₦airaland Forum

Simdyofficial:
Mr man hustle oo.. Make u no go dey think vanity upon vanity anytime new iPhone come out

All this small boys on Nairaland lol

Thank God I'm not not a poor man, only empty vessels make the loudest noise. This is my last reply to you!

siofra:
See how this one is trying so hard to validate his stupidity, to feel like he's worth anything

Btw who fvcking cares if it's your birthday or not?
What are you celebrating? Your miserable existence?

Take it easy on yourself, did he hurt u so badly?

Simdyofficial:
Stress or no stress.. Everybody go die... U no want stress but you go still carry big gbola dey panelbeat big ass. Lol.

Live life bruh.. Only poor men reason this way..

Only poor man reason this way bla bla bla. Ended up making zero sense, get sense abeg

Aaaaarghmed:
so she shouldn't be grateful for 3k.you no well

At all, he sounded like the woman's son abi daughter

GenBuhari:
If it was me I had advise the uber driver to look for some other business, nobody is making a living wage from driving Uber.
Do you know the cost of foodstuff alone these days? And you want her to be grateful for #3000?

You sound more like the woman's daughter or son, same gene

Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J front page please, let our men get to know that stress isn't good for any human.

mmadu4:
Thanks for sharing this

Uwc bro

Osobi32:
Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears

Unfortunately that's the reality for men.I do hope we get it into our subconscious minds to find a way to manage stress at all levels including in the family. One thing is certain, even if you drop dead the family still moves on. That's the sad reality.

hopeforcharles:
Brotherly you have said it all. I have promised myself that I will take life easy and enjoy small. After all no be me kill baba

Yes oo

I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.

It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.

(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.

(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?

Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.

Just my 2cents, bye.

Reflect7:
It is normal in those places too.

Power outage is a daily occurrence in India for example.

Just because you are only learning about it doesn't mean it is not normal for them.

Because for una head everywhere outside Nigeria is heaven.

Lol, that's exactly what Nigerians think. Hahaha

Good, may UGM no see your way, Amen

kmcutez:
How can you be banned from a region by a foreign government in your own country. Ayam not understanding?

He's not lying, try to watch some documentary. The French still control things there.

princefunm:
If you are sure you used the right amount of oil and it is not too low, then you might need to scan the car.

You probably have a faulty transmission control.

There is a computer controlled solenoid attached to the transmission control that controls the oil pressure. If it is bad it wont function properly.

If your tranny oil is too low, it wont function properly.

If its not any of those 2, then you might need to ask whoever changed your oil some very serious questions.

Who can scan the car for me

dangoteinlaw:
The one in my street owns a multimillion duplex worth almost 60m by my extimate. Where and how he got the money onlythe gods know.

From extorsion naw

hammer567:
Y DEM RELEASE AM NOW?



IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO HIM NOW, IT IS ON NIGERIA ARMY HEAD.

You fit go donate your papa for them to hold

kolemark22:
It is factual that the case of unemployment in the Nigerian sphere has led to the unwanted maltreatment of members of staff of private organizations.

Some business owners especially private school owners are becoming more and more insensitive to the plight of the members of their staff in our present day society.


I work in a school where I am paid 50k as an academic staff. We did not get our pay in August because school was not in session.

However, wen we resumed in September, the proprietor decides to ease our stress by giving everyone 5k. At the end of the month, without prior notice he decided to pay us 50% of our salary.

We were dumbfounded by this act. With the level of disappointment, my HOD decided that we should return the 50% as a sign of our displeasure. About seven of us obliged and returned the 50% salary.

When the proprietor learnt about it, he was furious. He ended up relieving the HOD of his duty. Sighting that he was a threat to his establishment.

For the rest of us, we will know our fate tomorrow whether we will stay or leave.

I hope I stay though because I I prefer to leave on my own and not asked to leave.

Selfish boy, your HOD left protecting you but you don't want to leave. That's why one shouldn't make sacrifice for others.

FOJEM:
Apparently, the gear oil is in excess. Drain at least half a litre of the transmission oil and drive your car.

Wow, I think you're correct on this. The transmission oil is way above the gauge line. So I should meet the mechanic to drain it right?

princefunm:
Did you use the right transmission oil?

Are you sure you used the right amount?

Yes I used the right amount and the right transmission oil

Dozieson:
You have not heard of car scanning?
I do most of my car repairs with a scanner

I don't know about that, please tell me how to do that

Dozieson:
Scan and share codes

How please?

SonofLothbrok:
One thing is to declare a state of emergency and the other is to enforce it.

Hope we will not start seeing soldiers hiding inside our kitchens when we declare our own state of emergency.

Lol, you're hiding somewhere far away from south east and making noise

Guys contribute to my thread naw

Tranquill:
You think Ngozi Okonjo Iweala would be there if she didn't study at MIT and built her career working in western countries and organizations? They trust and know her capability. They know she understands their system. The other woman is more or less representing and is sponsored by Nigeria to that post at the UN.

I have lived, studied and worked with these people the reason I am saying it.

This Nigerian Dr won't be there too if he wasn't qualified, you reek of inferiority. I pray not to have a friend like you who feels so inferior tufiakwa

Tranquill:
hahaha just being realistic bro not dark mind.
He didn't study with them, practice medicine with them and you expect they'll listen to him?

Its just like saying Ngozi okonjo iweala or Amina for UN won't be listened to because they didn't study with them. If they didn't find them worthy they won't be there. Change your negative thoughts so you don't limit yourself

Tranquill:
Did they leave the position for people from third world countries since he beat a Pakistani?
Anyway, I know Oyinbo people will not listen to him concerning how to run their medical institutions.

Negative and dark mind. Just say congrats and move on. Inferiority complex no go kill u

Hi guys, my gear oil finished and I topped it. A problem Developed afterwards, my car can move back on revise 'R' but can't move on drive 'D' unless I fire it before it selects. Please what is the problem and how can it be corrected. Its an automatic car, Toyota corolla S

Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J front page please, I need a solution

TundeBricklayer:
Nigeria Soldiers Are Beating Actor Chinwetalu Right Now At Upper Iweka Onitsha Anambra State For Putting On Biafra Clothing


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvcmzzf6cj0

Lalasticlala

Who send am message, why can't he respect himself seeing the tensions on ground. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Old age no be wisdom

But she bought it from the owner naw,

Obiano went to beg so they won't be state of emergency