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AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

SoftSport:
IPOB/southeasterners needs to be cautious, as falsely accusing innocent people based on their ethnicity could spark unnecessary inter-tribal tension and chaos in the region ⚠️.

Trinitycian:
South Easterners, please not everyone from Northern Nigeria is Fulani. We're also suffering in the North. Stop compounding our problems

Basic123:
Igbo taught them with your comments online!

They are so detribalized to the extent that an Igbo man(Ben Akabueze) was made commissioner of budget in Lagos!...you paid them back by hating the man that made it happen and wished him death,you also went further by boasting that the place is nothing without you.

Kenneth okonkwo an Igbo man left OBI& Labour party-you kept quiet
Doyin Okupe,a yoruba man left-you called him all sort of name and celebrated his death!....The only tribe that wish death on someone they hate,from Buhari to Tinubu to WIKE


If you are looking for Tribalists and teacher of tribalism,Look at the mirror

PussyMiners:
Osu
We will keep calling for Oduduwa republic until this useless Nigeria cave in .
Not Tinubu or any of your leeches would stop us .
Nigeria has expired and Yorubas must be liberated and freed from you ndigbolugis and your Fulani masters .

End Nigeria to save lives .

NB: The average Okoro wants to be affiliated with Yoruba so bad but can a slave rule the freeborn ??

Abomination

kingbee90:
Awolowo's effort in educating the Yorubas has turned out to be a wasted effort
That dude should have sent them to learn skills like bicycle repairing or farming because even some of the most educated of them still reason like nitwits because of Tribalism

Meanwhile, there are lecture halls and hostels in other federal universities nationwide with yoruba names and the students are cool with it.
No wonder they support and idolize touts and agberos like MC Oluomo and the Iragbiji crooner.

PussyMiners:
Don’t cry yet Emeka
We are just getting started.
Imagine when we take it up a notch and form our version of Radiobeerfravd with an Nnamdi Kanu type of host disseminating acerbic messages about you criminals across the length and breadth of Yoruba land with numerous Yorubas cheering him on like you and your people did between 2015 and 2020 .

Emeka, you should be very worried because the debt is about to be repaid in fulllllll

PussyMiners:
Bami Adekanye should relax for now.
Water would find its level eventually.

Any vestige of the past relating to the Ibos and their Fulani husbands would be eradicated from our society eventually.

Nigeria is already gasping for breath .

ClearFlair:
That's how you know people who contribute nothing to society

Sharpsharp00123:
those people are highly myopic

They are eyeing Lagos but don't think about d long term implications.

They think for d moment, imagine how fulanis that haven't been indigene are causing chaos

I pray the bill scale through, in the next 5 years Igbos will b d same people to form another ipob to go against it

LegendHero:
You don drink water today?

Haydens:
Taboonubu should declare state of emergency in Abuja ASAP. Na for River state he dey get strongest erection but for North na p*ssy he get.

FAT COWARD.

shortgun:
Tinubu has not solved a single problem since he became president, instead he's busy creating more problems and making the existing ones worse

Obasanjo gave us Telecom (GSM)
Yaradua gave us Amnesty program
Jonathan gave us the largest economy in Africa
Buhari refuse to float the naira or remove subsidy
[b]WHAT ON EARTH HAS TINUBU ACHIEVED[/b]

Brendaniel:
Tinubu continuing from where Buhari stopped

LegendHero:
You don chop today?

Artiiclebeast:
Barbaric.

Bmaster:
I'm speechless!


When Mama does something wrong,she can be corrected,but still technically anyone that have a child of your Age is your mama.

We should not transfer the accumulated aggressions caused by the president BOLA TINUBU'S Administrations' frustrations on the wife

zero8zero:
https://punchng.com/no-protest-against-remi-tinubu-in-delta-govt/

Homeboiy:
But he didn’t make any statement when Deborah was as killed


Dan iska

ola6:
Why were they with Guns?
See how Kwankwaso avoided this discussion about guns and just went straight to "justice" talk
This country is mad, I swear.

naptu2:
Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso @KwankwasoRM



https://x.com/KwankwasoRM/status/1905626974975869011?t=SxjCH7j6mR7ZFVfBTlJ4OA&s=19

Previous thread: Mob Sets Over 10 People Ablaze After Being Found With Guns In Edo (Photos)
https://www.nairaland.com/8382940/mob-sets-over-10-people

LegendHero:
Lol, there is nothing your 5% votes can do. Even if you align with El-Rufai, the last thing they will give you is the VP slot.

If Jagaban lose in 2027 (Impossible) and Obi becomes VP, anytime the power is to come Southward, the Hausa/Fulani will still vote for a Yoruba man over you guys.

You don't understand Nigeria. You have to accept your fate that you guys are political minority. Your highest worth is VP and Senate president, that is the highest level Nigeria design for you to reach.

Even if an Ibo man will be president (i.e., when we the political majority decide), we will not give it to that Agulu fraud Obi. Soludo, Umahi, & Otti will be a better fit.

Zionmdde:
I just hope Obi will not make any statement on this
This is one of those issues where it is best to keep silent
The likes of onanuga, omokri etc are waiting for obi so they can turn the whole thing against SE. They are all angry it didn't happen in SE

Meanwhile, why are they carrying guns and weapons?

Racoon:
THEN;

https://x.com/benmurraybruce/status/1026725977832017920?t=naF5cE5tkApZV7iQsgrMHA&s=19

NOW;
https://x.com/benmurraybruce/status/1905012810654060891?t=6V88uj0wKNl4Bq0ImVk5JA&s=19[/quote]Common sense is really not common, not even to the common sense crooner. This life sef

JikSneh:
Good people of Nigeria knows where their heart belongs, and at the right time, they will answer the ipobidients and Arewa Fulani in the language they understand.
It's not by Cho Cho Cho, Tinubu till 2031

professorPABX:
You don't understand English. What you wrote here is in my analysis except the junks you foolishly added. Who went to Supreme Court for the allocation to be given directly to local government? TINUBU. Who fought for the allocation to be given directly to local government? Tinubu. Till date, the governors are still lobbying President for the allocation to be given to them. APC government at the Parliament wanted an independent body to conduct local government election, it has passed second reading at the House of Reps.

The Constitution put Local government under States. The State House of Assembly can promulgate an edict over Local government.

Whatever you are saying is TURECI and I am babu TURECI. They should provide estimated budget for 2025 and past budget for two years since the money was released to the sole administrator. Next allocation the Local government administrator should go to Abuja and collect their allocation directly , doing that will make them unaccountable to the sole administrator.

Mind you, it is this same ACCOUNTABILITY ISSUE that made GOVERNORS all over Nigeria to reject direct allocation to Local Government.

Admiral Sir, no accountability, no allocation to Local Government.

Slytiger:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/03/25/armed-herdsmen-attacks-displace-7000-force-over-1000-children-out-school-enugu

plumcomm:
This NASS is working tho but some people are programmed to never see good.

We4all:
African men like sex a lot. This is why some of them sleep with their daughters.

tundegan:
I love Onanuga.

He is a man of class and dignity.

professorPABX:
IBOS hate reality. 99% of people making comments are IBOS and not Rivers State indigenes.

The reality on ground require experience and intellect. Governors collect LG allocations from FG and do whatever please them with it. There is a legislation that the fund should go directly to the LGs but not yet implemented. Now, there's a Sole Administrator. The Local government administrators with FUBARA connivance will expect all the released LGs allocations to the Sole Administrator to go directly to each Local government account, this is not done anywhere in Nigeria but under Emergency Rule it can happen. Then the local government administrators should be able to provide their past budget (revenue and expenditure) at least for two years assuming 2025 budget of each local government is not yet approved.

The directives given by Admiral is the best practice. They must show an estimated budget for each local government in the last two years. Each local government administrator should be able to explain how their past allocations were spent, otherwise, Admiral should not release any allocation to them again.