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tiswell:
alaye keep kwayet,to fvck that babe one more time just dey hungry you

Make a sense out of what you wrote.

youmour:
You seem too young or too sprung to be in this relationship, everything you posted was just headache. Its useless beating a dead horse,the sparks in the relationship is dead and it will be almost impossible to go back to being mere friends. Y'all should count it as a lose.

Sure but it's easier said than done

emmaodet:
I don't think you are a serious person nor are you ready to take any advice.
The girl wanted to see you twice or thrice in a private place but for a reason, you didn't let it happen and now what do you want again?
Bro, go and rest and leave the girl alone.

The two times wasn't my fault. It was hers if you got me right from that I said. Let me break it down again;

The first time, she said we should meet in a private place - a room. I told her no problem with that as I was interested in seeing her as well. So, I told her we'd meet at my place, she declined. She said she wanted a place that's close to her work place, so I said we meet at an hotel that's close to her work place then since I don't live near her work place and it's needed we meet in a room so hotel was the best available option again. She declined the hotel as well.

Since she wanted a private place (a room) and she declined coming to my place and also declined hotel room, I cant think of any private place again and when I asked her to name where else she could think of then since she rejected the available options, she couldn't come up with one. More like knowing what you don't want but not knowing what you want.

That's why it failed the first time. EXACTLY THE SAME THING HAPPENED the second time. She initiated we meet, a private place but still declined coming to my place and hotel without giving another place. I got infuriated and I expressed my anger which lead to a misunderstanding which we settled the following day.

She later travelled to her school city and I was in the city for about a week, that time she was willing to come meet when I let her know I was around and told her to let me know anytime she's free. She beeped me by herself on WhatsApp to know how I've planned our meet up but I didn't let it happen because I wasn't free during the day and she was interested in coming during the day. So when I was done with what I was doing, I left the following morning without bothering her because I wonder why she'd even be interested in meeting up anyway. So that's the third time.

sabbiboi:
Do however you wish, but make sure you no mumu for her. She's putting herself first that's why she broke up.

Again why will a woman be the first to initiate a break up with me, and not me with her

Lol, told you she gave some reasons; age difference, then I'm done with schooling while she's still in school as for why she doesn't want to continue.

Someone has to do the breakup if it's bound to happen. She did first because she found a reason first and not me finding a reason yet.

Smartb0y:
You're suffering from oneitis my brother.
Go for absolution.
Fullstop!!!!

Lol, she's not the ONLY ONE. I don't consider her as the hottest and "THE ONE" I like and I miss her vibes, moments and everything we shared.

Not like I'm seeing her as the only one. REST.

sabbiboi:
Bro, don't let anyone here make it seem as if you didn't maintain the right frame. Although you didn't, but it is what every other person with their emotions tied to r/shps will do, even worse.

If you've been following this discussion keenly, the red pill preaches that you put yourself first before any f*cking person.

For me, when a girl start giving me emotional disturbance. My psych start to react negatively, and I withdraw my attention immediately.
It's not you, she's the the one trying to play mind games. So leave are alone, for your own sanity. There are thousands of ladies out there that you can attract with the right frame of mind.

I don't want to completely lose myself and start simping for her, that's why I stopped chatting her after trying to find out what went wrong with her and what brought the sudden change and she gave some reasons - excuses.

Same thing stopped me from letting us meet when I travelled to where she schools and she was aware and even made plans for how she'd come to see me. I dodged it somehow because I wonder why my ex would still want to see me. To discuss what and what? And I didn't want to appear desperate , so I dodged. I've been entering the same city over and over without bothering her about my presence and she knows I come around.

I'm just feeling like giving her a chance next week because I'd still be here next week - at least to know why she was willing to meet up the other past weeks I came around and I didn't late let the meet up happen till I left.

I've got other babes though, only that she was my favourite amongst them all all through and she knows this fact.

Junnior:
What is wrong with you? The level of simping you have displayed is terrible.

Ghost that girl. Delete her number and go out to meet other girls.

Where and how have I simped ? I wanna know so I don't get to repeat...

Emmynator:
All this back and forth for a woman. What more sign do you want that she hasn't already shown eh?
If you know what's good for you, cut her off, she is playing games with you, and if you eventually get back together, then you are going to be in her frame.

Lost at she initiating we meet at a private place (twice) even though she states where she wanted (private) but reject my place or hotel but it has to be a room ...lol

Then after the breakup, why she was still interested in seeing me (she was even planning how we'd meet when I was telling her I wasn't going to be free)

What she wanna meet up for after breakup and all?

Shortyy:
You like her, and can't stop thinking about her. But you can't chat nor call her cuz u don't want to be a simp lol.

You're not ready then. Let her go and don't disturb us. Ego and pride be ruining relationships more than anything.

Lol, I should continue pressing on someone who told me we should end everything because she can't tell me to keep waiting ?

I told her I was never waiting anyway. The day you told me you wanted a break was the day I believe you ended everything.

I like her and she's aware (one more reason the shakara was much)

I should keep pressing and chatting someone who most probably is talking to someone who else but needed to give flimsy excuse as a reason to breakup ? Nay, I won't soil myself. I've had enough.

Godada:


In a relationship, it's either you both want it or you don't.

One underlying concern in most relationships is when the lady doesn't know what she wants.

So Op, this relationship has already gone to the dogs.

Salvage some dignity and let her shove it up her ass.

Break it up totally... don't call or text.

Since you got your yourself in love. Get out of it.

Never have been a fan of a relationship without intimacy. Never made sense to me in the past, still don't make sense moving into the future.

You stand a very good chance of been friend zoned.

Light up that gash quick, no dulling.

If she ain't having it.......let her be.

However, it's obvious there is something you do lack.

It's called closing the deal.

It's obvious she likes you but you didn't go all the way to make her yours. You have been guilty of dithering and stuttering.

No lady wants a guy who isn't sure of himself or where she stands in his life.

It's obvious you have lost this one.

I didn't play the nice guy game with her. I didn't everything humanly possible and with experience cos i know how I do my shii.

It's just f**ked up how she started getting confused and all then leading to all these decline and all.

Quite lengthy because I want to be as detailed as enough for better understanding..

We were great as friends that anyone could think we were dating even though by then, we were not dating at all, although we once had deep romance but no se.x because she wasn't ready and I wouldn't force or rape.

We kicked of relationship late last year and after a month, an issue came up where I had to travel for an exam and she had to go for her I.T. We couldn't hold our long phone calls like before , even though we still talk everyday but not as deep as we used to due to the new schedule.

After I was done with the exams , I called her a day after and told her I would speak with her later. Before the evening came, she dropped a breakup message for me on WhatsApp and I asked why, she told me she doesn't understand what's going on anymore because she noticed we didn't talk like before.

Made her realised that she ought to know that our schedule in the previous weeks wouldn't allow but now that exams are out of the way for me, we can talk often cos I wasn't really available during the exam time.

She complained that she would message me and I wouldn't reply quick on WhatsApp ...this was true sha cos those times, I might just be online and drop my phone somewhere or would be reading some stuff online here on WhatsApp so she felt I was ignoring or intentionally delaying the responses.

I Sha explained to her and everything got settled....

4 days later, she broke up again saying she still doesn't feel the vibe anymore that we were greater when we were friends than when Relationship entered.

I didn't press more on the dating again but she was still constantly giving the attention and acting like nothing happened. I wasn't sure if she had reconsidered or not. So I told a friend of mine who was her friend (male) to help me tease her a bit to even know her stand... She didn't know about this sha. She didn't know the guy was trying to find things out for me.

So he told the guy that she started dating me a month ago and then after a month, an issue came up. She explained what happened and how pained she was to feel avoided or taken for granted because I wasn't really responding to chats quickly like before...She told my friend that "now she doesn't even know if we're back or not"

Then she said after the first issue, she started thinking of some things... That now me the guy is done with school even though she knows I'm still doing Masters program of 2 years, not like she's planning on marriage but she doesn't know what might come up, secondly, age difference, I'm like 5 years older...then her sister doesn't know about the Relationship which she doesn't like...due to how close they're and the fact that when her previous relationship ended and she told her sister, her sister fought her for not letting her know about the Relationship till it ended.

Then she told my guy that I feel the issue of we dating or not has been settled but within her , she knows it's not settled and whether then or later, the breakup will still happen and everybody would be fine. She told my friend all these. Now, my friend told me everything she said but he refused to tell me this last part because she told him not to tell me.... It was when I checked their chat on my friends phone that I discovered myself. ...safe to say my friend knew it and didn't tell me.

I travelled down home last December and I didn't have it in mind to see her at all but she made suggestions twice that we should see...

First time, she suggested we see... She said she wanted a private place ..a roomm.. I told her no problem. Come to my place or we go to hotel... As those are the two options available, she rejected. But she wouldn't tell me where she wanted. On Jan. 1st, she told me that we should meet as well that her sister would cover up for her when she's leaving home... She wants a private place, rejected hotel or coming to my place.. . similar to first time. We couldn't get to see.

On the 3rd of January, she broke up saying we were having too many issues, her sister doesn't know about this and she doesn't like the fact that her sister doesn't know plus some other people she tells that she's single which wasn't a fair thing...and she's confused and not sure whether she wants the Relationship or not, that we were better as friends till Relationship came.
Till now, I didn't get what really happened...but she knows it that I really like her.

Though throughout last week, I was in her school city and I told her about it. She made plans to come see me but said she wouldn't sleep over...

I Sha didn't later let that plan work. I didn't bother letting her know when to come around to meet me at the hotel. ...till I left..

We are more of WhatsApp status viewers now sha. It's been over a month and I still can't stop thinking about her, couldn't get her off my head. I'm not chatting or talking to her so I don't appear desperate or simping.

I need advises / suggestions on this because I'd be travelling to her school city again next week and I'm lost between seeing her or not.

Quite lengthy because I want to be as detailed as enough for better understanding..

We were great as friends that anyone could think we were dating even though by then, we were not dating at all, although we once had deep romance but no se.x because she wasn't ready and I wouldn't force or rape.

We kicked of relationship late last year and after a month, an issue came up where I had to travel for an exam and she had to go for her I.T. We couldn't hold our long phone calls like before , even though we still talk everyday but not as deep as we used to due to the new schedule.

After I was done with the exams , I called her a day after and told her I would speak with her later. Before the evening came, she dropped a breakup message for me on WhatsApp and I asked why, she told me she doesn't understand what's going on anymore because she noticed we didn't talk like before.

Made her realised that she ought to know that our schedule in the previous weeks wouldn't allow but now that exams are out of the way for me, we can talk often cos I wasn't really available during the exam time.

She complained that she would message me and I wouldn't reply quick on WhatsApp ...this was true sha cos those times, I might just be online and drop my phone somewhere or would be reading some stuff online here on WhatsApp so she felt I was ignoring or intentionally delaying the responses.

I Sha explained to her and everything got settled....

4 days later, she broke up again saying she still doesn't feel the vibe anymore that we were greater when we were friends than when Relationship entered.

I didn't press more on the dating again but she was still constantly giving the attention and acting like nothing happened. I wasn't sure if she had reconsidered or not. So I told a friend of mine who was her friend (male) to help me tease her a bit to even know her stand... She didn't know about this sha. She didn't know the guy was trying to find things out for me.

So he told the guy that she started dating me a month ago and then after a month, an issue came up. She explained what happened and how pained she was to feel avoided or taken for granted because I wasn't really responding to chats quickly like before...She told my friend that "now she doesn't even know if we're back or not"

Then she said after the first issue, she started thinking of some things... That now me the guy is done with school even though she knows I'm still doing Masters program of 2 years, not like she's planning on marriage but she doesn't know what might come up, secondly, age difference, I'm like 5 years older...then her sister doesn't know about the Relationship which she doesn't like...due to how close they're and the fact that when her previous relationship ended and she told her sister, her sister fought her for not letting her know about the Relationship till it ended.

Then she told my guy that I feel the issue of we dating or not has been settled but within her , she knows it's not settled and whether then or later, the breakup will still happen and everybody would be fine. She told my friend all these. Now, my friend told me everything she said but he refused to tell me this last part because she told him not to tell me.... It was when I checked their chat on my friends phone that I discovered myself. ...safe to say my friend knew it and didn't tell me.

I travelled down home last December and I didn't have it in mind to see her at all but she made suggestions twice that we should see...

First time, she suggested we see... She said she wanted a private place ..a roomm.. I told her no problem. Come to my place or we go to hotel... As those are the two options available, she rejected. But she wouldn't tell me where she wanted. On Jan. 1st, she told me that we should meet as well that her sister would cover up for her when she's leaving home... She wants a private place, rejected hotel or coming to my place.. . similar to first time. We couldn't get to see.

On the 3rd of January, she broke up saying we were having too many issues, her sister doesn't know about this and she doesn't like the fact that her sister doesn't know plus some other people she tells that she's single which wasn't a fair thing...and she's confused and not sure whether she wants the Relationship or not, that we were better as friends till Relationship came.
Till now, I didn't get what really happened...but she knows it that I really like her.

Though throughout last week, I was in her school city and I told her about it. She made plans to come see me but said she wouldn't sleep over...

I Sha didn't later let that plan work. I didn't bother letting her know when to come around to meet me at the hotel. ...till I left..

We are more of WhatsApp status viewers now sha. It's been over a month and I still can't stop thinking about her, couldn't get her off my head. I'm not chatting or talking to her so I don't appear desperate or simping.

I need advises / suggestions on this because I'd be travelling to her school city again next week and I'm lost between seeing her or not.

Rhea:
What is the name of the antibiotics?

Sorry, was busy since.
The name of the Antibiotic drug is AUGMENTIN.

Adalassy:
Please Send me an email with full history to adamslaseio@gmail.com

When I say full history, I mean when it started, what you likely ate or drank and the medication you likely took prior to the reaction.

Also I would like to be given a breakdown of the medications you have ingested or applied topically.

I will expect your email please.

Hello, I just sent you a mail as requested.
Thanks for your concern, sir.

mechanics:
go and see a dermatologist.

I have seen TWO DERMATOLOGISTs

Rhea:
The fact that it does not itch portends to a systemic cause. It has something to do with what you are ingesting or what is happening inside your body. What medicines are you currently taking? Did you take any antibiotics in the last 6 months? Were you taking any medicines when this started?

Had sinusitis some months before this started. Took some antibiotics back then which cured it.
Drug was prescribed by a Medical Doctor.

I haven't changed the food I eat. Neither have I stopped taking any which I have been taking since inception except for breast milk of course.

Scout60:
What is the source of water you use to bath with?

Borehole. Pipped into the building.

Adalassy:
Thank you for replying.

What you have is known as systemic lupus erythematosus or Lupus for short.

It is a systemic auto immune disease which is often triggered by infections, certain drugs or even sunlight.

It is often difficult to diagnose because it mimics other symptoms and reactions but the picture you posted made it very clear to me what it was along with the response you gave to my question. I have handled a few so know about it.

Also this condition has brought about another condition for you called Sjogrens disease which is another autoimmune disorder. Sjogrens causes the glands responsible for tears and saliva to malfunction and cause sensations of dryness in your mouth often.

This can be handled via alternative medicine. Conventional medicine has no cure for it.

If you wish to have me treat you, then you can talk to me.

I'll be glad if you can give me the treatment. Can't bear this any longer.
Looking foward to hearing from you.

I actually meant DERMATOLOGIST. It's a mistake. I misused the terms. Please excuse my manners.

I have seen TWO DERMATOLOGISTs in the state Specialist hospital already.
The HIV test was NEGATIVE as well.

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DERMATOLOGIST not GYNECOLOGIST as earlier written pls..

Adalassy:
Hello OP I am an alternative medicine practitioner based in Ghana and already assisting some nairalanders here in Ghana and in Nigeria with solutions to their own medical conditions and skin conditions.

I am surprised that you had to go to a gynaecologist for a skin condition.

Anyway this is not a skin condition as you thought but the reaction is showing on your skin. There is however an underlying cause of this.

This is an inflammatory disease caused by your immune system attacking its own tissues. More like your body is fighting itself and this is why they could not detect anything at the lab.

I know what you have but before I can say it I need you to answer a few questions.

1) Do you sometimes or often feel pains in the muscles?

2) Do you sometimes feel pain while breathing?

3) Do you sometimes feel a sharp pain in the chest

4) Do you sometimes feel whole body fatigue or fever?

5) Does your mouth sometimes feel dry.

6) Are you suffering some form of hair loss or loss of scalp hair

7) Does your body feel sensitive to sunlight? I mean when under direct sunlight do the parts with the discoloration feel different?

Kindly respond to my questions then I can make things clear to you. Thank you

PS, a dermatologist cannot help you.

Just number 4 & 5 only.
I sometimes feel some creaking in my chest bone whenever I stretch myself or stretch my chest.
NO PAIN in muscles at all.

ibori1:
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mynd44.

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Dominique


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hope e no dey ur face

Not on the face. Just the thigh , and legs. Thanks.

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Please help push to front page

For months now, I have been having these dark coloured stuffs/layers on my skin of which I had to consult a medical doctor who in turn told me it's an "Allergy" after explaining to him that these dark layers doesn't scratch, itch or pain me except for the blemish it's causing on my skin.
NOT SCRATCHING
NO PAIN
NO ITCHING
Just the colour blemish.

He gave me some drugs prescription which I used for three weeks but no improvement. I went back to complain to him and he directed me to some Dermatologist in the state hospital.

The Dermatologist I met in the first week wrote several tests which I should do for me after explaining everything to her which I proceeded to the Lab to do.
Microfilaria test, Stool, Urine and see kinds of blood tests were carried out of which all tested NEGATIVE to whatever they have tested each specimen / sample for.

Took the results to the state hospital weeks after but I met another DERMATOLOGIST (Rotation) who later asked me to go for HIV test after showing her all the results and this blemish on my skin.

She told me the drugs and cream I used for the treatment in the first place won't work, but she reaffirmed that it's AN ALLERGY like the Medical Doctor told me in the first place.
She prescribed another cream of which I have used for weeks, yet, no changes!

Doctors, dermatologists in the house, please your help is needed.