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odihack:
I received an acceptable offer from Szent Istvan... Waiting on Debrecen which is my first choice

Anyone else with an acceptable offer?

Bro pls during your time, did you use the WASSCE result or all your termly results from sec sch? And are you currently in hungary now??

What course and institution are applying to?

I don't know if you have any idea about this, is transcript WASSCE result or all terms results in secondary sch.. I'm applying for one-tier master program, D.Pharm

30ammy:
Yes I have, I am not able to apply for two courses, we're you able to?

I have started mine also.. You can only apply for a course this year

30ammy:
I want to apply for 2021/2022 scholarship. Please I need help

Same here, have you started the application?

daddytime:
I use nothing. I just avoid touching or picking it.

Any changes noticed then?

candyguyofficia:
Treat the rash at the back of your head now that it is in the early stage. I recommend you get a personal clipper (burn it before every use even though it's personal) and aftershave cream. If were you barb your hair isn't standard then I suggest you change the saloon.

Okay, thanks

daddytime:
How often do you bath?

The one at the back of your head is mostly picked up from the Salons.

I'm battling one as we speak even though I have my own clipper.

It's worrying.

Once daily.. what are you using?

Hello everyone, please I need your help with my skin.

-- There are rashes all over my back and arm, I noticed that this rashes start like pimples or goose pimples which later become dry and dark with itching irritation.. I have used everything I know ranging from creams, tubes, soap but I didn't see any changes.

-- Also I noticed a hard dark, itching pimple like stuff right at the back of my head. I first noticed it few days after I barbed my hair( this happened 2 years ago). I thought it was just normal shaving bump, used cleanser, deltol, tube creams to clear it off, even I intentionally scratch it off my neck but noticed the thing still forms back.

Please help me with anything I can use to clear these things off and have a good skin back, be it medically or herbally. It is now having affect on my self esteem, I don't like taking off clothes even in front of my male siblings.. pls help a brother

stanliwise:
From what you said I don’t know if she likes you romantically or maybe she she does but she is afraid of being committed.
If she is afraid of commitment then all you need to do is to sweet talk her into everything, although I hate when people make promises, but you can sweet talk the future and customize the reality of you both if she agrees to make commitment.
On the other hand I think you shouldn’t let your emotion over the place for this kind of girls. Like always have at the back of your mind that this kind of girls act naively based on peer advise and many things. They are unreliable.
She could either be the materialistic type of girl or the decent type. Those two kind of girls are afraid of commitment. One needs the material/rich boyfriends, the other needs a responsible partner. I don’t know who she is.
But one way to know if a girl likes you is how much of attention and time she dedicates when you are around her, forget the comment and silly “I like you“ joke, does she concentrate and invest time when it comes to you?

You are right on the part of commitment, I think she is afraid of being committed cos of her studies.. She told me that she does not want a relationship presently and she wants to focus more on her studies. I was even thinking that if I am of help to her and she improves academically (consider myself brilliant than she is, she also knows), may be she might give me a chance.

But I will not talk with her now till we resume and we see each other. Thanks

stanliwise:
From what you said I don’t know if she likes you romantically or maybe she she does but she is afraid of being committed.
If she is afraid of commitment then all you need to do is to sweet talk her into everything, although I hate when people make promises, but you can sweet talk the future and customize the reality of you both if she agrees to make commitment.
On the other hand I think you shouldn’t let your emotion over the place for this kind of girls. Like always have at the back of your mind that this kind of girls act naively based on peer advise and many things. They are unreliable.
She could either be the materialistic type of girl or the decent type. Those two kind of girls are afraid of commitment. One needs the material/rich boyfriends, the other needs a responsible partner. I don’t know who she is.
But one way to know if a girl likes you is how much of attention and time she dedicates when you are around her, forget the comment and silly “I like you“ joke, does she concentrate and invest time when it comes to you?

Hmm, I get you.. Thanks bro, at least if I don't get her I learned a lesson already. I have decided to leave her and focus on other girls till we resume and then call her one day.

stanliwise:
To start with, how did you know she is crazy over you??

[/b] I thought she was crazy cos of how she behaved..okay let me share this, I have a female friend that she knows us together, and anytime she sees us together she always change her mood and reaction and anytime I find time for her by visiting or staying with her she is always unstable, happy that am around her.. I thought I was on her mind




Meanwhile from the way you sound it seem like you are giving her a lot of your time and I like to know exactly why?

[b] I won't lie, I like her and I thought giving my time to her could help change her mind

As a friend or so that you can win her heart??

[/b] yea, to win her heart. I wasn't much available with her when I thought she was drooling over me. I considered her purely as friend then, but I thought she liked me..




Now you confessed your feelings, answer this?
- Did she give you an interest of being a girlfriend?

[b][/b]Yes, I think so. There was a particular day we were together the whole day, taking one class to another in different lecture theatres and during the evening we were about to part, she told me, waving 'okay, good bye I love you'.. I was surprised that day but I didn't want to take any moves thinking it is all these girls plays.. But the next time we saw, she was touching me, telling me she likes my hairstyle..



From now on you have to punish her behavior, for the next one month focus on yourself and if she greet you then respond objectively to her response(Be careful don’t show anger or frustration), reply cool calm and collected and make every discussion brief.

[b] We haven't seen or been together since March. I saw her in sch but she was rushing for a practical class, and she said we would see later( well, she is no more in my department, she changed her course. She told me about it few days before I asked her out in January), so I usually call her or chat with her on WhatsApp.. But even with that I haven't chat with her since 25th of July or call her and she still login to WhatsApp, though not stable online



On your part, have an open mind and if you’re chanced to date other girls, please do, don’t ever place your heart in the hand of any girl. And lastly don’t be her friend. YOU CAN EITHER BE HER LOVER FIRST AND THEN A FRIEND. IT BARELY EVER WORKS THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

[b][/b] Thanks bro, I wasn't expecting a quick response.. pls guide me through with the answers I provided up there

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Brothers with great work here, pls I need your help...

There is this girl in my department, she always acted as if she liked me but I didn't used to give her face, I can recall like three occasions where I have neglected her in sch because I wasn't ready to start anything with her though I like her( found out that I had unconsciously played hard to get with her when going through Hardron's posts).
Then after we finished a semester and then I started talking to her and giving her face, but I wasn't much available ( she wasn't much around as well) because of academic works until we finished the session and then we were on holiday and then developed the gut to ask her out on WhatsApp using voice note( we were then at home and our states are far from each other).. I asked her out that night, telling her I like her and the type of person she is and that I understand how she has been behaving to me. Immediately she replied with VN back that, it is nice to be friendly and been hospitable to people around you but she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she wanted to focus on her studies more.. I tried to convince her that we can focus more together and achieve good things together but she insisted she is not ready for a 'boyfriend-girlfriend relationship' as she said.


Guys help how do I go about it to win her to my side, I realize now that I shouldn't have asked her out.. pls help.. I have been trying to be friendly, jovial and cool with her while chatting on WhatsApp during this lockdown, but she isn't the social media type ( even when we were in sch), she might not login to her WhatsApp for like 5days or a week, thereby delay replying me on time plus her conversation is a monosyllabic type ( she has been like this even when she was drooling over me). Sometimes I decide to call her and we talk for a while (mostly about sch stuffs or things happening) but I can't feel her drooling again at all..

I really like this girl, Hardron and other real Nigazz here please help a brother.

Horlaryinkha:
can we talk bro...am currently studying chemistry education OAU and I knw how stressful and tedious its..if u hear White house

I dey always pity you guys wey dey chemistry education for OAU, you dey do engineering maths,(yellow house), chemistry courses plus education courses .. God go be with you o