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[size=18pt]In another News, Wande Cole supports Buhari. Now I understand: failures support failures[/size]
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tosyne2much:
Let no man deceive you,he's telling you lies not because he doesn't want you to get upset ooooo

The pure truth is,
He wants to be on top of the game and does not you to rate him beneath your other male suitors thereby placing himself above his capabilities and vice versa

Oahray:
Be observant, lying usually follows a pattern. Note the times you catch him in a lie and try to discern why he lied those times. Could it be fear of upsetting you? The need to impress you? To avoid responsibility for action or lack of it? That would help you know what to do about it.

teewai3:
Honesty and integrity are keys to getting respect form anyone. Never lie. A man can not respect you if he can not trust you..som lies are manageable, bt if its getting excess especially for insignificant things, then its too bad, may b u shud talk to him..

miztola:
OP better use your head and know how to follow him so you won't end up heartbroken at the long run,lies breeds mistrust and you wouldn't want that,don't be in a rush to do anything with him so u won't blame yourself.

LaurelP:
And pls change d way u write
Its too childish for someone of ur age
I can hardly read ur comments

Hawlahscho:
I think guys too shud be able to contribute to this. I don't know the kind of lie though but lies are different from lies, and lies change appearance and condemn trust.

What if he says d truth? would you av left him or got angry? he shud not av lied at all, he's not a straight forward guy (I think).

concerning your friend that said if he doesn't lie to you he doesn't respect you. She just missed it all and I conclude she has never been serious wit any guy.

the definition for respect shud be avoiding what can make you lie to her or what can make her sad. If a guy can compose small lie, expect big ones.

I ADVISE YOU TRAP HIM (WITH SENSE O)

MzPreshie:
Like you said, lying is normal, I mean who doesn't lie once in a while? But lying about petty things? Too bad. Persnally, I dislike being lied to but sometimes, some lies are excusable. So why don't you talk to him and know why he does that? Could be he was just tryna impress you with the lies. Don't hide and pretend everything is fine when it's not.

LaurelP:
Ok
It all depends on u
Do u like being lied to? If not den it doesn't mata wat ur friend said, u r not ur friend.
D problem wt u girls is dat u tend to stick wit guys who lie to u, but hate truthful ones.

And again, u listen way too much to friends, basing very important decisions on their opinions.

Mprex:
Guys lie, thats fact but when it becomes frequent and even on trivial issues then you have to watch it








maybe he is scared of saying something that will upset you. Yon need to make him more comfortable and free with you

Mprex:
Guys lie, thats fact but when it becomes frequent and even on trivial issues then you have to watch it








maybe he is scared of saying something that will upset you. Yon need to make him more comfortable and free with you

jcflex:
that not truth, to ur frnd dat is her own defination of man respect to a lady.

no mata hw hard d truth maybe, always tell ur partner the truth. dat brings more respect and trust to each other. which is good for any relationship.

LaurelP:
U nid advice from ladies only?

Sapphire86:
Yes o! I won't allow 130k destroy my destiny. Y would I collect the phone when I knew I want out? Some people sha

Unibenstudent:
well,I would feel bad though but so what u saying is that u don't regard physical things in love,u look for how his heart functions if its in rhythym with the wave movements of your heart ryt?

Zedric:
If only u knew what I wanted to post initially, u will commend me

I don't like girls like that

Zedric:
Harsh?? Na, I was being polite.

Unibenstudent:
like if u just meet a guy whom talks to u and u like how he talked to u ,,u would love him regardless of his physique/bank account etc

Unibenstudent:
hmm,ok,so for u anything goes ,,just love u need to like a guy ryt

Sapphire86:
U sef talk am!

Zedric:
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

Unibenstudent:
she is just been optimistic.wouldn't u like such a man though

Dygeasy:
This one na recently o. This Eid Celebration that just passed. I gave my tailor my ankara material to sew normal buba and trousers for me one week to Sallah and I paid him right there to avoid rushing and any stupid excuses. I left and gave him all the time in the world. ONE day to sallah I went to his shop and he had finished my trouser and had designed the buba. All that was left was to couple the buba and my cloth don gallant. I gave him the thumbs up sign. Instinct just say make I test-drive my trouser na hin I wear am o. Before the trouser enter my waist, I just dey pull am dey twist my waist. Trouser wey dey use rope faa, no be belt o. I no talk, I wear am like that. I con look myself by myself, I see say one leg na pencil, the other na bootcut. What tha? I looked at him. Wetin be this? "Hope you know I must collect this cloth today?"

His apprentice said "Ehn na. Shebi we don finish am?"

"Finish wetin? This one wey I wear resemble cloth for your eyes? Na you invent this style?"

The guy dey look.

"Answer na." I told him. "Oga," I faced my tailor."Who sewed my cloth?"

He had to tell me it was his apprentice. A girl for that matter. "A girl sewed my clothes? We don too play abi?"

I collected my cloth on Sallah dah gangan and the cloth no balance up till today. They had to loosen, resew, cut over and over again.

Dominionng:
Is he a son of a politician?

Cokacola:
i feel soo heart braken right now

KiddaBlingzz:
i might decide to play along but deep down i'l know you're lying

KiddaBlingzz:
i might decide to play along but deep down i'l know you're lying

KiddaBlingzz:
i'm a lie detecting machine

khukhi:
Marry the woman that you love. Its absolute torture to tolerate someone for the sake of pleasing them.

KiddaBlingzz:
they can't