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I’m in deep shit over my relationship. I’m a 35-year-old woman and met a hardworking 43-year-old man.
We’ve been dating for five months now and still haven’t slept together.
My problem is that in the beginning of our relationship, he asked me how many men I’ve slept with and worried about how he would react, I lied
and told him I’d slept with seven men. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven’t slept
with him yet. I told him I didn’t want to make love with him because I was scared that he’d lose respect and
eventually leave me just like all the other men I have slept with in the past. At this point he asked me again,
just how many men can you remember that you have slept with, to which I replied 43.

His reply was, “Hmm, one man for each of my birthday”…And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don’t get it, why is it that when men sleep around it is ok, yet when women sleep around, they’re sluts? Why can’t women have their fun too? Bubu from AbujaBelow is the response he got from Mrs Julie

Coker:Dear Bubu,
I’ve spoken with quite a number of women asking the same question. I don’t want to pass judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn’t enjoy themselves s*xually. But men and women are never the same. You expressed fear about losing respect.
As soon as you start sharing that object with anyone and without care, the object starts to lose value. The more people use the object, the more it depreciates and the less bargaining power it has: this is a plain psychological fact of life. Most women don’t realize the importance men place
on a woman’s promiscuity. Women think that because men don’t care about how many women they’ve slept with, they won’t care about how many
men their woman has slept with. But the reality is that most men, those looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand do place great
value on a woman’s s*xual restraint.
There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her,
had access to her body. But over time, it seems that women have failed to
realize the important role their s*xuality plays in finding a long-term mate. Unfortunately, because of the women’s movement, women are so busy trying to compete with men, including in the s*x department, that they fail to realize the consequences. Today, it seems women are the ones who are collecting notches on their Prada belts by giving
their bodies away easily. But if women themselves don’t value their bodies like they used to, why should men? Some women will argue that if men have the right to sleep around, so should women. But I ask only one question: If women adamantly believe this, then why is it that when faced with the question of
how many men have they slept with, most women who have slept around with truckloads of men always lie? Any woman who is competing with men is fooling herself.

That is the simple truth!

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When it comes to this topic, many guys don’t wanna hear it Why? They believe in lies. They know girls love lies. They falsify themselves and what they really
stand for, I believe it’s just to get under.
Ladies are important, we need them but most guys are perfect mugus! What do you stand to gain from telling a beautiful girl on FB that she is beautiful? Lols. She knows already naa
Some go as far as saying: “You are more beautiful than all my sisters put together ” hehehe… I praying you get educated and pick up one or two
things from this thread so you can stop disgracing the whole generation of guys:





1. If you don’t love her at all and she loves you, find a way to abscond from her. Reason being that, you may hurt her feelings. If her LOVE LANGUAGE is collecting gifts, then stop giving her gifts. Let your action speak.




2. When she is ‘high’ and needs intimacy in a hurry without protection, tell her if she gets pregnant, you’re not gonna father the child. Thank me later.





3. Never hit a girl didn’t mean never correct a girl. When she is wrong, tell her plainly.



4. If you truly love her, tell her. If she doesn’t want you, there’s nothing wrong. Stop stalking her, walk away. There are many fishes in the ocean. Work harder and be a success Diamonds are Ladies’ best friends, so is Success.



5. If a lady ignores you in public, she doesn’t say Hi or at least an “eye contact” because she is forming and wants to be chased, leave her
alone. According to MJ in “30 Days In Atlanta”, give ourself prestige. Ask a girl out but don’t force your
way in.



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Cc lalasticlala

Moustache:
Do women tell lies?

No

We’all know S*x is always fabulous, especially if you’re doing it with someone you love (like your
spouse). But there are times when it’s just plain disastrous. And women being the considerate, “ego- boosters” they are, they would rather lie than admit
that their partner’s bedroom aerobics didn’t quite hit
the mark.
Here are 8 lies every woman tells after s*x, and what
they are actually thinking when they say these things
See them as you continue…



1. She says: “That was the best!” The truth: And
sometimes it is. But most of the time it was just OK
or pretty good, but I’m really happy you seemed to
be having such a cool time! I, on the other hand,
have compiled this list of notes I took while I was
waiting for it to be over, if you’d like to see them for
future reference.


2. She says: “Oh yes, I totally had an O**asm!” The
truth: While I will always advise against lying about
this, mostly because I’m a big supporter of a girl’s
right to be able to tell the guy, “That did not work! Do
it again!” sometimes I have lied. Why? Because I knew
it would never get good, because I wanted you to
leave, because I’m tired, because I don’t care to
explain why it was bad. And sometimes I just want
the person to leave so I can eat pizza.


3. She says: “Of course things won’t be weird now.”
The truth: “No, this hasn’t done irreparable damage
to our friendship! No, I’m not gonna be super weird
around you every time I see you in class/at work/
doing yoga three rows in front of me. Why would
you think that? Because it’s true? Yeah, that’s a good
reason.”


4. She says: “Really? I didn’t even notice a scar.” The
truth: “You have an odd physical deformity in the
shape of a very small pineapple and it’s the color of
my old Honda Accord? No, I didn’t even see that,
what with all the passion happ**ing!”


5. She says: “That thing you said during s*x wasn’t
weird at all.” The truth: This is most often
communicated by lying silently in bed so he thinks
that everything is A-OK, as the words “Give it to me,
daddy” run through my head because he said
them, not me.


6. She says: “Oh no, I wasn’t embarrassed.” The
truth: “I am not at all mortified by the weird sound
my body made/the weird sound your body made.
Hey, do I look like the type of person who gets
easily freaked out by weird sounds and has to go to
the bathroom for a while because uh, I just do and
also because I need to breathe into a paper bag
and text everyone I know because seriously, what
was that sound??”


7. She says: “That’s so crazy. I had no idea I had my
period.” The truth: Oh, I knew. I knew.


8. She says: “Yeah, I’d love to have s*x again
immediately!” The truth: “Honestly it hasn’t even
occurred to me that the new season of New Girl
just started and I have a few episodes to catch up
on and my whole body feels weird and also there is
cake in my fridge. More s*x is all I am thinking of!”


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