Airforce1:
abeg wetin she wear so?

She wants to be like Beyonce by all means

Hm that same beyonce is a classy lady and knows what to wear and to where. She knows how to keep it sexy but classy.

Had my first kiss when I was 19, it felt so soft and good. He kissed all over my face so by the time he got to my lips I couldn't even move.

OP, take your time and kiss her face, I mean kiss her forehead,her eyes ,her nose , her cheeks, den kiss very close to her lips , and den her lips, she won't b able to resist.
That's how I got my first kiss ,*smiles* after many failed attempts of trying to kiss me and me refusing, he told me "okay,I give up " so we talked about other things and I was leaned against his car so he kissed my nose first then my eyes then my cheeks then my forehead then came back close to my lips by the time he kissed my lips I couldn't even move , I just stood there transfixed, and it was on from there. So take your time and kiss her face and don't rush for her lips.

JayKayMaybachz:
Chineke!! This thread is as old as fvck..... Forgotten about it sef.... How you take find am Does it matter .... Errrrmmmm, you talked bout bonus here.....Okay, she denied me of 'em bonuses which is my right then.... Anyways, about cheating on my gf, she caused it.... Always giving me excuses that she was busy.... When she visits, she wouldn't want us have sex either.... Ah never knew she was buzy fvckin' her colleague.... Untill she got preggy....You know thatz the fruit of her buzinezz... She's married to the n*gga now sef.....Mtcheeeeeew!!

Okay dats cul. Hope u with someone who doesn't deny u your bonus. Wish u luck.

JayKayMaybachz:
Capital .......... Yes ........... She Was Far From Me And Whenever She Was Around ............ She Will Deny Me Of My Rights .......... So I Decided To Cheat ...........

Rights? Were you guys married or what? Coz I don't think sex in a relationship is an obligation , it only becomes your right when you're married, in a relationship , its not an obligation , its just a bonus, and both must agree and be willing for it to be enjoyed.

Thanks OP for d advice but damn they are much.

OP, you are very observant. Nice write up,some people judged and sentenced me for a simple honest and natural post , some claimed to be angels compared to me, o well! I don't care anymore . Thumbs up OP.

deltateam:


I never knew true love has ON and OFF switch. Look at the girl that said she has genuine love.

I JUST DEY OBSERVE.

Gosh !! Blind bat! Read my post and show me where u saw love? Let alone genuine love! For Christ sake I said I like this guy and jus wanna be friends with him

omorttee4u:



If you really like your self. Don't try the move of getting close to him now if is in your mind. The information here might have got to him and is not really good for him to know your intention of coming to him. Just continue to be yourself for now.

I'm sure this your topic will make you popular in school environment , you might not know. But a lot of people will be pointing finger at you somehow. Just be yourself and pretend nothing happened afterall you owe anybody apology.

If you had codedly impersonate the story it would have worked out fine but you never knew it would make up fp like this.

Most comment there are good to go..especially the one that supported you to start up the conversation. Because the guy is a shy type. We that are shy and introvert. Even though a girl walk up to us for conversation we still don't believe she's interested because we don't like to get turn down on our move.

The guy like you very much but is scared of being turn down. If decide to walk up to the guy don't let it be now. Cos some guy will make it known to him, that you like him already , you posted it on nl , and you will end being the victim.

Life is short not to go for what we really wanted. Enjoy yourself.

I get wat u saying, bt I don't plan on ever getting close again, in fact nairalanders has cleared my head of d attraction , and no one knows the exact dude I'm talking about so how they going to tell him? They'll only b guessing and keep on getting it wrong.

miembamish:

Don't worry girl... Nafng is gonna happen... See ya in skul wen I resume, maybe am gonna be ur middle man to get to de dude...

Tanx, see u in scul.

mutombo:

You don't have to regret anything girl. I believe you have acquired enough knowledge on the raised issue....next time you posting such, let go of your DP or use a neutral account....this is a very big forum....safe!

Thanks,I won't forget that.

deuce7:

Don't mind some of these pretenders on NL. Never allow anyone make you feel bad for expressing how you felt at a time. They are not better than you.

Thank you very much,in a way its good ,I'm learning how to take criticism without wanting to kill myself. It'll help me in future.

PocoAPoco57:


Fuckkkkk you, dont you have anything better to do with your life. Maybe you are not his type, stop being desperate.

Well,this kinda immaturity often accompany some kids online. First of all I'm not being desperate , I just wanted to the possible reasons why things went that way,if I were desperate I guess I wul have walked up to him or someone close to him before now, and I'm seriously done with this issue,I feel like making it disappear from niaraland coz in reality after the first day it was posted I deleted it from my head coz I had expressed it out to people.
Secondly you're already bleeped for life with this kinda attitude where you insult people for no reason.

deenchanted:
lol, dear, i know how you feel right now and your heart is kind of melting away for this guy. Just invite him somewhere and pretend as if you want him to help you in your assignment and open up to him. Take this step and you'll surely be fine. There's nothing wrong telling a guy that you love him.

Nooo I didn't mention love oo . I just his coolness and quietness and wul like to be friends with him.
I don't love him ,I like him. Love? Not on my mind at all.

miembamish:
@Msrita. Yeah ah knw u.. We're inde Faculty in Unical. Well qoute me den we talk. Try to recall de dude called "Mish" in skul in ur Faculty, dats me. Emmm!!! Juz quote me 1st

Yea mish .. I already recognized you from your pics,damn how worse could this get, I regret ever posting this.

[quote au
thor=Franchise21 post=27355742]If u re truly d one on ur dp, no right thinking guy wud ignore a lady as pretty as u are[/quote]

That's y I had mention that I get a lot of male attention. O well ,I thank everyone for their input,I'm done with dis issue seriously,I dunno,is there a way I could delete this post? Cos I'm tired of reading more comments when this issue is currently in my psychological waste bin. Thanks

RedBenson:


Hmmmm, that seems like going for plan B when plan A must've failed. Anyway, it's all good. Enjoy!

There's no plan A or plan B or whatever, I was talking about making good grades at school

RedBenson:


Which option did u resolve to taking?

To forget about it totally and he doesn't even exist anymore to me ,in fact I didnt post anything on nairaland and focus on making more As and Bs.

RedBenson:


Hmmmm, malabress?


I didnt even check ur profile. School go hear am. Lolz

I don't care if they hear

100Cents:


How many carryovers will that save you ?

I don't want you to stay in school beyond your mates..

Please learn to talk reasonably or keep quiet.
In life we balance work n play,so don't bring carry over issues here , this isn't about my school work

Tallesty1:
You ignored all the guys that are giving you attention and you are complaining that someone is ignoring you??

How does it sound?

You have a favourite guy.

He is got a favourite girl.

So you would be happy if he leaves her and starts walking with you "slowly"?

If you want him that badly then why don't you just walk up to him and tell him your mind?

Abeg park well and free a brother.

Thank you tallesty

Articul8:
Dnt 4get 2 feed us back.

Lol, I won't forget, going in for second semester next week.. We'll know watsap then.

youmour:
I think u shud offer him ur kitten on a silver tray,if that doesnt work then that nigga dont gbadun u or hes gayy

Sorry, I don't get that kitten on a silver tray thing..
Pls tell me what I'm thinking isn't what you are suggesting?

Tapout:
lolz... He is doing it on purpose, ur probably one of those girls that play hard to get. lossen up a bit, give him a reason to walk up to you or u probably should walk up to him.....It works like magic

I actually think he's doing it on purpose too.
I used to always say that if were a guy I'll make girls fall for and do nothing about,I guess he that guides the universe decided to make me know what it feels like. But as a girl I don't make guys fall for me though ,I don't try at all ,I'm an effortless chic any day anytime . U wanna fall ? Cool, u don't want to ? Better.

Thank you all. I get it , there are 2 options, take the risk and walk up to him or crush silently. I think I already know which one I'm taking. Thank you all once again.

Articul8:
What is wrong if u say hello to him?

I mentioned in my post that we had a greeted a few times.

Harbosede02:
I think u sud walk up to him,and ask y he ignores u and behave as if u don't exist.

I don't wanna take that risk sister,you know he might misinterpret the whole thing and if he's a jerk he'll go about telling people I'm falling for him and add some loads of lies. Believe me some guys can and would do that.

So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.

He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times .

I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

Yea they're beautiful. I like snakes ,most of them are slim and graceful. I like to watch them on NAGEOwild but im scared of them .

RiRi all the way !

After making a vow to myself and God when I was 16 to get married as a virgin , it seems harder each day and im just 19. God pls help me.