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martinoonline:
And this is coming from a lady...You're a gem dear!

Gone through your profile, you've got a good grasp of relationship matters.

@Mzflexydeeva...I think you should consider a career in relationship & dating counseling. Have you?

Hmmmmmmmm! Well still considering but wud rather be a host on such issues. A lot of ladies are blinded by the norms of wat aa relationship shud be that they forget that there's no set rule. Some day I hope to get tje chaance cos it's something I really love doing.

vaca1:
you like my kinda of movies. let me help out here

mistresses
power
scandal
revenge

seen revenge, arrow, flash
Got tired of scandal, started mistresses. Will look 4 power

princessdairies:
a verybig school in abuja

it has branches in abuja, lagos & Kaduna..... I have someone attending that's y I asked. So he cud become a school father

ECOTERRORS:
wetin cosine u for dat one nw

shutting up is also a gift. U must not comment.

And yet every Saturday there's a wedding

Good morning fellas. Hope you all had a great night? Arise and shine

ronald4lif:
Nicely written. Headquarter's material.

headquarters no dey c dis kind tin o

Drinkwater:
Nice but nothing outta the unusual

ok

zinachidi:
one of those few threads in romance section that are actually worth reading and commenting on.. Nice one OP.,, u must be a very good girlfriend.

thanks

rollindollar:
you're welcome...am pretty sure, d guilty one's wil sn bombard, the thread to spew trash lyk they usually do...

you can say that again

MsBliss:
I pray

fast join

Cutehector:
Ehen... This is what I am talkn about ooooooo

what are you talking about?

Visocrate:
I want to appreciate the effort of all those who have been working tirelessly and selflessly to post job vacancies even the GNLD scammers , I just got a job with Nigerian Turkish international College with favourable condition of service . Destiny they said can only be delayed but not denied from the bottom of my heart I say God thank you for the previous ones and the one you gave me now be thou exalted now and forever more Amen , just tap from this prayers and believe God for yours, it neither comes from from North, South nor east and west but it comes from God Almighty.

which state?

rollindollar:
nice one op

thanks

fabiano09:
orange is the new black,
Mad men,
Masters of sex,
Blue mountain state,

cool! Thanks

Equality is a big problem among both sexes today. There is a common saying these days that "what a man can do a woman can do better" and it is no longer news that finding a perfect partner is impossible but as impossible as it is, some people still like to say they have found a perfect partner. Its not because they have really found a perfect man or woman but one who fits in perfectly.

Understanding is what makes a person fit in perfectly but it is rather sad to see some guys getting heart broken for their nice and cool attitudes. Some girls think its their right to have a nice guy around them but the truth is,  rather than feel it its your right, just be grateful you have a great guy.

Whereas some girls pray for a good guy, others take the guys they have for granted.
Some attitudes in guys which girls take for granted include:

1. GENEROSITY   - In this context, generosity is in terms of finances. Simply because he is generous enough to spend doesn't make it your right. Lots of girls are quick to abuse this gesture taking it as a sole entitlement. Some guys have the cash but will never spend it on a girl. So if a guy spends on you, don't take it as an opportunity to open an office or extort him. Learn to say thank you because the fact is, a guy gives because he wants to not because he has to. There's nowhere its written where a guy has to be financially responsible for you because he's dating you.

2. GENTILITY - A guy who treats you like a queen should be seen as a king. Simply because he's calm, polite, courteous doesn't mean he can't be bad or rude. Its really sad to see some ladies tarnishing the image of a guy they claim to love simply because he treats them with courtesy. A lot of simple, calm, polite guys are often taken as maga, they seem to be seen as weak when in actual sense they are the real men who know what it is to take care of a woman.

3. LIGHT HEARTED & PLAYFUL - Loving a guy who plays like you are both in primary school is to be desired. Dating a tyrant or a bossy guy is in itself bondage. That a guy plays with you a lot isn't enough to disrespect him irrespective of the age difference. Some guys enjoy having their girlfriends as play mates. This doesn't mean he's immature or probably childish but when you treat him like a child, disrespect or take him for granted because he's always in a cheerful mood and has a good heart, the essence of having a friend is defeated. There should always be a line irrespective of how free and playful a guy is with you.

4. PATIENCE - Most ladies take patient guys as fools, feel they can ride on them, mistreat them and even give a nonchalant attitude. Patience is a virtue. It takes a great man to know the value of patience and understand how it works. Its difficult to find people who are really patient today.  Don't think that because he is patient you can keep been the unbearable girl and he'll keep coming back. There is always so much a person can take. So when you have a guy who is patient with you, its not a reason to keep pushing him.

5. SINCERITY & OPENNESS - That he keeps you in the known isn't weakness. That he tells you everything isn't stupidity. That you know everything about him isn't your power.... A lot of ladies see this as weakness in as much as others crave for guys who keep no secret. He's not telling you things so you know when to use his weakness against him rather he confides in you out of trust. Don't make him look any more weak than he already accepted to you. Don't go about sharing his story, don't give him a biography of his weaknesses every time you have a fight. Be his safe place, a shoulder to always rest on.

6. LOVE - It is a common saying that " when a girl knows how you feel she will take advantage of you". This is rather alarming. In thus generation where love seem like a mirage it is surprising that some girls  would still find a guy who genuinely loves them but would over do things turning him into their toy or a maga or even their last option.  True love is hard to encounter but never turn a love so pure into darkness.

Our attitude towards people also affects the choices we make in life. It is that little thing that makes a big difference.

Wow! I feel cheated just finding this thread. Anyway its never too late. I love series & dats y i'm here.... suggestions plis

I've seen:
pretty little liars
Jane the virgin
Empire
Desperate housewives
If loving you is wrong
Single ladies
Devious maids
Prison break
One tree hill......
This just gives an idea of the kindda series I watch. Suggestions plis

Shegofams:
Good morning, how was ur night

hello! Hope u r good

Happy new month great people

igstars:
Am fine o...
And u?

am ok

Laredojohn:
Wasssup all, Mzflexydeeva how u doing being a while...do have a great week and month ahead

thanks dear! Wishing u d very same. How are uu?

The fact I know none of them leaves a lot to be questioned about.

What a nyc boo! Trying to cover ur unclothedness but u just had to expose urself abeg next tym mk she add charcoal e dey clean teeth wella

stanvesco:
dats wen i am free to pm...am not a bad boy o,and especially not on sundays.
Anyway do p.m ever work,
anytym i get nairaland pm,i reply bak n neva get response.
So be ma 1st frnd am makin on nairaland...

sure it works unless it goes to spam but I doubt. Sure let's c hw dt. Plays out

Donabydeco:
Thnkz..Can I send you a Pm?

sure

fajani:
i for fear you.... Can u add me up on bbm

sure! Just drop ur pin

popweezy:
take a look at ur d.p, iz dat u

yes ooo! It can't be any other person

fajani:
Why is your tongue out? Are you a vampire... I love that your signature

lol! If I be vampire e 4 mk sense ooo! Just been funny noni..... like d funny faces.

Mcbussy:
Hmm.. . Smart and interesting. I never thought of that 1. Thanx for d new discovery about women.

"Truly they don't know what they want, but surely they know what they don't want"... I'll add that to my literature review.

you are most welcome! Remember to quote me