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ahnie:
This person raised some concerns.i have years on nairaland and his verdicts are always correct.

i am the one. i didnt ask you for money. i said i recieved help on this same nairaland i also mention i gamble nd pmo. lady i dont have any reputation to guarrd

ahnie:
Mind taking a pic of yourself blurring your face?I m only suggesting,it's not a must.
I remember Djdola of blessed memory complained of same symptoms.


It's well with you.

i know i am dying i will do it tomorrow

so this cruel man want to open his own bookie?

CaveAdullam:
1. You are too weak now to pick yourself from the dust. No amount of motivational talks will uplift your soul from these shackles and bondage. Don't even bother setting goals. You'll fail more times than you passed, then slip back into your former state.

2. Now that you've acknowledged your problem online, and found that you need a solution, a road that will lead you to the light, you must do the same offline.

You're an adult. No constant murmuring and lamentations. If you want a breakthrough, you must behold yourself in a mirror that you need it.

3. What you need to do:
A. Look for people you admire offline. Relate your problem to them. The average man will love to help but don't act as a another burden.

You must be willingly to bear your weight amidst shame, guilt, ridicule, and reproach. You do not need a pampering of your ego.

B. Look for an NGO center around. Relate with them.

C. Look for any adventure offline that's filled with good and reputable people. These people will hold you accountable. They will be both a mentor and master. The help you need are in their hands. Don't think you can do it solely.

4. Have a list of people you admire. Write them boldly on a paper or the wall in your bedroom. You can obtain their pictures if possible.
Look at these names and pictures daily before stepping out or taking action.

Take for example:

1. Will Martin Luther be wasting time on masturbation and pornography instead of looking for ways to set blacks free. Ponder on this while gazing his beauty in a picture.

Will Nelson Mandela do this? What will Jordan Peterson do in this situation.

5. Using myself as an example: I've become inspired by Peter Obi. In the sense that since the presidential shows no scandal has been used to roped the man. Not even a mistress or the maltreatment of his housemaids. Every stone thrown at him are empty propaganda.

It means one thing: it is either Peter Obi is the inventor of hide and seek game or has been maintaining a clean standard because of a day like this.

It doesn't means that he's a saint. Everyone has challenges, foibles, weaknesses. But people like him have discovered how to finagle around their weaknesses.

This is the kind of man I want to become. Hence, I hold him strongly in my imagination and dear to my heart even if it means not responding to my sensual desires. It's about the future not now. I want to become a man that will make his enemies looks stupid when they accuse him.

6. Dear friend, salvation is possible. Step outside today, scan for good people and they'll gladly help you. An idea on where to find these people: church, mosques, library, seminars, meetings, etc.

Don't sit down in your house looking for help. You won't get it. However, you can use online aids to supplement, and solitary to ponder, meditate, introspect and lay good strategies.

Take care, man.

gracias patron

Blupen969:
Op it is that your uncle that put a hex on you,
but good news is that you can free yourself by paying all your karmic debt, and that is what you are doing now paying your debt, sha you will soon pay finish and enter heaven because right now you are in hell op

may i come out victorious

ConfidentialDoc:
Change your thoughts and your emotions about yourself and your environment.

Do you know that bad thoughts and bad emotions got you here ?

Think about the things you want and not what you don't want and feel as if they've already happened....do this habitually.

thanks bro

Aladdin1:
Leave your parents house where you are getting free food to eat and that makes the beginning of your freedom and testimony.the way i see it only serious suffering and hunger would reset your brain and reprogram your lazy mindset.when you are really hungry and tired,you would not have the strength or see erection to jerkoff.leave your comfortzone and learn to be a man.this i have seen!.lol

u call a man who spend hours in construction site lazy?

chizidgreat:
I've messaged you bro
You can get help
Chat me up please

seen

alpharoyalty:
Child of doom. Is that you?

no i am not him

wow bro u are lucky

its developers

betting should be banned

MrBrownJay1:
SHATTAP YOU THIEF OLE BARAWO FRAUDSTER!!!!!
you really think NLers are gonna fall for your petty scams, abi? you can change your profiles all you want, we know who you are. before you begged total strangers on NL under the profile RAV3, the DEVINEE... i wrote about you last yr and you are still here again with fake stories, abi?!

here below is you posting your phone # and wema bank account




same phone # and bank account used by your old fake begging profiles with phoney stories below:





here is your phone # below with different scam format:





and here below is what people who have dealt with you and your many moniker/phone # have to say about you:

oneday someone will commit suicide because of u. if u like start digging on me u wont get anything. but u should know its not everyone that ask for help a scammer

deeway200:
Sincerely, the guy always look sick. Sickness too plenty for this life especially Africa

that niggar was sick looking at his big belly nd yellow eyes

Fearyourcreator:
Divorce don turn normal... 10 years you just opened mouth divorce like naso e easy ...

its easy its hard only if u are a ssimpp

ahnie:
Most times you chip like a loose birdie,do you by any chance realised you re abusing someone's wife?

And for the records,pls stop stereotyping women.

im sorry to break it to u but all women are like that. she tasted another man nd she cant resist it anymore. why did it take her 10years to realize he is not romantic? think about it young lady

she tested another man. this a sad truth

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

these selfish and ungrateful creatures chaiiiii

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

your wife is so selfish dont let her mum move in let her feel the pain.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nice one . God knows I don’t like doctors as a partner. Lailai I can’t.

but on redpill trade u said u are not a lady?

alobright17:
Those senseless rape apologists should come and defend their own as usual by telling us how the 9 months old dressed to lure the rapist . Mad people.

its obvious he did it for ritual purpose how can a man in his right sense lust towards a 9month old baby

Jennyclay:
Jesus Christ!! . Not again!!

What has a 9 month old baby done to deserve this barbaric act . What is attractive in a 9 month old baby nitori olorun?? .

This is the 3rd rape case committed by men on front page today. We don't even know how many we'll count before this week runs out. God please help us!

Please and please, No woman should ever leave her female child under the care of any man not even her father.

Men are evil. I hate men. May all rapist die this year. Amen!!

i was saddened by the news but ur comment make me laugh

70years old man