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aisha2:
Girl,  I know all the moving can be hard, but its no reason to feel depressed. Please just relax and enjoy your relationship with someone who loves you. Love is universal, if you find it on the moon and its love laced with respect, honesty and fidelity, take it. Never worry about things you have no power over, enjoy each day, enjoy your own company, be your biggest fan, Find things to do that make you happy, list them out and list things that make you depressed, then when you have that depressing feeling do those things that make you happy. Its ok to vent, takes the prssure off

VERY TRUE TALK AND WELL SAID

Cant updaye the profile lol

temiade:
Thanks a lot, i shld be here till end of April - at least that what my boss says. Where are u located, and what type of IT consulting did u do? How did u get out of it?

Lets talk offline. Will update my profile with my email address. OK

temiade:
@ MrLoverMan Well i didnt date them as a joke, it was serious, but things did not go well. I have always preferred Nigerian men, but as time went by, I noticed I had to settle for someone I liked around me given that I am usually in locations where there arent Nigerians. I would hope to be in a place like MD or NJ or TX, but it is not possible for now since it is hard to even consider changing jobs because of the economy - I am also on a work visa so I am stuck to my company till i get my Green Card.

No I am not at work. It is 1.40 AM in Hawaii.,

@debest, I totally understand your point, I just hope it all works out at the end

I think you shouldn't worry yourself too much.
Just enjoy life and pray about it. Don't put pressure on yourself.
Or allow your parents to pressure you.
A lot of us allow our parents to decide alot of things for us.
Its your life and you have to live it as best as you can, your parents cant live your life for you.

I have done my fair been of travelling as a freelance IT consultant. Sure do know how you feel. But enjoy it cos am sure Hawaii must be a wonderful place.
And before you know it time flies.
How long will you be in Hawaii for ?
Are you originally from UK or USA ?

temiade:
Hawaii would probably be tons of fun if I werent in this condition. It is pretty with lots of beaches and pretty shops and people

That's really strange, but I understand what you mean.
A lots of people will give an arm and a leg to be in your position/location.


anyway my piece of advice is, like I always tell most women.
Don't go for things that you would not like to fully settle down with.
For example you said your parents want you to marry a Nigeria.

Are you one to follow your parents say or do you do what you want.
If you follow what your parents say , why get involved with an oyinbo guys.
Cos you might think we will just date for now and when its time I will not marry him and settle for a naija guy.
But then few months down the line you fall in love and cant break it off.


Are you at work ?

temiade:
yes, please I need help with all those questions you have mentioned

Temiade

how are yo enjoying Hawaii.
What sort of IT consulting are you into ?

Coco29:
i think she just want to be friends u  know wat sweetie hola at me on yim

what is YIM LOL

COCO29

Welcome back :-)


What have you been up to ?

YOu do not need money to woo them. If you do then you are wooing the wrong type.

YOu need to be fun and charming. Ask any lady, if you can make them laugh, they will always like to be around you.

Send me your email, I will recomned a book for you to read.

Good luck

:-)

EbonymanUk

I will look into it and get back to you with some estimation.

y me:
she is a sexy, pretty lady
will tell you more lerra

lerra while lol.

How about now

?

@ Nellyon
She is def not my irl friend or my sis.
So she could be sexy as h8ll ceo or a super model.

Do you know her lol.

If you dont how about you telll us about yourself

Just been friendly, and finding out more info about what fellow NLer.

Dont worry dont be scared I dont bite, Ok may be I bite ladies but not guys lol

By the way , what are you doing in London ?

ARE U MAKING FUN OF ME lol :-)

How mysterious is she ?

Would like to know the lady behind the RED LIPS

Where are you located ?

Secretz:
Bang!!! Bang!!! Bang!!!   

I'm sooooo tired and drained. . . . .               

Tired and drained from what my dear

The forum is open my dear

@rokiatu

?? :-)

@ rokiatu

what are you up to ?

@ rokiatu

Dont worry both of us will chop the peper soup together :-)

@ Gamine

What kind of work is it.
dont mind MrLoverMan he is very noisey lol

@ rokiatu

That was not meant to be Public knowledge.
Now you are going to get me in Trouble :-)

tpia.:
you try. I cant work for my mum sha- no real issues but I think she'd always be in my business


I worked for my uncle once and had a great time- had a crush on one of his employees which wasnt reciprocated since the boy was some kind of straight arrow or maybe religious. Or maybe I had no game _{abi im dey fear my papa}

PELE lol :-)

@ Gamine

Sounds lie you are addicted to the internet :-)

stillwater:
My mum. _{Love you}.

you worked for your mum,
what was that like, and what business was that ?

booberry:
my birthday was dis weekend.no mony 4 bash but i tried and i had fun.i saw my babyboo n he made me hhaaappppppyyyyyyyyyyy.i also luvd my gift.

whats your location ?