIV does not have a culture against infidelity so TIV married women sleep with men like breathe to the nose, and it's a habit their men taught them right and well.


It's affecting genuine well brought up TIV girls. Twice I tried to match some good ones with clients looking to settle down, but they rejected them outright on hearing they are TIVS.

Its far easier to see TIV married women in local meat joints drinking and eating meat with men than any other Nigerian tribe.

You are a liar , there is no such long age practice in amongst the Tiv people it never existed

Tiv does not have a culture against infidelity? Another lie , a Tiv man can ask for his bride price back if he catches his wife with another man

benuejosh:
It is very demeaning, foolish and unreasonable for people to actually think that about a Tiv man.

But i want to make it clear for anyone who will want to come to Tiv land for such expedition to please for the peace of the family he travelled and left behind that he should please write his will before living home. It is very important.

A Tiv man doesn't play with his WIFE and food. Going close to a Tiv man's wife when he is fully aware is like talking badly against Mohammed when you're a Christian in Sokoto or Katsina or Jigawa State. You know the result.

A Tiv man DOES NOT give out his wife as souvenir to visitors. You will DIE!

A Tiv man doesn't play with his wife you are right but when it comes to food Tiv people are very generous with food

bayocanny:
Lol, where do you get the statistics from?
They're far from being hospital.

They are far being hospitable but you believe the lie that these people who you claim are far from being hospitable can give you their wives to have sex with?

Enemyofpeace:
a liar spotted. I've lost count of the number of tiv married women wey I don fok. Sex means nothing to them, just like oyinbo

You had sex with a Tiv woman and her husband was aware of it ? Kid lie small small

Thundafireseun:

Tiv umbrella abegggg I no wan laugh

Out of every rumours there is always an element of truth .....

This umbrella is just seeking attention...

The element of truth in it is that, the Tiv people are the most hospitable tribe in Nigeria, but given out their wives to visitors is just an exaggeration not facts

FalseProphet1:
They do give out their wives to visitors, although it was an age long practice. But they used to do it in the past.

Which age long practice that the Tiv elders themselves don't know but you who is not even a tiv person know?

JapaNinja:
Bros, no try am o!

Na heavy loss you go make, because na that December gan-gan wey dollars go enter the country plenty-plenty.

I will keep it till next year if that should be the case

nnewsnjobs:
Go and sell your dollar, the peak time for dollar to go up was August, September and October, because we had very high demand during these period since most traders source for more dollars within these period to place order for good they want to sell during this December period.
So from November, dollar demand tends to reduce a little bit, also by December many people abroad will come home with some dollars as well.

So I don't think we will have a very sharp further increase again, rather we should have a stagathering drop.

If dollar falls further in December then I will keep it till January

I will keep my dollar till December

junketer:
Visa free means you can go there anytime. So no reason to live there and to it to a shythole

Majority of Africans leaving their countries don't leave just to visit they leave to find greener pastures

junketer:
I read in the Rwanda thread about how Nigerians and other nationals will turn Rwanda to shythole but i beg to differ.
Do you know the number one reason why people become illegal immigrant? Because if they leave the country they travelled to they might never come back. If it's visa free to go to rwanda then there is no reason to go become illegal immigrant because you will go back there if you want to, just buy a plane ticket...finish. If south africa for example will make it visa free for all africans to visit then there will be no need for that african to overstay. Go there, do your thing, leave. Simple. the allure to stay there will be removed. My 2 cents though.

What exactly is the thing?

GeneralDae:
If CBN clears their backlog then those foreign banks and investors would be allowed once more to bring in hard currency which would stabilise the naira in the long run.

Is this the first time CBN is clearing FX backlog?

Pakute:
abeg shift

Please answer the simple question, what does is mean for CBN to clear FX backlog ?

Pakute:
This olodo does not know the meaning of clearing FX backlog. The only thing dem sabi is to open their empty mouth on social media. shiorr

No I don't know kid , tell me what clearing of FX backlog means ?

lexylaw40:
no it simply can't. Dollar is going down. And now is the best time to sell off any dollar you might be keeping so you won't lose

Have you asked yourself why dollar went up in the first place and going down now?

PARADIZEPRIEST:
Those who doubt will lose massively if they don't dump their hoarded dollars

All these propaganda to make people to rush and sell their dollars won't work, for CBN to release 6 billon dollars to strenghten the naira show the naira has no other source of strength , this is just temporary solution

Christistruth00:
Trade fair Land

Trade fair land where?

JOemmy:
Igbos living in the north don't dictate to their northern host i don't know why they now want to dictate to the abia state govt?

Besides that the land 80 hectares of land was given to them free of charge by the government they didn't pay for it , no governor has given Igbos any land in the north or anywhere else in Nigeria for free

HitlerWasRight:
Jesus was no Jew.

He was a Nazareene from the kingdom of Israel .

Israelite is not the same thing as Jew.

0koro illiterate.

Kid , I asked you a question you don't get it ? I ask again what is the meaning of Jews and who are the Jews ?

HitlerWasRight:
Jesus was no Jew.

He was a Nazareene from the kingdom of Israel .

Israelite is not the same thing as Jew.

0koro illiterate.

Lol do you even know the meaning of Jews ?