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@noholdsbarred: ur conjecture is plainly wrong.
Using logic to justify flirting wont work. It's just wrong!

If anyone sees it as normal, it means he has come to a point of acceptance that he
can't do anyfin bout it n wants to let it be.

@iice you see that's the point. That very reason slightly, touchy or extreme can cause more harm than one imagines.
so why venture in the first place?

@ibkaye, it is. Very and it baffles me

I have a friend whose girlfriend flirts a lot with other guys she finds attractive
yet she totally loves her boyfriend.

Is this like a common trait cos i find it difficult to comprehend this even while she is in a relationship

It could get worse, like going beyond flirting into an affair you never bargained for.

My observation is that it is rampant among girls btw 20 and 25.

Guys, what's ur take??

Sue for what?

Don't forget dis is Africa, parents still beat their kids to rebuke certain behaviours and that will never change.
I see absolutely nothing wrong in correcting the young girl. That's an effective way to correct kids in africa.
I grew up with such beatings n dat has molded nearly everyone i know

Look, There's a mosque beside my house, kids go there on Saturdays to learn the qua-ran n Islamic doctrine, the alfa der
never spares any child (big or small). He beats them at will, all so they could effectively learn. And the parents totally support it.

Stop this western mentality. It cant work. This is Africa, Nigeria!

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Both work hand-in-hand but RESPECT comes first. Dats what inspires Love. Before a gurl wud fall inlove with a man, she must first respect the man otherwise its a waste of time.

zero relevance

But why the hating and cursing??
The guy just shared his experience, its not worth raining all the insults, i think it is very immature.

And why wud a gurl pull such kinda stunts, if she knows she didn't wanna go down, then y go to the guy's house
The guy is not claiming to be a saint, which makes me respect him more unlike the many hypocrite you find in our environment.

Bottomline, gurls should think twice and avoid sending wrong signals.

which Telecom company did u secure the job?

snooping is healthy once in a while, it helps put ur relationship in check.

U just have to be prepared for the worst when u set out for it.

And it helps me know how my investment(s) is faring, whether i shud invest more or watch it grow.
(on a realistic level, it is just okay)

@DebbyDebby
I agree wiv u on some level. However, what if u are been played all along, wouldn't it hurt more? For som1 you intend to spend the rest of your life wiv, it is proper you have adequate knowledge about the person and what he/she is capable of doing.

Lastly, are u guys married?

@MoneyRule
I didnt want to confront immediately, i needed to understand the situation first cos i may react with fury.

Well i did confront her today, and she blatantly denied knowing anyone of them claiming her friend initiated d whole thing as a game and she thought it was fun. imagine !

@ola_ide, @Junee
There's nothing wrong in going thru her messages, its gives me an idea into wat my gurl is upto. what if she's playing me all along, how wud i reconcile that even after making so much commitment on her?

@candyshore
Tks, I'l try ur suggestion, i thk it makes sense.

But in all, it goes to reveal wat girls are capable of doing even after u've done so much for them!

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omo peter gast retaliate, d beatin is unacceptable!

ok ma!

origina9ja:
wetting be "what"
me i no understand english jo

Dat was a reaction to ur quote. U apologised earlier and it showed a sense of maturity. Then, for whateva reason, u try to reverse it. Does it makes sense?

janami:
i am sorry that sounded like i am encouraging the stuff, but seriously, the girl myt not be able to pull this off medically, birthing the child i mean. It myt affect her. VVF and stuff. Academically, emotionally - how does a child care for a child? she isnt ready, except her mom is ready to step in as surrogate mom.
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Thats why she needs to involve her mum, dat way she can be cared for in anyway necessary

janami: the other day i went to see a friend in her mom's daycare centre, i pointed out a very dirty looking boy with bad manners and was like "why is this boy so unkempt?" and she was like his mom is just in ss1, i shld wait and see when they will come pick the boy up which would be very late. The boy is always the last to leave school. When his mom came, she came in her school uniform ard 4:30. His teacher was long gone. The boy was just giving people in the school wahala. I dnt know how that boy would be brought up. i gathered that the girl's mother is always raining curses on the girl and her child everyday. In cases like this, i am afraid i can bend my principles a little.

Well that little decision would be termed murder!

menix:
Sweetheart i think its time to call it quit, take care of yourself.

What??

egbejoseph:
Who cares whose fault it is? If you love each other, focus on solving the problem! What happened, happened. That's all! It's not healthy to make things up about why something happened or who did what to whom. Again. . . who cares?

The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding that benefits both love partners. Resolving conflict brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise.

Good one! Very nice.

stephanay:
this is good, but I'm afraid it wont work for me right now. my world is crashing

It's very applicable dearie, u need patience and understanding from both ends